Ndiye chikondi cha mtundu wanji chimene mnyamata wachikondi ali nacho? Choyamba, tiyeni tiganizire za momwe mnyamata wachikondi ayenera kuwonera. Zoonadi, nkhani kuyambira ubwana zimatengera malingaliro athu a akalonga opanda mantha ndi chitonzo, kuvala mokondwa, okongola komanso olemekezeka.
Ndipotu izi sizisonyeza chikondi. Pakati pa anthu omwe akuwoneka kuti akugwirizana ndi fanoli, pali anthu ambiri ouma komanso owuma. Choncho, mwamuna wachikondi angaoneke mosiyana kwambiri. Motani? - pali mayankho ambiri. Mwachitsanzo, kukonda chikondi kumatha kuyendetsa njinga yamoto, kudula tsitsi lake mumitundu yambiri ndikusewera gulu linalake. Kapena valani magalasi ndi kulemba mapulogalamu abwino pa kompyuta yanu. Angakhalenso nyenyezi ya mpira, basketball kapena ngakhale bokosi. Zithunzi izi zikhoza kuwerengedwera mpaka zopanda malire, chifukwa chikondi sichikuwoneka koma mkhalidwe wa malingaliro.
Kodi ndi chikondi cha mtundu wanji chimene mnyamata wachikondi ali nacho? Izi ndi zenizeni. Achinyamata oterewa sakhala okonzeka kupanga chiwonetsero cha mtima ndikudziwa mtsikana chifukwa cha kugonana. Ngakhale pali zitsanzo zomwe zimachimwa ichi, mpaka zimakumana ndi imodzi, ndipo sizikumvetsa kuti kwenikweni zimakonda kukonda. Kawirikawiri, chikondi chimasonyeza chikondi pakati pa anthu. Zimathandiza kukumbukira zabwino zonse zomwe zili mwa ife ndikuziwonetsa.
Zochita zachikondi kumeneko zimakhala zochuluka kwambiri, ndipo munthu aliyense amazitengera m'njira yake. Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna amatha kukonda chibwenzi chake usiku. Koma. Momwe angachitire zimenezi, zimadalira yekha khalidwe lake komanso moyo wake. Mwachitsanzo, mutenge mayi wanu wokondedwa ku banki ya mtsinje, nyanja kapena nyanja. Koma, kodi mnyamata angatani? Ena amatumiza kuti mayi wawo akhale ndi limousine, ena-amam'tenga pa njinga yawo, ndipo ena amakasankha njinga yakale yachifundo, monga chikumbutso cha nyimbo ya Soviet yomwe mnyamatayo ankathamangitsa njinga kwa nthawi yaitali ndikuyimitsa kumadzulo. Mwa njira, maluwa a udzu maluwa komanso kwambiri chikondi. Komabe, zimakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri kuti mtsikana adziwe maluwa amoyo ndi onunkhira, atasonkhanitsidwa ndi manja ake. Mkazi aliyense amamununkhiza ndi fungo lake. Ichi ndi chikondi chenichenicho.
Nthano ndi nyimbo zikufotokozedwanso ndi chikondi chenicheni cha chikondi. Achinyamata otere nthawi zonse amatha kupereka nyimbo kwa mtsikana wokondedwa kapena vesi la ntchito yawo. Kuyamba kumene kudzachitika mwachikondi kapena pamaso pa owonera ambiri. Ngati mnyamatayu sanapatse luso linalake, adzalidziwa momwe angagwire mtsikanayo. Achiroma ndi okonzeka chirichonse. Iwo amapereka kwa akazi awo masalmo a ndakatulo zazikulu, atayima pansi pa zipinda za nyumba zamphindi zisanu ndi zinayi. Kuphatikiza apo, amapeza anzawo kuchokera kumagulu ammudzi ndikukonzekera serenades pansi pa mawindo. Achinyamata otero akhoza kujambula chithunzi kwa okondedwa awo, kapena akhoza kupanga filimu. Anyamata akukwera mitengo kuti apachike mipira ndi ma posters ndi chisangalalo chifukwa cha okwera mtengo komanso okondedwa kwambiri.
Inde, chikondi cha chikondi chimakonzeka chirichonse. Ndizolemba zawo pa phula limene timaliwona m'matawuni ambiri. Amakonza chakudya chamakono ndi nyimbo pa wailesi. Inde, lolani wina aganize kuti ichi ndi corny, koma mungavomereze, achinyamata ambiri sangathe ngakhale izi. Ndicho chifukwa chake, zochitika zilizonse zoyipa zimaonedwa ngati zachikondi.
Ndipo, kwenikweni, chikondi cha chikondi chimayesa kusonyeza atsikana awo kuti ndiwo abwino, okondedwa kwambiri ndi okondedwa. Mwachindunji iwo amayesa kusonyeza malingaliro awo ndi malingaliro awo, kutsindika maganizo awo.
Nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti chikondi chimapangitsa anthu onse kumverera mwachikondi. Choncho, sikofunikira kuganizira anthu odekha kapena okonda zachiwerewere osati achikondi. Angayambenso kusonyeza malingaliro awo ngati amakumana ndendende ndi zomwe angathe kukonda moyo. Tavomerezana, zimachitika kuti anthu oipa adasintha mwadzidzidzi pamaso pathu. Mwadzidzidzi, amayamba kugula maluwa ndi makadi, amasankha chokoleti ndi kugula zidole zofewa. Kwa amuna ambiri, kukondana kumadziwonetsera ngakhale muzinthu zazing'ono.
Kuwonjezera pamenepo, kukondana kungakhale kosavomerezeka, chifukwa atsikana onse ali m'njira zawo zachilendo. Chikondi chikhoza kuwerengedwa ndi mphatso ya masewera osawonekera kwa geymershi kapena kawirikawiri kuyimitsidwa kwa goth. Sitingathe kukondana ndi malamulo, mikhalidwe ndi njira zothetsera mavuto. Kwa mtsikana aliyense, chikondi chingakhale chache, chapadera. Wina akufuna kukhala ndi zotsekemera m'hema, m'mapiri, ndi kwa ena, chikondi chenicheni chidzakhala holide panyanja, mu hotela yokongola. Chidziwikiritso cha anyamata okondana ndikuti akhoza kuganiza zokhumbazi ndikudzidzimutsa. Inde, ndithudi, mbali ina ya chikondi ndi zodabwitsa. Ngakhale kakang'ono kwambiri, koma kodabwitsa kokongola, nthawi zonse imakhala chifukwa cha msungwana kuti akondwere. Amuna achikondi amamvetsa izi ndipo nthawi zambiri amayesa kuganiza zosavuta za okondedwa awo. Iwo amabwera ndi njira zosiyanasiyana zomwe zingadzutse maganizo a mtsikana. Chikondi sichisonyeza zokhazokha, komanso kuti zimatha kuwonetsa tsiku ndi mitundu yowala. M'kupita kwanthaŵi, anagula ayisikilimu kapena duwa lodulidwa pa bedi lamaluwa ndilo chikondi. Chinthu chachikulu - kumverera kwa msungwanayo ndikuganiza zomwe iye akufuna kwambiri.
Chikondi chimatsegula mipangidwe yatsopano kwa munthu aliyense. Ndi iye yemwe amapangitsa anthu onse kupita ku zochita zamisala, ndipo, ndendende, mkazi wopenga ndi chisonyezero chapadera cha chikondi. Malingana ndi malingaliro ndi zachuma, zochita zachikondi zimasiyana kwambiri ndi wina ndi mnzake. Koma, nthawizonse amakhala okhudzana ndi chilakolako chochita zabwino ndi zapadera. Mtsikana aliyense wakonda zilakolako, zomwe mwamuna wachikondi amachitira momwe angathere. Chikondi si ndalama zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito mu mphatso, koma malingaliro omwe amachititsa. Ndiwo chikondi chomwe mnyamata wachikondi ali nacho ...