Sizodabwitsa, koma chikhalidwe cha kulankhulana kwa foni chiyenera kupezeka pafoni iliyonse yomwe mumapanga. Khalani bambo, mayi, mlongo, m'bale, bwenzi, bwenzi, purezidenti (ponena za pulezidenti, mukudziwa, pali maina osiyanasiyana m'buku la foni), komanso ngakhale mnyamata amene mumawakonda. Ponena zakumapetoko, ngati mumvetsetsa ndikuyankhula. Ndipo kotero, inu mumafuna kuti mumve, mutatenga foni, munayimba nambala yolakalaka: beeps - "hello" - "moni!". Ndipo apa pali, kukambirana koyembekezeredwa kwa nthawi yaitali. Sindikuganiza kuti muyenera kudzidziwitsira nokha, ndikuganiza kuti simukuyenera, mwinamwake chibwenzi chanu sichidzayikira zokwanira zanu (Ndikukhulupirira kuti adzamva kuchokera ku nambala yomwe mumaikonda, kuchokera pa nambala yomwe simungayitchule). Mwa njira, ngati chimodzimodzi sichiphunzira ndipo ayamba kuganiza, kutchula mayina achikazi, zikuwonetsa (zimachitika aliyense). Koma tiyeni tisalankhule za zinthu zowawa. Choyamba, funsani ngati ali wotanganidwa, akuwopsyeza anyamata omwe sakonda pamene sakuitanidwa pa nthawi. Ndipo nthawi yoyenera ya foni ikhoza kukhala: ntchito, bizinesi yofulumira, kukhalapo kwa abambo (kupuma ndi abwenzi), kukambirana kwakukulu ndi munthu wina, kuyembekezera kuimbira kofunikira, kutagona kwa m'mawa madzulo komanso ngakhale maganizo ake oipa. Kumbukirani izi ngati "Baibulo la amai" ndipo mutadziwa kale momwe mungalankhulire ndi chibwenzi chanu pafoni. Mukumuitana, onetsetsani kumufunsa za ntchito yake pakalipano. Ndinayamba chidwi ndipo ndinamva kuti ndinali wotanganidwa, ndikuyitana bwino pakapita nthawi, kapena ndikulolera. Musamamukakamize kuti azilankhulana, kupumula pa mfundo yakuti: "Ndidaitana, ndiye kuti uyankhule nane" ndikhulupirire, sipadzakhala nkhani pano, mpatseni nthawi, mulole kuti iziziziritsa. Ngati, ndithudi, mnyamatayo anapereka "kuwala kowala" kukulankhulana kwanu ndipo amasangalala kuti mudayitana, choyamba, funsani momwe alili, momwe akuchitira, anyamata amasangalala pamene akusamaliridwa ndi chidwi ndi miyoyo yawo, chifukwa ali okonzeka kulankhula za iwo kwa maola ambiri. Mwa njira, yesetsani kuti musamusokoneze iye, msiyeni iye atsirize lingaliro lake mpaka kumapeto. Musaswe ndi vuto lanu patsogolo. Mudamva mawu a wokondedwa, ndipo izi mwazokha zimachotsa mavuto onse omwe akukuchitikirani panthawi ino.
Kulankhula naye, musayese kulankhula ndi anzanu angapo nthawi imodzi, chifukwa atsikana omwe ali ndi foni pafupi ndi khutu akhoza kuchita zinthu zana, kumbukirani, mnyamatayo samvetsa izi. Muitaneni - kotero khalani okoma mtima ndipo kambiranani naye. Lembani zinthu zonse zomwe zimakulepheretsani chidwi pa zokambirana - kuyankhulana kotero kuti ngati akufunsaninso, mungamuuze mawu omaliza omwe munanena, masekondi asanu apitawo, ndipo musakhale mwamantha. Limbani mlandu - nenani chirichonse, zenizeni, musayende kuzungulira chitsamba, osati kuitanitsa zamatsenga, kumene akudziwa zomwe zinachitika kwa inu kumeneko. Anyamata samakonda kwambiri kumvetsa malingaliro athu ovuta, amafunikira chofunika kwambiri. Komabe, musatchule pamene mukuimba (nthawi zambiri anthu samamvetsetsa), musati muyimbire foni, musafuule foni. Yesani kukhala ndi maganizo anu olakwika. Timaganiza ndi maganizo, ndipo ndizo lingaliro komanso kulingalira kwa yankho. Musalankhule za inu nthawi zonse, ndipo mupatseni mwayi woyika mawu anu. Ndipo komabe, musatchule aliyense, motero, "maminiti asanu", dzipitireni nokha ndi kutali ndi foni. Anyamata ndi anthu okonda ufulu, ndipo ambiri samakonda kukhala opanda pake. Akufuna kumva - Adzaitana, kumbukirani izi ndipo musaimbe telefoni ndi inu nokha.
Mufunikire malangizo kwa iye - musakane izi, funsani. Kondwerani ndi izi, chifukwa amafunsira malangizo kwa amayi ake, koma kwa inu. Mukufuna uphungu, kuvomereza ndi kuyamika, osadalira mtundu wa munthu amene sanakupatseni, ngakhale ngati malangizowa akuwoneka opusa.
Ponena za mau anu, panthawi ya kukambirana kwa foni, ziyenera kukhala zokoma ndi zosavuta nthawi zonse, zotsutsana ndi mphekesera ndi kutchula "kasupe mu moyo" wa wokondedwa. Nthawi zambiri nkoka nthabwala, makamaka ngati mumamva kuti ali ndi maganizo oipa kapena akumva chisoni. Mwachitsanzo, tchulani nthano kapena nkhani yodabwitsa yomwe inakuchitikirani (za ubwana, mwachitsanzo) kapena okondedwa anu. Kondweretseni iye, musakhale chete pachabe, pogwiritsa ntchito lingaliro kuti iye ndi mnyamata - ayenera kusangalala. Ndizowona, koma osati nthawi zonse - "kulowera kuntchito", zisonyezerani kuti mumakhalanso ndi kuseketsa. Kambiranani naye za iye ndi zofuna zake (chofunika kwambiri, osati zosangalatsa), posachedwapa, buku lowerengedwa, filimu yotsiriza yomwe munayang'ana, ulendo wanu penapake, maphunziro anu. Mutha kuwerenganso chinachake chochititsa chidwi. Kapena mukutanthauzira kosamveka ndiuzeni momwe ndagwiritsira ntchito tsiku langa ndipo musaiwale kumufunsa za izo. Mulimonsemo, musalankhule naye pokhapokha pazinthu za amayi, kuchepetsa zokambirana ndi nkhani zake. Ngati chinachake chimamukondweretsa, iye adzakufunsani nokha. Mwa njira, amayi samakonda miseche ya akazi mwina.
Inu mumangoyitana chifukwa chakuti mumatopa, musazidziwe nokha, muuzeni za izo. Anyamata amakondwera pamene amadalira pa iwo, mwa mawu abwino. Pachifukwa ichi, musaope mantha anu, kuwawonetseratu mokwanira, chifukwa kuchokera kwa iwo, pakali pano, mumabwera zabwino, zomwe zingathe kubweza wanu wokondedwa ndi zokondweretsa tsiku lonse. Ndipo musaiwale kunena mawu atatu amatsenga: "Ndimakukondani." Chikumbutso ichi sichidzakhala chosasunthika, aliyense wa inu sanayitane. Mwa njira, kukamba za chikondi ndi kukambirana kokondweretsa kwambiri komwe kungakuthandizeni kuti mutsegule wina ndi mzake ndikukhala pafupi kwambiri. Choncho musamachite manyazi ndi zokambirana zanu. Sizolankhula ndi chibwenzi chanu pafoni - izi sizikutanthauza kutsatira malamulo ena. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mutatha kuyika ma tubes, mumtima mwa wina aliyense mumakhalabe chimwemwe mukatha kukambirana ndi wokondedwa wanu.