Choonadi chakale chimati munthu sangasinthe. Komabe, mtsikana aliyense mu moyo amakhulupirira kuti mwinamwake iye, wokondedwa wake, sali wofanana ndi wina aliyense. Bwanji ngati atapambana kusintha? Nkhani zachikondi zosiyanasiyana za anzanu komanso odziwa za mphamvu zamatsenga za chikondi, zomwe zimasintha kwambiri munthu, zimangowonjezera chiyembekezo. Chifukwa cha zofanana, zomwe zakhala zikugwiritsidwa ntchito, mkazi amayesera kumvetsa zovuta za iye kutali ndi munthu wabwino, pomwe akufotokozera zifukwa zambiri za zochita zake zoipa.
Kuyambira kukhala ndi mwamuna, mkazi amakakamizidwa kuti azilimbana ndi zofooka zake nthawi zonse. Pa nkhondo yovutayi, palibe nthawi kapena mphamvu kuti ingakhale ndi chimwemwe cha nthawi yogawana nawo. Pali lingaliro pakati pa anthu kuti ngati simungathe kusintha vutoli, mukhoza kuyesa kusintha maganizo awo. Mwachitsanzo, khalidwe loipa limakhala loopsya pokhapokha ngati tikulingalira.
Kodi "khalidwe lolemera" ndi chiyani?
Maina a mwamuna yemwe zimakhala zovuta kuti azigwirizana naye gawo limodzi, pali zambiri. Kawirikawiri m'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku mumatha kumva zizindikiro zotsatirazi - "wong'onong'onong'ono", "wodandaula", "beech", "wosamvera". Kusankhidwa kwa chikhalidwe chokhumba kumadalira malingaliro a mkazi, yemwe amazoloŵera kufotokoza malingaliro ake momveka bwino, kapena mosiyana amalingalira kusankha fomu yowonjezera, kuti asawononge banja idyll.
Ndi zinthu ziti zomwe ziyenera kuchitika chifukwa chovuta - ndizovuta kunena. Palibe amene angatenge mzere pakati pa zovomerezeka ndi zolephera zosavomerezeka. Komabe, pali uphungu wochuluka, ndikupempha nthawi kuti mukhale chete kapena mukuvutika, kuti musayambe kutsutsana kwambiri.
Kuphunzitsa mwamuna kuti apindule yekha
Amuna ayenera kukhala ophunzira monga ana. Ntchito ya mkazi kuti afotokoze, ndipo mwinamwake amuphunzitsenso wokondedwa kuti azigwira ntchito zina pakhomo komanso popanda zikumbutso zina, kuti athe kutenga nawo mbali kuthetsa mavuto a m'banja, ngakhale atakhala ndi zotsutsana nazo.
Mu malingaliro a amayi, pazifukwa zosadziwika, chikhumbo cholimba chimapangidwira osati kungofuna kukangana kuti athetse vuto, komanso kukhala ndi munthu makhalidwe omwe, mwa lingaliro lake, akusowa. Chotsatira chake, udindo waukulu ukugwera pamapewa a mtsikana, pokhapokha ndi udindo kwa mwana wake, zomwe ziyenera kukonzekera moyo wamtsogolo. Kusiyanitsa kokha ndiko kuti kulera kwa mwana posachedwa kapena mtsogolo kumakulungamitsidwa, koma ndizosatheka kunena izi za wokondedwa.
Mayi akhoza kupeza zifukwa zambiri zogonjetsera zofooka za amuna. Zina mwa izo ndizofunikira kwambiri: pakuti mkazi kusintha kwa munthu ndi njira yopita ku moyo wautali ndi wosangalala, wopanda mavuto ndi mavuto. Agwirizane ndi izi kapena ayi - mtsikana aliyense ayenera kusankha yekha. Mwachitsanzo, mukhoza kupanga mayeso osavuta: kulembera mndandanda wa zipilala ziwiri, pomwe mbali ya kumanzere imasonyeza zoyenera, komanso zolakwika. Mayeso oterewa amamukumbutsa mkazi yemwe ali wokondedwa weniweniyo komanso makhalidwe ake omwe amamukonda.