Zimakhala zovuta kupeza munthu yemwe sakonda mphatso zokoma komanso zochita zachikondi. Zakachitika mbiriyakale kuti ntchito zomwe zimachitidwa mdzina la chikondi, makamaka, amuna, pamene atsikana ayenera kukhala pa nsanja zazikulu, akuusa moyo. Koma ngati kale zinthu zonse zikanakhala zopambana pa mpikisano polemekeza mkazi wokondedwa pamtima kapena nkhondo yachizoloŵezi ndi chinjoka pazochitika zotero, tsopano, mu nthawi ya kugonjetsedwa kwa malo ndi zopanda malire za dola m'thumba, m'pofunika kugwiritsa ntchito zodabwitsa kugawidwa mwachilungamo pogwiritsa ntchito matekinoloje atsopano , ndi moyo wanu womwe. Komabe, kugonana kokongola kunasintha. Patapita nthawi, kuchoka kunja kwa nsanja, atsikana amakono nayenso anayamba kuchita zinthu zomwe zingakhumudwitsidwe ndi makina okongola kwambiri.
Anthu omwe amadziwika kuti ndi oletsedwa, chizoloŵezi ndi kudzikweza, komanso chikhalidwe cha tsiku ndi tsiku sichichotsa mphamvu pamaganizo chifukwa cha chikondi. Kawirikawiri anthu amachoka ndi chidutswa china - pambuyo pa zonse "chinthu chachikulu si mphatso, ndi chidwi". Nthawi imeneyo sikokwanira, ndiye kumatanthauza, ndiye ulesi chabe. Koma chibwenzi sichiyenera kukhala chizindikiro chodziwika bwino, chomwe chimakhalabe mbewu ya moyo. Pambuyo pake, ichi ndi chiwonetsero cha chisangalalo, chamisala, kapena chosamvetsetsa.
Ndi zopusa kuti chiyembekezo cha chikondicho chiwonekere popanda kanthu ndipo popanda khama. Icho chimapangidwa ndi chikhumbo chowonetsera chikondi, kusonyeza momwe mumasamala za theka lina. Kuwona chisangalalo pa nkhope ya munthu wokwera mtengo - kodi mphotho yabwino kwambiri ndi iti?
Kodi chikondi ndi chiyani? Mphatso ndi ntchito
Kumvetsetsa kwa mkazi, chikondi ndi mphatso kapena zochita zomwe zingakhudze malingaliro, zimayambitsa kukhudzidwa mtima ndi chikhumbo chochita chinachake pobwezera. Atsikana nthawi zambiri amalota kalonga wokongola wa nkhani zamatsenga, amene amatha kutembenuza mapiri ndi kujambula mwachikondi, ndikupeza thandizo mnyumbamo. Choncho, "zokhazokha" pakugonjetsa mtima wa mayi zimakhala zofunika.
Mbali zakuthupi
Musayese kudziletsa nokha. Dalasi ya diamondi kwa tsiku lachikumbutso kapena kudya chakudya chodyera chodula kwambiri ndithudi. Koma chikondi sichikhala ndi ndalama zofanana. Msungwanayo adzasangalatsa kwambiri ngati muwonjezera zilembo zabwino ku mphatsoyo, ndipo malo odyera adzakhala pamtsinje wa mtsinje, kumene zida zozimitsira moto zikukonzekera mwangozi.
Za zosavuta chotero
Bweretsani khofi yanu kukagona, kuigwiritsa ntchito ndi maluwa ndi mikate yokoma. Adzayamikira kuti mukukumbukira maswiti omwe amamukonda, ndipo sanali waulesi kudzuka m'mawa kwambiri chifukwa cha kumwetulira kwake pang'ono. Tumizani SMS ndi chokhumba chabwino cha usiku, ngati simuli pafupi. Chizindikiro chosavuta chonchi chidzasonyeza kuti simungaiwale za theka lachiwiri, ngakhale tsiku lovuta kugwira ntchito.
Achinyamata, valani bwenzi lanu m'manja mwanu, mugone tulo ta anyamata ndi anyamata. Ndipo osati maluwa osavuta, anagulidwa panjira, koma ankakonda.
Zomwe zimagwirizana
Koma kugonana kwakukulu kumakhalanso ngati zochita za chikondi zimaperekedwa kwa iwo. Musamachite mantha ndi kusamvana kapena kusamvetsetsana. Njira yopita kumtima wa munthu ikhoza kudutsa m'mimba. Bweretsani mpukutu wanu masana kuti mugwire ntchito. Osati mankhwala omwe amatha kugulitsidwa m'sitolo, koma kuphika zomwe chibwenzi chako amakonda. Kuwonetseredwa kwa chisamaliro limodzi ndi fungo la chakudya cha kunyumba kumakakamiza munthu kuchotsa chigoba cha wankhondo wankhondo. Khalani ndi chakudya chamadzulo pogwiritsa ntchito nyali kapena picnic mu chilengedwe. Konzani ulendo wosayembekezereka - ziribe kanthu komwe, makamaka, zomwe munthu amawona: mwakonzeka iye chifukwa cha mavuto ndi mavuto chifukwa chake. Ngakhale mupatseni chibwenzi chanu chojambula pamanja ndi chithunzi cha wokonda mpira. Mwamuna adzayamikira chidwi chake pa zokondweretsa zake, ndi kukhala pansi pa kompyuta, adzakumbukira.
Musaganize kuti zomwe zimaperekedwa m'dzina la chikondi ziyenera kuchitika kokha ndi magalasi ovala zida zonyezimira. Ngakhale mukuoneka ngati mnyamata wolemekezeka komanso wodziimira, mungafunike phewa la mkazi lomwe lingakuthandizeni nthawi zonse. Kusamalira mwachikondi, chidwi ndi zinthu zabwino zochepa mu mawonekedwe, mwachitsanzo, choyikikira makiyi monga mphatso idzasungunula mtima wa munthu aliyense.
Koma lingaliro la kukonda chikondi nthawi zonse limakhala losiyana. Ndikoyenera kukumbukira zomwe munthu wokondedwa amakonda, kuti adziwe zofuna zake. Asalole kuti aziwalekanitsa, koma osachepera amasonyeze kumvetsetsa ndi changu chofala. Mwachitsanzo, tengerani matikiti pa gulu la gulu limene limakonda theka lanu lachiwiri. Ndipo ngakhale simukulimbana ndi nyimbo zoterezi - komabe mumapita limodzi, mwakakamizika mukupirira mazunzo angapo phokoso. Musagone pamene mukuyang'ana nyimbo, yomwe inamuthandiza msungwanayo kapena kumvetsera mwatcheru nkhani ya mnyamatayo ponena za kugwa kwa magawo omwe akugulitsidwa. Ndichonso chidwi chifukwa cha chikondi, sichoncho?
Sitikukayikira kuti chikondi chosonyeza chikondi cha wokondedwa wanu chidzakhala chabwino kwambiri. Ndipo ngati muika "ndalama" osati ndalama zokha, komanso kumverera - zidzatha kugonjetsa mtima uliwonse.