Nchifukwa chiyani amai amayesa kukopa chidwi cha amuna? Izi zingathe kutsutsidwa kwa maola ambiri. Akazi sangakhoze kuchita popanda chidwi cha amuna, monga momwe amuna sangathe kuchita popanda chidwi cha amayi. Amayi ambiri nthawi zambiri ankadabwa momwe angakopererere amuna. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kudziwa zovuta zonse za psychology, komanso zomwe mumakonda komanso zosankha za munthu wanu wosankhidwa.
Kotero amamangidwa mwachirengedwe, kuti mkazi wopanda mwamuna alibe ponseponse, ndipo okhawo omwe ali okonda akazi amatha kusankha izi, omwe malingaliro awo amatsogolera pachabe. Mkazi aliyense, chilakolako cha kubala mwana, kupanga banja, ndipo, chofunika kwambiri, kukonda ndi kukondedwa, ndi chilengedwe. Ichi, mwina, ndicho cholinga chodabwitsa kwambiri.
Koma ndi chiyani chomwe chiyenera kuchitidwa kuti apange chibwenzi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi chomwe chingawatsogolere ku banja losangalala? Akatswiri a zamaganizo amatsimikiza kuti mu chidziwitso cha munthu aliyense, mtundu wa wokondedwa womwe uli woyenera kwambiri kwa ife umayikidwa poyamba. Ndipotu, timakopeka mosavuta ndi anthu ena, mawonekedwe a wina, fungo, khalidwe. Ubale wautali komanso wamphamvu kwambiri umayamba ndi kukonda, koma poyamba muyenera kukopa chidwi cha mnzanuyo. Choyamba, muyenera kudzifufuza nokha kuti mumakonda munthu wotani. Muyenera kukopa chidwi cha munthu mmodzi, osati onse mzere. Malinga ndi akatswiri a maganizo, tikuyenera "kudzipangira" mnyamata wa maloto anu. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kulemba pa pepala makhalidwe onse amene mukufuna kuwona mwa anyamata anu. Ndiyetu ndikuyenera kulembera zomwe zingakhale zabwino kuti muwone, koma mukanatha. Koma musaiwale kuti anthu abwino salipo, kotero ngati mutero, talingalirani ndi kulemba pa pepalapo zolakwitsa zomwe sizingakupangitseni kukwiyitsa ndi kusakhutira. Mwina simungatsutsane ndi njirayi, koma idzagwira ntchito pansi pa chikumbumtima chanu chopanda chidziwitso. Kusamala kwa kukongola kwa amuna sikovuta, ndikwanira kungodzikonda nokha ndi maonekedwe anu.
Muyenera kusiya kuganizira zolakwa zanu zonse, chifukwa amayi ambiri amadzalakwitsa okha, kuyambira pachiyambi. Kumbukirani kuti mkazi yemwe nthawi zonse amakhala wosangalala, wokondwa, wokhulupirira, wabwino, nthawi zonse amakopa chidwi cha amuna. M'nthawi yathu ino, amayi ambiri sasangalala ndi iwo komanso maonekedwe awo. Tulutsani tsankho lonse kuchokera pamutu ndikuzindikira kuti pamene mumaganizira kwambiri zolakwa zanu, mukamawopsyeza mnzanuyo ndipo simungakope chidwi cha munthu. Muyenera kuyesetsa ndi mphamvu zanu zonse kuti mukhale okongola, koma ziribe kanthu kuti msinkhu wanu ndi wotani, ndi tsitsi lanu lomwe liri. Khalani omasuka kuwonetsera ulemu wanu wonse, mu njira zonse kuchotsa zolephera zanu, ndipo chofunika kwambiri kumbukirani nthawi zonse kuti ndinu wokongola!
Ukhondo
Kukongola kwachikazi kumakhudzana ndi ukhondo ndi mwatsopano - thupi, tsitsi, nsalu, nsapato ndi zovala. Nsalu zakuda, mpweya woipa kapena fungo la thukuta, tsitsi loipitsidwa - zonsezi sizilandiridwa kwa mkazi. Zimakhulupirira kuti anthu makamaka amasamala tsitsi la mkazi, kotero kuti chiyero chawo ndi kukongola ndizofunikira kwambiri kuti zinthu ziziwayendera bwino.
Zodzoladzola ndi zodzoladzola
Chimodzi mwa magawo ofunikira okopa chidwi ndi zodzoladzola ndi kupanga kokongola. Mkazi aliyense amagwiritsa ntchito zodzoladzola ndipo aliyense amachita mosiyana. Ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito makonzedwe abwino, zidzakupangitsani kukhala okongola, ndipo ngati mukuwoneka, mudzawoneka osasamala komanso osakhala abwino. Maonekedwe owala kwambiri ndi owopsa angakuopsezeni munthu. Koma amuna samakonda kwambiri kugwiritsira ntchito zodzikongoletsera, nthawi zambiri amanena kuti akazi ndi okongola popanda izo, okha. Musapereke zodzikongoletsa kwambiri ku zodzoladzola, osadandaula za momwe mungapangire nkhope yanu yonse.
Chithunzi ndi kulemera
Chithunzi - ichi ndi phunziro lopweteka kwambiri kwa amayi ambiri. Mitundu ya thupi ndi yosiyana kwambiri, ndipo ngati muli ndi mafupa ochuluka kuchokera pamene mukubadwa, ndiye kuti mutha kugwiritsa ntchito zakudya zambiri, komanso opanda chiuno chochepa ndi ntchafu. Pa zakudya zovuta muyenera kuganizira pazochitikazo pamene chiwerengero chanu chimawononga mafuta ochulukirapo, omwe amawotchera ndi mitsinje. Yambani kudya bwino, pitani ku masewera, kuti musathamangire chiwerengero chanu.
Kodi tingavalidwe motani?
Kodi tingavalidwe motani, kuti anthu ayambe kuwamvetsera? Kwa ichi, palibe chifukwa chotsatira mafashoni. Kuvala ndi kofunika kuti tigogomeze kukongola kwake konse, mawonekedwe, kuti anthu, akuyang'anani, ayamikire kukoma kwanu ndi kukongola kwanu. Amuna ambiri amawakonda kwambiri pamene mkazi amavala madiresi, miketi yodula, zinthu zaulere. Zovala zimayenera kugula zoyenera, kuti zikhale zoyenera.
Chofunika koposa, ndi kudzikonda nokha kuti ndiwe ndani, kuti musaiwale za zoyenera zanu ndipo zidzakhala zosavuta kuti mumveke chidwi cha munthu.