Ndani mwa ife amene sanamvere izi mu moyo, pamene miyendo yake inkapuma pansi, zinali zozizwitsa. Pamene ndinkafuna kuwona, nthawi zonse ndimve ndikukhala pafupi ndi chinthu chomwe ndikuusa moyo. Kukhumba kosauka, kusowa tulo ndi maganizo kapena chirichonse, molondola, mosiyana ndi kuwonjezeka kwabwino, chilakolako cha onse kuti agwirizane ndikupsopsona - zonsezi ndizodziwika kwa aliyense.
Kumverera kwa chikondi choyamba ndi kusasitsa kwenikweni kwa munthu. Kuchokera momwe munthu aliri chikondi choyamba ndi chifuniro, chimadalira kukwaniritsa kwake maganizo, komwe, monga lamulo, samasintha moyo wonse, motero ndikofunika kwambiri kuti muchitire bwino choyamba chokhumba chanu. M'mabwalo onse okhalamo pali malamulo oyenera, wophunzira amadziwa chifukwa chake ayenera kuphunzira, maanja amadziwa zomwe zingathandize kuti banja likhale losangalala. Koma pamene chikondi choyamba cha malamulo olamulidwa palibe ayi ndipo sichikhoza. Munthu amadziulula yekha ngati ali mkati, popanda mask. Koma chodabwitsa kwambiri n'chakuti chikondi chenicheni n'chosavuta. Chikondi choyamba - pamene simungaleke kukonda munthu ameneyu. Zimakumbukiridwa ndi kumwetulira kapena ndichisoni chowopsya, koma kuchiphonya kapena kuyesa kubwezeretsa ndiko kudzisokoneza ululu wosatha.
Mukhoza kukumbukira chikondi chanu choyamba m'moyo wanu wonse, ndipo kenako mukhumudwa mukakumana, chifukwa monga momwe munalili masiku amenewo simudzakhala. Ndipo mutha kukanganso mukumverera uku ndikuiwala za chirichonse mu dziko, banja, ana ndi kusangalala zomwe sizinakhale zaka zonsezi. Ndipo chifukwa cha banja, zoperewera zimagwedezeka ndi olumala, ana amasiyidwa opanda makolo. Pakapita kanthawi munthuyo amabwera ku epiphany ndipo pali chikhumbo chobwerera kubanja.
Mtsinje womwewu sulowa kawiri. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti chikondi choyamba ndizochitika mwamphamvu. Kupita ku chikondi choyambirira, kuyesera, kubwerera, osaiwala malingaliro ndi malingaliro ndipo timasunga fano la okondedwa athu. Ndipo pamapeto pake tili ndi munthu wosiyana kwambiri.
Pali zifukwa zingapo zachisoni chifukwa cha chikondi choyamba, chomwe chimathandiza kuchita moyenera pazimenezo kapena zina, pamene zidachitika. Choyamba, izi sizili bwino m'banja kapena chibwenzi chomwe chinathetsa mavuto onse awiri. Pamoyo wonse wa banja, munthu sangapeze zomwe akusowa. Potero, akukoka chithunzi cha utawaleza cha chikondi choyamba, chimene amakhala nacho mosangalala nthawi zonse. Komanso - munthu yemwe ali ndi chizoloŵezi chogawanika maganizo. M'banjamo chirichonse chiri bwino, koma mwadzidzidzi pali mwayi, ndipo makamaka chikondi choyamba, chomwe chimakhudzana ndi kukhudzika kwakukulu, ndiye munthu wotere sangakhoze kukana. Ndipo chinthu chomalizira ndi malingaliro a nkhanza. Mwamuna yemwe amadzikonda yekha ndipo samadzilola yekha kuiwala za nthawi imeneyo ya kuyamikira, pamene panali mawu ochuluka kwambiri okondweretsa ndi okondeka kuchokera kumbali ya wokondedwa.
Zomwe mungachite ngati chikondi choyamba chakubwerera, ndi njira yeniyeni yothetsera chiyani, zomwe munganene kwa anthu pafupi ndi inu, kuti musakhumudwitse wina mwa mawu anu? Yesetsani kuti musayesedwe. Yesani kuwakakamiza kuti asiye moyo wawo. Pitirizani kukumbukira ndipo zidzakumbukira bwino zomwe mukukumbukira. Nthawi imene mumagwiritsa ntchito chikondi nthawi zonse idzakuthokozani, simungakayike!