Kuyambira kale, ankakhulupirira kuti munthu weniweni, wamtendere, wamtendere, nthawi zonse amakhala wodekha komanso wosasokonezeka. Kumbukirani momwe mu kanema wakale yomwe imasonyeza chikondi? Kuwoneka mwachidwi.
Nthawi zina msilikaliyo analoledwa kukwaniritsa chinthu chokhumba kwambiri ndi chitsulo chosakanizika. Panthawiyi, omvetsera adamva kuti izi ndizovuta kwambiri, ndipo ndithudi, ndizokhazikika.
Inde, lero pa zojambula zomwe ife takhala tikuzizoloŵera amuna achimuna achilendo achi Hollywood, kusefukira madona awo ndi mitsinje ya zokoma. Izi ziri mu moyo weniweni, kuzindikira kwa iwo pazifukwa zina kumamveka ndi oimira amuna omwewo ndi iwo ...
Mwa njira, akatswiri a zamaganizo amatsimikizira izi: Amuna ali ovuta kwambiri, omwe amatchedwa demonstration. Chilengedwe chawapanga iwo mwanjira yoti mkate sichidyetsa - ndiroleni ine ndikuwonetsere ndi kupenta. Zina zonse za "kukambirana" zimadalira zifukwa ziwiri: kudzidalira ndi wokondedwa ndi kulera ...
Osati mwa mawu, koma mwa ntchito
Choyamba, nkoyenera kumvetsa zomwe mukufuna: kuvomereza chikondi kwa wokondedwa kapena mawu okongola? N'zotheka kudikira mpaka kubweranso kachiwiri. Koma ndi chiwonetsero chakumverera - kosavuta. Pambuyo pake, kwa amuna ndi "kusiyana kwakukulu kwakukulu".
Mkazi wachikondi, monga lamulo, amasonyeza malingaliro ake mokweza ndi momveka, mwamuna amapita mwanjira ina. Zomwe - ndizochita. Konzani wokondedwa wanu mnyumbamo, yang'anani mu babu wonyezimira, nyundo msomali mu khoma kapena kutsanulira mafuta mu makina. Mapiri adzakhala ngati umboni wa momwe amamvera. Koma-mwakachetechete. Kokha ndi kumwetulira kumwetulira: tawonani, iwo amati, pa zomwe ndakonzekera!
Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kuphunzira kuyamikira ndi kumvetsetsa chilankhulo cha amuna: ngati sakusungani inu mphamvu kapena nthawi, maganizo ake kwa munthu wanu ndi ovuta kwambiri ...
Osatsimikiza, khalani chete
Ambiri mwa amunawa ndi otsimikizika: awo omwe akufuula za kumverera kwawo kudzanja lamanja ndi kumanzere ndi makalata ochezera mauthenga. Palinso mfundo ina yofunika kwambiri: pamene testosterone ikusewera, ndi kovuta kuti amuna adziwe momwe aliri ndi abwenzi awo. Zisonkhezero ziyenera kuyendetsa kapena kulowa muzozoloŵera, mwachitsanzo, nthende - ndiye adzasankha kuti adzafuna kukhala ndi inu nthawi yanji: mpaka kumapeto kwa masiku ake kapena mpaka kumapeto kwa sabata ...
Nazi pano!
Zimakhalanso kuti mkazi mwiniwake amakhala choyambitsa chidziwitso cha munthuyo pa kuvomereza chikondi kwa wokondedwa. Mwachitsanzo, atangoyamba kuzindikira, amayamba kuganiza kuti munthuyo ndi katundu wake. Anakhumudwa kuti akufuna kukomana ndi abwenzi ake, osati kupita nawo ku mafilimu, kumachepetsa ufulu wake wonse, kufunafuna zizindikiro zosamvetsetseka, kuyamikira, mawu achikondi, kuyembekezera malangizo ndi kuvomereza za zosintha. Kodi ndizodabwitsa kuti tsopano kuchokera ku mantha ndi kukakamizika kotere kwa kubwezeredwa kokondedwa kwa mawu okondedwa mmodzi sayenera kuyembekezera ...
Thupi - kugonana
Wofatsa ndi wokonda - osati m'mawu okha, komanso mu kuyankhulana kwa tsiku ndi tsiku - nthawi zambiri anthu amatha kugonana ndi chiyambi chogonana. Kukhudza kulikonse kwa iwo kuli ndi tanthawuzo "lotumizidwa". Ndi zophweka kwambiri kuphunzira zinthu zoterezi: Sadzakumbatirana, sadzadya, sadzapsompsona "monga choncho." Ndipo kaŵirikaŵiri samadzikonda okha "atakhudzidwa pachabe." Ali pabedi, ambuye awa ali osangalatsa komanso osamvetsetsa, ngakhale akudziyesa kukhala olimba mtima.
Ngati, komabe, chiwonongeko chakubweretsani inu ndi "zovuta" zotere, yesetsani kugawana nawo malingaliro ake okhudzana ndi kugonana ndi thupi. Chitani minofu yowonongeka, onetsetsani kuti mumpsompsone pang'onopang'ono pamsonkhanowo ndi kumatsagana, kukumbatirana, kuyang'ana pawonetsero omwe mumawakonda pa TV - ndithudi, zonsezi zilibe chibwenzi. Pang'onopang'ono, chibwenzi chako chimayendayenda ndikukumvetsa kuti zimakhala zosangalatsa zotani ndi "chikondi chachikondi" ...
Patapita zaka
Ndi zaka zingati mwakhala pamodzi palimodzi, mawu okhudza chikondi sadzatayika. Ndipo musaganize kuti kumvetsera zokoma ndi zitsimikizo za kumverera kumakondweretsa mkazi yekha. Amuna amadziwanso kukonda ndi makutu awo! Kuonjezerapo, mawu atatu amatsenga angatulutse ndi msuzi pa steak, yomwe mudatumikira kudya. Inde, nthawi zina zimachitika: mumayang'ana chikondi ndi chikondi, ndipo AMAKHALA amakumbukira ngakhale za tsiku la ukwati! Mwa njira, musaiwale za zenizeni za maganizo a amuna - sakumbukira masiku ofunikira! Kuti musakhale mu zofanana ndi zimenezo, mum'kumbutseni za holide yomwe ikubwera.
Kapena onetsani chinthu china chogonana komanso chokondana, ngati mukudziwa awiriwo. Pambuyo pa chikumbutso chotere popanda mphatso, ndithudi simudzakhala!
Kambiranani za izo
Pangani lamulo - fotokozerani zochita zanu kwa mwamuna, chifukwa samvetsa chifukwa chake mukuchitira izi kapena kuchita. Nthawi zonse mufotokozereni kuti mukukhumudwa, chifukwa chake mwakhumudwitsidwa - mwinamwake sakudziwa chomwe chimayambitsa mkwiyo wanu ndipo adzakhalabe osokonezeka kwa nthawi yaitali. Simukukhala ndi chidwi chokwanira - fotokozani zomwe mukufuna, mukufuna kukambirana za tsitsi lanu latsopano - muuzeni za izo, mumve kusamvetsetsana - muuzeni za vutoli.
Ikani mawu muzokambirana. Yambani choyamba, ngati kuti kuchokera kutali, ndi mafunso osamveka komanso opanda ndale ndipo pang'onopang'ono mubweretse pamalo abwino: kugula chinthu chofunikira, ulendo wokacheza pa tchuthi, kuyenda pa tsiku la kubadwa kwa achibale anu, kukacheza kwa amayi anu kapena ulendo wamtsogolo. Ndi mfundo ina yofunikira - ndi amuna omwe nthawi zonse mumayenera kuyankhula momveka bwino - momveka bwino funsolo kapena pempho likufunsidwa, mozama kwambiri zotsatira zake zidzakhala.
Maphunziro a Chikondi
Zomwe zisankho zikuwonetsa, amuna 70% amakhulupirira kuti ukwati uli wokondwa, ngakhale kuti amakhulupirira kuti akuopa kukwatira ...
Mu 87% ya milandu, chofunika kwambiri chozindikiridwa choyamba mwa chikondi ndi cha mwamuna, ngakhale kuti oposa theka la amayi amanena kuti ziribe kanthu amene amapanga sitepe yoyamba yomweyo ...
Amuna 4% okha amafuna kukhala okonda masewera, ndipo 52% amafuna kukhala bambo weniweni ndi mwamuna wokhulupirika amene amasamalira banja ...
Chikoka cha amai pa chiyanjano mwa awiriwa ndi -70%, ndipo amuna-30%, kotero chiyembekezo chakuti chilichonse chili m'manja mwathu, sichidzafa ...
Pafupifupi amayi 60% amawanyoza okondedwa awo chifukwa cholephera kusonyeza chikondi ...
Azimayi okwana 45% amasangalala ndi zizindikiro zosamveka, ndikuziwona ngati chiwonetsero cha chikondi ...
Ngakhale kuti alephera, 88% mwa amayi omwe angokwatirana kumene amakhala ndi chikhulupiliro cholimba mu chigololo ...
Amayi 40% omwe poyamba adakwatirana, samagonana kumbali ...