Posachedwapa, pofuna kuthana ndi kusabereka, pitirizani kukhala ndi amayi apamtima mobwerezabwereza. Ubwino wobadwira umakhalapo chifukwa chakuti mimba ya makolo (mu pulogalamu yomwe imatchedwa kuti makasitomala) imakololedwa ndi mayi wokondedwa, iye mwiniyo ndi mwana yemwe wabadwa alibe ubale wamtundu. Mayi woterewa anagwiritsidwa ntchito kumayambiriro kwa zaka za m'ma 1970, pamene "mwana woyamba" akubadwa. Ndipo mtundu uwu wa umayi wapadera unayamba kutchedwa "gestational". Ku Russia, amayi amasiye amaloledwa, koma m'mayiko angapo amaletsedwa kugwiritsira ntchito amayi amasiye.
Maphunziro a amayi omwe amakondwera nawo nthawi zina (mwachitsanzo, ngati chifukwa cha opaleshoni, mkazi sangathe kukhala ndi ana) ndi mwayi wokhawokha kuti akhale ndi mwana wawo. Kupanda mphamvu kungabwere chifukwa chosowa chiberekero, chomwe chinachotsedwa chifukwa cha kutuluka kwa magazi pa nthawi ya ululu, fibroids. Nthawi zina amayi omwe ali ndi ziphuphu za uterine kapena ndi matenda aakulu omwe amalepheretsa zotsatira zokhudzana ndi chithandizo cha mimba ku mautumiki a amayi apakati. Amayi osakanikirana angagwiritsidwe ntchito ndi amayi omwe nthawi zambiri amachotsa mazira abwino ku chiberekero, koma mayesero onse alephera.
Pulogalamu yotereyi m'mayiko ena yaletsedwa chifukwa cha chipembedzo, koma ku Russian Federation, Family Code imapereka lamulo loti amayi azikhala ndi ana awo. Pansi pa malamulo omwe alipo, mayi wovomerezeka ali ndi ufulu wosankha zomwe zidzachitike mwanayo. Mwachidule, mayi wokondweretsa mwana akhoza kusunga mwana wake ndipo palibe chimene mungachitepo. Makolo achibadwa angathe kutenga mwanayo pokhapokha mayiyo atakana. Zinthu zachipatala pankhaniyi mpaka pano sizinazindikire mpaka mapeto a dongosololi.
Kotero, mu zochitika izi, anthu angapo amathandizidwa - mayi woponderezedwa ndipo, ndithudi, makolo achibadwa. Mayi wodalirika akhoza kukhala ndi banja lake, omwe asanakhale ndi udindo wake, choncho nthawi zina chisankhocho chimasintha, ngakhale kuti mbali zonse ziwirizo zinasaina zikalata zonsezo polemba. Kukula koteroko kumaloledwa ndi lamulo. Mimba ingasokonezedwe chifukwa chakuti makolo achibadwa mwazifukwa zina safuna kukhala ndi mwana wamba. Mu umayi wapamtima pali mfundo imodzi yofunikira - kupeza mkazi wathanzi. Mwamwayi, pafupifupi theka la amayi oponderezedwa amakhala ndi thanzi laling'ono, kotero n'kosatheka kuwonetsa kuwonjezereka kwa matenda aakulu omwe akupezekapo (chifukwa cha makolo omwe amatha kukana mwana wamtsogolo). Inde, komanso kuti panthawi ya mimba chifukwa cha kuchepa kwa chitetezo cha mthupi, sipadzakhalanso matenda atsopano, omwe sangathe.
Malingana ndi chiwerengero, kutenga mimba ndi njira iyi ya umuna kumachitika pafupifupi 30 peresenti ya milandu, kuchuluka komweko monga njira ya IVF. Koma mazira omwe amakhalapo pa nthawi yoyamba (amayi apachibale) ndi apamwamba kwambiri, nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi mimba yambiri, yomwe imakhala ndi chiopsezo chachikulu. Ndikoyenera kudziwa kuti mayi wathanzi wathanzi akhoza kukhala ndi ectopic mimba (yomwe imapezeka mwa amayi awiri ochepa).
Kukhala ndi thanzi labwino komanso malingaliro a mwana wamwamuna watsopano wam'tsogolo kumadalira momwe mkazi amachitira mosamala. Nthawi zina, amai omwe amapanga nawo pulogalamu ya amayi amodzi mwa amayi awo amakhala ndi malingaliro a amayi kwa mwana wam'tsogolo, zomwe zimamuvuta kuti apereke mwana kwa makolo awo. Ngakhale zili choncho, mavoti omwe amaika nawo mobwerezabwereza pulogalamuyi amadziwika. Azimayi okondwerera nawo pulogalamuyi akukwaniritsa mokwanira maudindo awo - ndizofuna ndalama.
Azimayi opitilira ntchito amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi anthu omwe akusowa ana, ndipo pulogalamuyi imatha kuthetsa mavuto akuluakulu a anthu ndikuwapatsa mwayi wokhala ndi ana awo. M'mabanja a "makasitomala" makanda, monga lamulo, amayembekezeredwa kwambiri ndipo amawakonda kwambiri.