Zikuwoneka kuti ndizopachiyambi komanso zophweka - kunena mawu atatu ophweka ndi ofunika kwambiri akuti "ndimakukondani". Koma, mwatsoka, sikuti aliyense angathe kuzinena chimodzimodzi kuti agwire zakuya kwa moyo. Inde, zizindikiro za chikondi ndi chisamaliro zisamangokhala tsiku limodzi pachaka, ndipo zina zambiri zimveka nthawi yomaliza pa tsiku la ukwati. Choncho, yankho la funsoli: "Kodi ndi bwino kuvomereza chikondi ngati mwakhala m'banja kwa nthawi yaitali? "Ndizodziwika kwambiri ndi zophweka. Kuvomereza kuti chikondi ndi nthawi zonse, ziribe kanthu momwe mulili pamodzi komanso ngati mwakwatirana kapena ayi. Mukhoza kupereka maluwa ndi phokoso tsiku ndi tsiku, koma izi sizitengera mau okhudza momwe mumamvera. Pambuyo pa zonse, mu nkhani za mtima, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti chirichonse chiyenera kubwera kuchokera ku moyo womwewo. Choncho, musagwiritse ntchito mawu pamfundo, chikondi, chifundo.
Kuti mukondane, muyenera kutsimikizira malingaliro anu .
Lingaliro lakuti okwatirana amakondana nthawi zonse, amathandiza manja a phwando, panthawi iliyonse yovuta kwa iwo. Mwa njira, nthawi zina zinthu zosavuta tsiku ndi tsiku zimakhala zisonyezero zabwino za chikondi ndi chifundo. Mwachitsanzo, inu ndi wokondedwa wanu munapita ku dacha. Pazinthu za dacha m'munda, iye mwadzidzidzi anang'amba duwa ndipo mosayembekezereka anabwera kwa inu ndipo, ndikumupatsa iye, anakuuzani momwe amakukonderani. Zing'onozing'ono, koma zabwino. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, "chikondi chopitilira cha chosakhala chachikondi."
Mwa njira, chionetsero cha chikondi muukwati chikhonza kukhalanso ntchito yamba yapakhomo: kuyeretsa nyumba, kutsuka mbale kapena makina kapena kutsuka zovala. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kuchita zonse pamodzi ndikuthandizana kuchokera pansi pamtima. Koma pamene akusonkhanitsa mwamuna wake kuntchito ndikumuphikira chakudya cham'mawa, mukhoza kulemba cholembera mamasangweji ndi mawu ovomerezeka. Kuntchito, kupereka masangweji, adzapezadi ndipo adzasangalala kwambiri. Akhoza kukuvetserani chikondi chake mwa kuika kalatayi mu thumba lanu.
Kambiranani za chikondi panthawi yomwe muli pamodzi .
Kawirikawiri zimachitika kuti anthu, pokhala pachibale, amathera nthawi yambiri pantchito yawo ndipo chifukwa cha ichi alibe nthawi yokwanira yopanda kanthu. Koma izi siziri chifukwa chosawonetserana maganizo awo. Yesetsani kupereka tsiku limodzi pamwezi nokha. Patsiku lino, ndibwino kuti mupatuke pafupipafupi kuti mupite kukalandira alendo komanso kunyumba. Ana usiku womwewo amatengedwa bwino kwa agogo awo. Gwiritsani ntchito tsiku lino palimodzi mukumvana kwathunthu ndi kumvetsetsa. Kukhala amtete-tete, kusangalala kulankhulana wina ndi mzake. Werengani pamodzi mabuku ena osangalatsa, ogona pabedi limodzi, yendani kuzungulira cholembera paki kapena usiku, pita ku chilengedwe kapena kungokonza chakudya chamakono kunyumba ndi makandulo. Musaganize kuti ngati muli okwatirana, ndiye kuti maganizo anu ndi achilendo kwa inu. Pambuyo pa zonse, chinthu chachikulu ndikuti mukhala ndi nthawi yosangalatsa ndikupeza zosangalatsa zambiri.
Mwa njira, mungathe, kusonkhanitsa zinthu mwadzidzidzi, kupita kwinakwake kukapuma, zomwe zowonjezera chikondi cha banja lanu. Izi zidzakutsitsimutseni ndikuthandizani ubale wanu ndipo mudzafuna kukamba za chikondi nthawi zonse.
Ndiponso, kukumbukira zaka zomwe anakhalako pamodzi kapena nthawi imene mudangodziwa bwino ukwati wanu usanayambe kuwathandiza kumatsitsimutsa. Khulupirirani kuti mawu ngati "Mukukumbukira ...? ", Bweretsani anthu palimodzi bwino. Sungani zithunzi za albamu zanu, izi zidzakhala nthawi yabwino kwambiri yowonetsera zithunzi.
Ndipo, monga tanena kale, udindo wa mawu ndi wofunikira kwambiri m'chikondi. Kuwatchula mokweza kapena mokong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onong'onongeka. Makamaka mawu awa amveka bwino komanso amamvetsera mdima usiku wonse wokhala ndi chilakolako ndi chikondi.
Kulingalira ndilo lonjezo loyamba la chikondi .
Mukhoza kusonyeza chikondi kwa mnzanu, ngakhale kumumvetsera mwachidwi. Ngati ali ndi mavuto aliwonse, muyenera kulankhula naye nthawi zonse ndikumuthandiza. Muwonetseni momwe iye aliri wamtengo wapatali kwa inu ndi kuti iye akhoza kudalira pa inu nthawizonse. Kumbukirani kuti ubale ndi kumvetsetsa muukwati ndikofunika kwambiri kuposa kugonana kapena chitetezo chachuma cha banja. Kuti inu mulambidwe, ndi kuvomereza kwa chikondi kunali tsiku ndi tsiku komanso wamba, phunzirani kuchitira theka lanu lachiwiri momwe mukufuna kuti likuchitireni.
Kulumikizana mwathupi pothandizidwa ndi chikondi .
Ndikofunika kuzindikira chikondi komanso kusaiwala za kukhudzana ndi thupi ndi mnzanuyo. Mawu okhudza kumverera, owonjezeredwa ndi kukhwima kolimba kapena kofatsa, amatha kuthandizana bwino. Pambuyo pa zonse, mwa njira yosonyezera malingaliro anu kwa wokondedwa wanu - uwu ndi sitepe yoyenera kwambiri pa njira yoyanjana mumoyo wa banja. Mwa njira, mukhoza kunena mawu omwe mumakonda kwambiri za chikondi, ngakhale kungotenga dzanja kapena kumakhudza ndi kumayang'ana m'maso mwake.
Ndipo, khalani okondweretsa okondweretsa okondweretsa kapena osamba pamodzi ndi mafuta onunkhira. Dziwani kuti kufotokoza kotereku ndikofunika kwambiri kwa onse awiri. Ndipo sizidalira zaka zomwe akhala pamodzi. Ndiponsotu, zaka zokhazo anthu amayesa kuti amve mphamvu zawo. Choncho, ngati mutatha zaka zisanu kapena khumi kapena zoposa zaukwati mungathe kulankhulana momasuka kuti: "Ndimakukondani! ", - dziwani kuti malingaliro anu ndi oona mtima komanso oyera. Kotero, musaiwale kunena mawu achikondi omwe ayenera kukhala ochokera pansi pamtima mwako. Pomwepo mukhoza kupeza chimwemwe chenicheni cha banja. Chikondi, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, kondani ndipo usabisire malingaliro anu. Mbuye wabwino kwa inu!