Ubale wabwino m'banja. Maonekedwe a khalidwe

Banja ndi chinthu chamtengo wapatali kwambiri chomwe tingakhale nacho. Agogo anga aakazi adanenanso kuti mkazi aliyense amafunikira mwamuna, ndipo mosiyana. Tonsefe timakonda kumva mawu monga "Maukwati apangidwa kumwamba," choncho n'chifukwa chiyani anthu ambiri akusudzulana posachedwapa, nanga n'chifukwa chiyani ana amakula m'banja la kholo limodzi? Yankho lake ndi lodziwikiratu: sitingathe kumvetsetsana. "Chifukwa chiyani simunasudzuleko pang'ono?" Mukufunsani.
Inde, onse chifukwa amayi adatsegula maso awo kwambiri ndikukwaniritsa zomwe amuna amafuna. Nthawi zasintha, ndipo zatsopano - "zofanana" - zasintha machitidwe achikulire. Ndipo ife, tonse timabwereranso pazochitika ndi zochitika za makolo athu, sitingagwirizane ndi zikhalidwe zatsopano za moyo. Mutha kuwerengera mabuku pamaganizo a banja kwazaka mazana awiri, mutha kumvetsera msungwana ndi masomphenya ake a dziko lapansi kapena amayi ake, ndipo ndibwino kuyesa, poyamba mwa inu nokha, ndiyeno mwa munthu amene amapita nawe mmoyo.

Timaphunzira galamala kusukulu, koma palibe amene amatiphunzitsa momwe tingakhalire ubale wathu ndi munthu wokondedwa. Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti musaiwale kumvetsera kwa iye, kukhala ndi chidwi ndi zomwe amakonda. Mudzawauza kuti: "Ndichifukwa chiyani ndikuyenera kukhala ndi chidwi, ndikudziwa kale chirichonse, ndaphunzira chirichonse panthawi ya moyo wanga palimodzi?" Mudzalakwitsa, chifukwa anthu, monga anthu onse, amakula ndipo ndizochita zofuna zawo zimasintha. Wokondedwa wanu adzakondwera kuzindikira kuti malingaliro ake ndi zofuna zake sizikusiyana ndi inu. Momwemonso, mudzalandira kulondola ndi kutenga nawo mbali kuchokera kwa munthu wanu. Adzayamba kuchita chidwi ndi moyo wanu, motero mudzalimbitsa mgwirizano ndi kudalirana mu ubale wanu. Musati mudikire maswiti a maswiti mobwezera. Maganizo anu ayenera kukhala owona mtima kapena ooneka ngati amenewo.

Moyo wathu uli ndi zinthu zing'onozing'ono. Iwo amaikidwa mu kukumbukira ndipo pa nthawi yomwe iwe umasungulumwa, iwo amayandama, kutipatsa ife mtundu wa recharge. Timayamba kukambilana izi ndi amuna athu ndipo kachiwiri zida zosaoneka zachikondi zimakhala zazifupi ndipo tikuyandikira. Inu simungakhoze kuwuza theka lanu za momwe iye aliri woyipa. Mitu imeneyi iyenera kuti inadzipweteka kwambiri isanakwatirane kapena isanakwatirane. Yemwe amafuna kupereka kutentha, chisamaliro ndi chikondi pamene akukumana kuchokera kumalopo ndi mawu akuti: "Izi si zomwe munachita komanso chifukwa chake mudapitako." Muyenera kumupangitsa munthuyo kumverera kuti nyumba yake ndi malo omwe amamvetsetsa komanso kuthandizidwa nthawi zonse. Ubwino wokha umayankhidwa mokoma mtima. Ndikofunikira kuti tiyankhulane. Tiyenera kukambirana mbali zonse za moyo wathu.

Ndikofunika kunena maphwando apamtima omwe amafuna kusintha. Kutseguka kwa amayi mu zinthu zakuya kumayambitsa kuyamikira kwakukulu. Pambuyo pake, pakupita kwa nthawi, lawi la chilakolako limatha pang'onopang'ono ndipo ndikofunikira kuti zithandizire nokha komanso mwa munthu wanu. Chimodzimodzinso, kudalira ndi kumvetsetsa kumathandiza kuti mukhalebe ndi zibwenzi, zomwe ziri, ndikuzikulitsa. Ngati mukuona kuti mukuyamba kutaya kugwirizana kwanu, nkofunika kusintha maganizo anu pa zomwe mukuchita ndi zomwe zikukuyenderani, kuti mukhale olimba komanso ndithu, kuti mupatulire munthu wanu zomwe zikuchitika. Mudzamverera chithandizo, chifukwa ndinu wokondedwa kwambiri ndi munthu wapafupi kwa iye. Ngati mwakhumudwa ndi zochita za mnzanu, simukusowa kufuula, kutsimikizira, kapena kumenyera mbale. Zokwanira kufotokoza zokhumudwitsa zanu mu mawonekedwe ofatsa. Ngati simulandira yankho lolondola, kulungamitsidwa kapena mawonekedwe a chisankho, muyenera kungokhumudwa! Munthu wachikondi, kapena kuyamikira maubwenzi anu achikondi, kuti asasokoneze chiwerengero cha m'banja, adzakhumudwitsa. Banja lamangidwa pamagwirizano amodzi. Apo ayi, posachedwa mudzasiyidwa nokha ndipo padzakhala nthawi yambiri yoganizira zomwe mwachita. Banja ndi dziko laling'ono limene muli malamulo komanso omwe sangathe kuloledwa kunja. Samalirani wina ndi mzake ndipo khalani okondwa!