Kodi timatanthauza chiani ndi chikondi? Chemistry kapena ntchito? Mu Chiyukireniya, mungathe kugawa maganizo awa. "Ljubov" ndi ntchito, ndipo "kohannya" ndi makina. M'zilankhulo zina zadziko lapansi, mfundo ziwirizi zikupezeka m'mawu amodzi. Kuchokera ku malingaliro a chinenero, chikondi chingatchedwe chirichonse. Titha kunena kuti timakonda chinthu, ntchito, munthu, dziko. Koma pamene titi "chikondi" ponena za munthu, mawu awa amatenga mthunzi wosiyana. Mthunzi uwu umagwirizanitsidwa ndi nkhani yomwe ikuyenda ndi mawu awa. Osati nkhani zokha. Liwu la mau awa limaperekedwa ndi mau, kuusa moyo, khalidwe lathu nthawi yomwe timati "ndimakonda" za munthu wina. Dzifunseni nokha: Ndi kangati mmoyo wanu womwe mumakonda kwenikweni? Inde, ndi mtima wathu wonse timakonda kokha kamodzi pa moyo wathu wonse. Nthawi zina nthawi izi zimachitika kawiri m'moyo wanga.
Zimakhala bwanji?
Ndithudi, anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti pachiyambi, chikondi chiyenera kukhala pachikondi. Sikophweka nthawi zonse kudziŵa ngati kumverera kotereku kumachitika - makina anu enieni. Poyamba, sitingazindikire munthu yemwe adzakhale wofunikira kwambiri komanso watsala pang'ono kumapeto. Izi zimachitika, komanso mosiyana, munthu wabwino wotchuka amene amachititsa chidwi kuchokera pachiyambi angakhale pacifier. Ndipo zikuwoneka kuti tiyenera kusangalala kuti tili ndi mwamuna wamwamuna. Koma samabweretsa chimwemwe kuposa buku lokhudza ntchito.
Zingawoneke zachilendo, koma okonda kwambiri (mazunzo) ndi omwe sali okongola kwambiri. Ndichifukwa chake muyenera kupereka imansans. Perekani mwayi kwa iwo omwe sadzikongoletsa okha pachivundikiro cha magazini yofiira komanso omwe akuthamangira kumeneko. Mudzadabwa, koma ndizosangalatsa. Ndipo ngati mutagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu yaufulu nokha ndi okondedwa anu - zonse zidzakhala bwino. Ndipo izi zikhoza kutchedwa kale ntchito. Ena akhoza kusagwirizana, koma pa chirichonse chokonzekera kukhala moyo ndi chosangalatsa.
Makina oyambirira, ndiye ntchito
Zimanenedwa kuti ndi mavitamini omwe amapangidwa kokha koyamba kwa masabata angapo a ubale. Pokhapokha kugwera m'chikondi. Pang'onopang'ono, subsidence pang'onopang'ono, chikondi chimakula chiyanjano. Ndipo pambuyo pake, pang'onopang'ono amakhala chizoloŵezi. Ndi malo omwe ntchito yathu imayambira. Kodi tingachite chiyani ndi zomwe khemistu inatipatsa? Momwe mungasungire izo ndi chiyani? Inde, aliyense amasankha yekha cholinga. Winawake akulota ukwati wochititsa chidwi ndi sitampu yomwe idzayima pasipoti. Pankhaniyi, popanda kwathunthu kuganiza za zomwe zidzachitike pambuyo paukwati. Pali ena amene amayang'ana zonse mwachinyengo: Anandigulira ine nyumba ndi galimoto, tsopano ndikhoza kumasuka. Munthu sangakhoze kuiwala kuzindikira kwa kugonana kwa yekha. Akukonzekera kukhala ndi moyo kwa zaka zambiri ndi kusankha kwawo: amaganiza za kuyenda, za kuyamba chiweto. Ndipo ndi momwe ana awo ndi zidzukulu zawo amapitira kusukulu.
Momwe ikugwirira ntchito.
Ngati mumaganizira za izi, kemisi si zokondweretsa zokha beniyeserdtsa kuchokera pachigwiriro choyamba. Chemistry ikuphatikizapo mitundu yonse ya chinyengo ndi chinyengo. Zimaphatikizapo chirichonse kupatula ludzu la kugonana. Chokhumba sichiri chilengedwe, koma chamoyo chosatha chamoyo. Chinthu china, pamene mumakonda kudya, ndicho chimene amadya. Werengani mabuku omwewo monga momwe adachitira. Onerani mafilimu omwe amawawonera. Mukayamba kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro ake.
Nthawi zambiri timakumana ndi anthu ndipo timadabwa ndi momwe iwo alili ife. Ndipo ngati tiwona kusiyana kwakukulu, timakhulupirira kuti kutsutsana kuli ndi kukondana wina ndi mnzake. Koma sitiyenera kuiwala zomwe zili zobisika m'maso mwathu. Pamene inu ndi mnzanuyo muli ofanana kwambiri, muyenera kusamala pozungulira gawo lawo. Ndipo pamene muli osiyana, simungaiwale zosiyana siyana. Ngati mukufuna kukondwera pansi pa dzuwa pamtunda, musaganize kuti amaukonda, nayenso. Poona kuti iye amakonda kukwera m'nkhalango. Pachifukwa ichi, mgwirizano woyenda kuzungulira mzindawo ndi woyenera kwambiri kwa inu.
Pamene mukutsutsana kwambiri, ntchito yambiri idzakhala pa maubwenzi pamene mankhwala amatha kugwira ntchito. Chinsinsi cha ntchito yabwino ndi mgwirizano wabwino mu kulekerera. Tiyenera kumvetsetsa kuti wina ali ndi ufulu wokhala ndi moyo. Izi ziyenera kukumbukiridwa nthawi zonse pamene zimakhumudwitsa. Chikondi chanu chiyenera kukhala ndi mgwirizano ndi kuthandizana. Inde, nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti mmodzi yekha amamukonda, ndipo chimzake chimakupatsani inu chikondi. Ndipo kuti muteteze "mankhwala" awa, yesetsani kumuyang'ana munthu wapafupi ndi wokondedwa kwa inu ndi mawonekedwe atsopano. Chimwemwe ndi chakuti mukuwona chinachake chatsopano mwa wokondedwa. Mukuti mumayamikira ngakhale pang'ono chimwemwe.