Nthawi zina mumayamba kukondana, osati kukhala nokha. Pambuyo panu pali munthu wina amene amakukondani, koma amadziwa kuti sakuwombera tsitsi, ndiye kuti amakhumudwitsa fodya kapena kudya sushi. Ndiyeno, patapita kanthawi, mumadziwa kuti buku lanu ndi chinyengo, osati zambiri.
M'mapazi a Bridget Jones.
Kodi mumakumbukira wolimba mtima uyu? Ganizirani ngati muli ndi chinthu chofanana. Mwina moyo wanu wonse ulibe kanthu koma kuyembekezera chikondi cham'tsogolo? Ngati mukuganiza kuti popanda banja sangachite ntchito, tsitsi, kuyeretsa, ndiye kusiya, mwinamwake mumasowa chinthu china chofunikira.
Kodi mwamuna weniweni ndilo lokhalo lokha komanso zomwe zimamulimbikitsa yekha kuti apitirize? Kodi mumatsimikiza kuti pakubwera kwa wokondedwa wanu, kuthetsa mavuto onse, ntchito idzayamba yokha, tsitsi lidzamangirira, atsikana ndi abambo akulira, ndipo fumbi lidzasungunuka m'makona? Ndipotu, vuto sikuti mulibe mwamuna, koma kuti simukufuna kukhala ndi udindo pa moyo wanu.
Osamvetsera malonda ndi malonda omwe amapangidwa kwa maanja, kupita ku mawonetsero osangalatsa ndi maphwando, ngakhale ngati pempho laperekedwa kwa anthu awiri, musawope kupita ku cinema okha. Gonjetsani mantha anu nokha ndi mantha omwe wina aliyense angakuganizireni angakhale wotsutsa. Phunzirani kusangalala ndi moyo, kaya muli mu chikondi kapena ayi.
Monga momwe.
Inu nokha munazindikira kuti zaka zambiri za zibwenzi osakwatiwa pafupifupi palibe, ndipo mwadzidzidzi munakhala nkhosa yakuda. Koma mawonedwe anu anangowonjezeredwa ndi mfundo zoyamba za amayi ndi achibale anga kuti ndi nthawi yoti mutha kukwatirana. Zaka zingapo ndipo makolo adzafunsanso zidzukulu, ndipo abwenzi amakuchitirani inu chakudya chamadzulo ndikuyembekeza kukwatiwa ndi mwamuna wokonda mwamuna wake.
Musabise ndipo musayankhe yankho pamene wina ali ndi chidwi ndi moyo wanu. Kumbukirani, nthawi zambiri palibe wina koma inu simukutero. Kwa onse, mungathe kuyankha moona mtima kuti zonse zili bwino, makamaka ngati mukusangalala nokha.
Musamangokakamiza maganizo achikazi. Zikuwoneka zokhumudwitsa ngati mtsikana wosungulumwa yemwe akufuna kwenikweni kukwatirana mwadzidzidzi amayamba kunena kuti amuna samasowa mkazi wamakono konse.
Ndipo musayese kubwezeretsanso makolo anu. Sadzaleka kuphika chifukwa cha chimwemwe chanu, kungodziyerekezera kuti mukufunanso kuwasangalatsa mwamsanga ndi zidzukulu zawo. Ngakhale izi sizikugwirizana ndi zomwe mukukonzekera, mukhoza kukondweretsa makolo anu.
Momwemo.
Kodi simudziwa nokha mwa mtsikana yemwe si wachikondi, samaganizira munthu aliyense, koma amasungira wina kusungirako? Ndi imodzi, nthawi zina mumapita ku mafilimu, nthawi zina mumasonyeza abwenzi anu kapena amayi anu, mumakoka chachitatu ku masitolo kapena maphwando. Aliyense wa iwo akutsimikiza kuti ubale wanu watsala pang'ono kukhala pafupi, ndipo mukuganiza kuti sikofunikira kufotokozera maubwenzi ndikukakamiza zinthu.
Chotsani mtambo uwu wa mafilimu opanda pake. Gwiritsani ntchito mlungu umodzi wokha nokha, ndi abwenzi kapena achibale. Khalani owona mtima ndi inu nokha - ngati mumakumbukira za munthu pokhapokha mutalandira kuitanira kuchithunzi kwa anthu awiri, ndiye simukusowa. Ndipo kumbukirani - sikuli bwino kugwiritsa ntchito anthu, chifukwa nthawi yotsatira maganizo anu enieni angagwiritsidwe ntchito ndi wina, ndiye kuti mumadzimva nokha mu nsapato za anyamata anu.
Momwemo, tsopano anthu amakhala okhulupilika pa nkhani zogonana. Ndi ndani amene samachitika? Kufooka kwanthawi yochepa kumakhululukidwa. Koma mgwirizano wapamtima ndi chinthu chachilendo, chomwe sichiyenera kukhala m'moyo wathu. Chikondi chenicheni chimabweretsa anthu palimodzi, ubale weniweni ndi ubale ndi mtunda. Zindikirani, kodi simukumverera kuti mukupsyopsyona kansalu wanu wamakono ngati ngati kudzera mu galasi kapena filimu? Kodi ziphuphu ndi chilakolako zili kuti? Ganizirani, mwinamwake mukuyenerera zambiri.