Ndipo onse chifukwa ife tidakali osiyana. Chimake chosiyana. Chimene chikuwoneka chachibadwa, chokoma, chokongola, chachikondi kwa ife, kwa amuna, nthawi zambiri chimakhala chokhumudwitsa. Ndipo tsopano wokondedwa wanu wokonda kwambiri anali wansanje, mwadzidzidzi wokwiyitsa, wokhumudwa, ndipo chilakolako chake chokubweretsani kumalo otsekemera amachotsedwa ngati buluni. Ndi chiwonongeko chotani, ndi liti pamene? Ndipo chomwe chiri chakuti-n-chakuti? Kodi ndi chiani chomwe chimapangitsa kuti maso athu akwiyire? O, pali zowopsya zakale, monga "Usamangidwe!", Ndiponso zatsopano zamakono zomwe zawonetsedwa ndi kusintha komwe kumachitika pakugawidwa kwa maudindo a amuna ndi akazi muzaka zingapo zapitazo.
Inde, akazi akhala osiyana. Ndipo izi, ndithudi, sizingatheke koma zimakhudza theka labwino la umunthu, komanso zomwe zimachitika pakati pa amuna ogonana pabedi.
Mlomo womwewo ...
Tsiku lililonse amai ambiri amadzifunsa funsolo - momwe angaphunzire kusangalala ndi kugonana. Malingana ndi mavoti, 69% mwa kugonana okonzeka nthawi zonse amachita izi - amapatsa amuna awo zokondweretsa. Zilibe kanthu chifukwa chake masambawa atsala 31% otsala, chifukwa ndi zovuta kukumana ndi munthu yemwe alibe chidwi ndi zinthu zoterezi. Amakonda izo, timakonda, ndipo kwenikweni kugonana ndilo ndondomeko ya moyo kumene timangochita kuti tipatsane zosangalatsa. Ndipo ngakhale phokoso lopweteka, lakhala litatha kukhala chinthu chachilendo, kawirikawiri palibe amodzi omwe angadzitamande chifukwa cha kukongola kwa teknoloji. Ndipo onse chifukwa kawirikawiri palibe amodzi omwe ali pachiopsezo kuti amve zokhumba zawo, kulunjika ndi kuphunzitsa. Kwa izo ndi "kulipira" zosangalatsa zosokoneza. Kuti tikhale oona mtima, ndiye kuti tili ndi mlandu. Tatembenuza mphuno zathu kwa nthawi yayitali, tawonetsera kunyansidwa ndikupanga nkhope yowopsya, yomwe kale zomwe amayi ali okonzeka kuyankhula mowaika lero zimadziwika ndi anthu ngati osamva zaulere. Ndipo iwo ali chete, amalekerera, amawopa kuopseza, motero. Ndipo ndikufunsana mafunso otsutsa pambuyo pake ("Chabwino, bwanji?", "Mumakonda bwanji?") Mwina iwo samakhala ngati zigawenga, kapena sali odziwa bwino
"Chilichonse chinali chachikulu, mwana!" . Choncho, pali "mawanga oyera" ambiri m'magazini ino.
Zoonadi tikudziwa izi zotsatirazi: simungakhoze kuluma. Koma iwe ukhoza kuluma ... ndi milomo yako. Ndibwino kuti musayambe kuchita izi, musayese, kuti muyang'ane maso ndi funso lopanda mawu, "Chabwino, ndizokwanira?", Musayime pamene munthu wayandikira kufotokozera. Kuchokera kumbali ya mipiringidzo, zimawakwiyitsa. Ponena za njira yokhayo, sizingatheke kuti mufunika kusonyeza luso lapamwamba kwambiri. Koma sizingakhale zopanda pake kuyang'ana "phunziro" - filimu ya mtundu womwewo. Momwemo, pamodzi ndi "nkhumba ya nkhumba", panjira akufunsa zomwe iye amakonda ku zomwe adawona. Mwina, kuti ndikuuzeni mwa inu nokha kuti mukuchita chinachake cholakwika, wokondedwa wanu sachita mantha, komanso kusonyeza chitsanzo cha "amalume akunja" - sizikhala zovuta. Mumapindula, ndipo amasangalala.
Funso lina loyaka ndi "Kumeza kapena kusameza?". Kodi mumazichita popanda mavuto? Chabwino, amuna akuyembekezera izi. Komanso, malinga ndi ziphunzitso za tantra yoga, umuna ndiwopseza kwenikweni wa unyamata. Simungathe? Ngati ndi kofunikira kwa wokondedwa wanu, muyenera kuthetsa vutoli. Chinthu chachikulu - musamanyengerere komanso musamanamize, ndizochititsa manyazi. Mukhoza kuyesa kukoma kwa umuna ndi zakudya, ngati chifukwa chake ndi ichi. Choncho, amakhulupirira kuti kiwi, mavwende ndi chinanazi zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zosavuta, maula ndi cranberries - okoma. Koma khofi ndi mowa zimakhudza kukoma mtima, kupweteka kwa umuna. Chinthu china chokha: nthawi zambiri mumagonana, ndikosavuta kulawa namuna, ndi kudziletsa kwa nthawi yaitali kumakhala kosavuta, ndikumveka kukoma ndi kununkhiza.
Ngati izi sizikuthandizani, yesetsani kukonza chiwalo champhongo mkamwa mwako kuti panthawi yomwe umuna usanamve pamphuno - pamzu wa lilime.
Musalankhule zambiri
Kuyankhula pa nthawi yogonana kungathe kukhala, koma kungokhala ndi munthu amene amapeza. Awa "omvetsera kuchokera ku maphunziro" amasangalala kwambiri pamene ndondomekoyi ikuphatikizidwa ndi ndemanga zanu. Mawu osonyeza chilakolako chanu, chinenero chamanyazi, amafufuzidwa panthawi yachisokonezo m'mawu osweka, komanso osayenera ngati kulira "Amayi!" Musasiye mwamuna woteroyo, chifukwa zonsezi ndi umboni wakuti mukutsitsa mutu wanu ndipo zimachokera kwa iye. Ngati munthu akukukakamizani kuti muyankhule ("Kodi mumamva bwino kwambiri?"), Nenani! Chinthu chachikulu sikuti tigonjere kuyesedwa kuseka, kumverera ngati heroine wa buku loipa lachikondi. Chilichonse chomwe chimakusangalatsani nonse ndi chabwino komanso cholondola. Ndipo ngati kukwaniritsa zolaula mwamuna wanu akuyenera kumva kuti ndi "mnyamata woipa" kapena chimphona chamagonana, sakusamala kuti zikuwoneka ngati mawu ochokera ku kanema koipa.
Osangosewera kwambiri! Chifukwa chakuti anthu samapitirizabe kunyengerera ndi mabodza enieni. Inde, mwamuna akufuna kumva kuchokera kwa wina ndi mnzake kuti ndi wokondedwa kwambiri padziko lapansi, koma adzakayikira kuwona mtima kwanu ngati mutagonjetsa ndodoyo.
Chabwino, zomwe musati muzinene, ndizoona kuti mwakhala bwino ndi wina. Ndi kangati zomwe zinanenedwa za izi, ndipo amayi nthawi zonse amapitiriza kuchita izi. Ndipo mwachabe!
Kwa nthawiyi muiwale za zolephera zanu
Asayansi ochokera ku yunivesite ya California anayesa kuyesera - analipo ndi amuna oposa chikwi - pamene ambuyewa anaperekedwa kukayesa zithunzi za akazi osiyanasiyana mu suti. Kotero, zambiri za nkhaniyi sizinasankhire atsikana okalamba ku la Barbie, koma kwa amayi achikati ndi olemera kwambiri, omwe mafanizidwe awo, monga lamulo, amafanana ndi hourglass. Ndipo osati mwangozi. Zikuoneka kuti chiuno chochepa ndi chiuno chachikulu (chomwe chiuno chimapanga 70%) chimawerengedwa ndi anthu ngati chizindikiro cha chonde. Koma kachiwiri, izi sizikutanthauza kuti amayi omwe ali ndi ziuno zochepa, samaziwona pafupi. Chinthu china ndi chowonadi: Amuna samawona theka la zomwe timakhulupirira kuti ndi zolakwa zawo. Ambiri mwa iwo amadziwa ngakhale zomwe maselo a cellulite kapena vascular setochka pamilingo. Koma ngati mutsimikiza, akhoza kudabwa mwadzidzidzi ndi izi, inde, inde! - dziwani kuti ndinu opanda ungwiro.
Funso ndilo, ndani akulifuna
Kukhazikika mwa inu nokha ndi thupi lanu nthawi zambiri kumabweretsa mfundo yakuti mkazi ayamba kupewa kupezeka mu kugonana, zomwe, zimawoneka kwa iye, zimawoneka zosakondweretsa. Kotero, ambiri omwe ali ndi vuto loponyera lija amanyazila kukhala ndi wokwera, ndipo osakayikira omwe amawoneka kuti ali ndi mafuta omwe amapezeka kumbaliyi amapewa kuyang'ana pamene mwamuna wambuyo ndikuwona zolakwa zake zonse. Amayi amanyazi makamaka amasankha kugonana mu mdima wandiweyani, ndipo kugonana komweko kumachepetsedwa kukhala kayendedwe kofulumira, kayendedwe ka "kuyesedwa" ndi zovuta, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zosangalatsa komanso zosasangalatsa. Ndipo, ndikukhulupirira ine, izi ndizoopsa kwambiri kwa maubwenzi kusiyana ndi makwinya kumbuyo ndi m'mimba. Ngati mkazi ali wolimba mtima komanso wosatetezedwa, amakonda thupi lake, ndiye kuti munthuyo sazindikira zolakwa zake, ndipo ngati atero, samadandaula nazo, chifukwa ali bwino ndi mkazi uyu ali pabedi. Koma kuuma ndi zazhatost kumapha chikhumbo cha muzu.
Wodzichepetsa komanso wodzichepetsa
Poyambirira, abambo adadandaula chifukwa chosowa chochita cha amayi pabedi, kupatsa wokondedwa dzina loti "logi". Tsopano takhala tikulimbikitsidwa kwambiri pabedi, koma zodandaula za kusaganizira zilipobe. Sikumangokhalira kumangokhalira kukhumudwa, koma mumsasa wina, osayanjanitsika, monga momwe amamvera, kumbukirani: "Tidzakhala ndi kugonana, musadzutse!". Ngati simukufuna kugonana, ndibwino kuti musachitepo kanthu, kusiyana ndi kumunyozetsa munthu chifukwa chokakamizidwa. Ndipotu, pokhala pabedi pabedi, mumaoneka kuti mumasonyeza kuti ndinu munthu wochepa m'dera lino - sangathe kuyambitsa chikhumbo chanu. Ndipo ndani angakonde kugonana ndi "thupi lopanda chidwi"? Pankhaniyi, palibe kusinthanitsa kwa maganizo ndi mphamvu, ndipo ndi kupambana komweko "maselo osavuta" angathe kuchitidwa ndi chidole cha raba.
Ntchito yowonjezera
Kuphatikizirapo amuna osakonda, koma chifukwa cholimbikitsana mantha. Ichi ndi "chizindikiro cha nthawi" - amayi asintha, ndipo pamene tinkakonda kupereka, tinatenga, tsopano tikugwira nawo ntchito. Izi sizikukhudza kokha moyo wa chikhalidwe, komanso kugona. Zomwe poyamba zinkaonedwa kuti ndizoyamikiridwa ndi ubale waumunthu, kugonana kwa usiku umodzi, zosangalatsa, pa mtengo uliwonse - tsopano ukugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi amayi. Ndipo_zosadabwitsa - amuna anali osakonzekera izi. Iwo ... amverera kugwiritsidwa ntchito, zinthu zogonana zogonana, amafuna chisamaliro ndi chikondi. Ndizodziwika, sichoncho? Zomwezo ndi zogonana. Kuchita zinthu mopitirira muyeso, pamene mayi atenga chirichonse m'manja mwake pabedi, amachititsa zotsatira zosiyana - sizili ngati izo.
Osati amayi okha , koma okalamba amapanganso kulakwitsa m'chipinda chogona. Ndipo chifukwa kugonana ndi njira imodzi, zolakwitsa za munthu zimakhudza mzake, zimawonongera kusangalatsa konse. Kodi ndi zinthu ziti zomwe amayi adaphatikizapo mu "bukhu lawo"?
Zotsatira zochepa. Amuna amaganiza kuti zowonjezera kuti zakhudza nthawi zingapo, zimakhudza msangamsanga clitoris ndipo mukhoza kupita kugonana. Ndipo zikutanthauza kuti mwamunayo wayamba kale, ndipo mkaziyo sali wokonzekera: ayenera kuti "atenge mnzakeyo paulendo" kapena ... asakhale wosakhutira.
Kuvuta . Amunafe sali opanda chifukwa choyimira anthu okhala ndi theka la anthu - kulimbikitsa mawu amphamvu. Pochita chisangalalo, munthu akhoza kufinya pachifuwa chake kwambiri, ngakhalenso kuluma msana, osadziŵa kuti umayambitsa ululu waumuna. Mphamvu za amuna okhaokha zimangowonjezera kukwatira kwa amayi, koma sikuti aliyense angathe, ayi, ayi.
Kuyerekeza ndi akazi ena. Mwamunayo "amakukudzudzula" chifukwa cha iwe, ndipo iwe sungathe kufika pamasewera, makamaka "mphatso" akhoza panthawi imodzimodzi kufunsa "Chabwino, kale?". Pali njira ina yowonongeka, pamene, posawona zoyenera kuchita pa zoyesayesa zawo, mwamunayo amakhumudwa ndi kukoka: "Ndizodabwitsa, koma aliyense ankakonda chilichonse!"