Ndi kukula kwa moyo wamakono wamakono komanso kusowa kwa chuma chambiri, mabanja ambiri achinyamata amakumana ndi zovuta, zikuwoneka kuti, ndi maubwenzi atakhazikitsidwa patali. Mafunso osatha amazunza atsikana ndi anyamata okondedwa - chidzachitike ndi chiyanjano chawo, malingaliro awo? Kodi padzakhala chikondi chimodzi, kugonjetsedwa ndi mayesero a nthawi ndi kulekanitsidwa? Kuonetsetsa kuti deta ndi zina zotheka sizipezeka, gwiritsani ntchito mosavuta komanso panthawi yomweyi kuti malamulowo akhale abwino.
Lamulo nambala 1. Tengani zonse mopepuka
Inde, si zophweka, makamaka pachiyambi cha kulekanitsidwa, kusiya chirichonse monga momwe ziliri. Koma pali mbali yotsutsana ya ndondomekoyi. Iye sali omasuka kwambiri mu nthawi ino kuposa iwe. Ali ndi siteji yatsopano mu moyo, ntchito yatsopano, odziwa. Inunso musamatsatire pambuyo pa chitukuko ndikusungunuka pang'onopang'ono mukayikira kunyumba. Muyeneranso kudzikakamiza kuti muchite zinthu zomwezo tsiku lililonse, musanayambe wokondedwa wanu. Kuti zikhale zosavuta, maganizo anu adziganizire nokha kuti ndinu abwino kapena abwino pa dziko lonse lapansi, komanso kumbukirani kuti kulekanitsa ndi chinthu chokhalitsa chomwe chidzatha posachedwa.
Lamulo nambala 2. Pezani mwayi wokambirana ndi wokondedwa wanu
Ngakhale kuti wokondedwa pa gawo ili lamoyo ali kutali ndi inu, fufuzani mwayi wokambirana zambiri za momwe mumamvera, kutentha kwa chisanu kapena zochitika zina zomwe zimakuvutitsani m'mawa, tsiku, madzulo komanso usiku. Mufunseni za zochitika zatsopano kumalo atsopano, omwe amatha kupeza mabwenzi, kudziwana, yesetsani kuphonya nthawi imodzi yopanda nthawi, chifukwa moyo uli wofupika kuti usataya mphamvu zanu ndi mphamvu zanu kuti muwononge maubwenzi anu komanso kuti mumakonda ndani ndi ndani. Chifukwa cha kuwonjezereka kwa mapulogalamu amakono monga Internet, Skype, ICQ, SMS, e-mail, ngakhale foni yam'manja komanso zina zambiri zamakono zamakono, mwayi wothandizana ndi wokondedwa wanu ndi misa. Ngati simunaphunzire kugwiritsira ntchito mphatso zonse za IT-technologies, ndiye kuti zingakhale zosasangalatsa kuti mutengepo phunziro lofulumira. Phunziroli lidzakuthandizani kuti mupulumuke nthawi yolekanitsa mofulumira, ndipo luso lomwe mumapeza liyenera kukhala lothandiza pa ntchito iliyonse, chifukwa ndondomeko ya makompyuta imakhala yapadziko lonse lapansi.
Lamulo nambala 3. Uzani theka wokondedwa wanu mawu oti "Ife"
Mosasamala kanthu kuti amuna amakhala osaganizira kwambiri kuposa akazi, komabe palibe amene avulaza kukhudzidwa kwawo. Kaŵirikaŵiri funsani theka lanu lachiwiri, potero mukupanga arezoloboty ndi kudzoza. Ndipotu, zimakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri kuti munthu aliyense amve mawu oti "ife", kusiyana ndi kuyankhula kosalekeza komwe mumagula kapena kuzilandila, osati kufunsa, koma kungoziyika patsogolo pazomwezo. Mukhozanso kukonzekera mlungu umodzi kapena sabata. Chinthu chachikulu ndikulola chilakolako chanu chidziwe kuti mumachikonda ndikuchiyembekezera ndi chipiriro.
Lamulo nambala 4. Tengani kujambula kwatsopano
Kuchita bizinesi monga mwachizolowezi, musaiwale kukhala bwino tsiku lirilonse, kuti musokonezedwe ndi maganizo okhumudwa mutayendera inu mofanana. Kuti mukwaniritse cholinga ichi, tengani zolaula kapena chidwi. Khulupirirani kuti mungathe, poyesetsa kukonzekera kuti mukhale nkhanza, kuti mudzipange nokha bwino, mwatsatanetsatane, mutsimikizidwe ndi lingaliro la zomwe kapena theka lanu likukuwonani. Ndi chiyani chomwe chili chabwino-kukhala kachipangizo kapena womenyera akuyesera kusunga mtendere wamaganizo ndi kusamala? Inde, muyenera kumenyana ndi chisangalalo, motero, tikulumikiza thukuta latsopano kwa munthu wokondedwa wanu kapena mupite kuchipatala, kuphunzira chinenero chachilendo, komanso makamaka awiri kapena atatu nthawi yomweyo. Pamene mumakhala kwambiri tsiku lanu, mwamsanga nthawi yopatukana idzatha.
Lamulo nambala 5. Onetsani zoletsa m'mawu ndipo mwanjira iliyonse muthandizire kuchepetsa
Musanyozedwe pa chirichonse chomwe wokondedwa wanu! Tangoganizani, mungachite chiyani pamalo ake? Mkhalidwe watsopano wa mzinda kapena dziko la wina ndizo yeseso lalikulu kwa munthu amene achoka ndi ena onse kuyembekezera munthuyo. Ganizirani za nthawi yabwino yopatukana, ngakhale pali ena mwa iwo, komabe yesetsani kudziika nokha mmanja mwanu ndipo musakhale ndi vuto lokhazika mtima pansi komanso kuti musayese - muike makhalidwe angapo omwe simukusowapo theka lanu. Onetsani zoletsera m'mawu anu, chifukwa kuswa mgwirizano wakumwamba ndi wosavuta, koma ndi kovuta kwambiri kulumikiza.
Khulupirirani ine, padzakhala nthawi yochuluka, ndipo mwinamwake mudzaseka nthawi zina zokhudzana ndi kulekana. Ndipo, monga akunena, zingakhale bwino kukumbukira zomwe muyenera kukumbukira pa ntchito yopuma pantchito kapena kuuza achinyamata, ndi bwino kuti musalole kakhshybok kuti achoke pa zomwe zimatchedwa "kupatukana" ndi wopambana, osati wogonjetsedwa.