Momwe mungagonjetse zovuta

Amayi ambiri amagwera m'mabvuto oterewa, pamene amatsutsidwa ndi kutsutsidwa, ndipo, nthawi zambiri, anthu omwe amadzidzudzula si anthu odzidalira okha, aliyense amakhala ndi zovuta zake. Amangodziyesa okha phindu la ena. Ndi momwe mungagonjetse maofesiwa? Kawirikawiri mwamuna yemwe alibe udindo wapamwamba, ndipo nthawi zonse amapeza mlingo wosakhutitsidwa kwa bwana, amabwera kunyumba ndipo amayamba kuuza mkazi wake chimene akuchita, chinachake sichili bwino, chimanena ndipo sichiwoneka bwino, ndi zina zotero. Ndipo nthawi zambiri ndemanga zonsezi zimangokhala chabe, osatsimikiziridwa ndi mfundo. Koma, monga chotsatira, mwa mkazi, mbewu za kukayikira zimayamba kukula za munthu wawo, zovuta zimawonekera, chifukwa, monga momwe akudziwira, kugonana kofooka ndikulenga kwambiri! Ndipo kuchokera kumera kumakula ndikukhala osatetezeka, zifukwa zomwe zimangokhala mwamuna wolimba amene amapanga zovuta kwa inu. Komabe, nthawi zambiri, ndi mkazi mwiniwake, yemwe ali ndi ofesi ya wogwira ntchito ku ofesi, komanso yemweyo monga munthu amene tam'tchula uja, amene amamvetsera ndemanga zake nthawi zonse, amadzadzidzimuka chimodzimodzi.

Zonsezi zingawoneke zazing'ono kwa wina, koma kupambana kwa makompyuta ndi vuto lalikulu pamoyo, zomwe zingayambitse kudalira kwambiri maganizo a wina. Izi, zowonjezera, zimapangitsa kuti sitingathe kupanga zosankha, popanda kufunsa ndi ena, zidzakumbukira kuti zofuna za anthu ena ndizofunika kwambiri kuposa zawo, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, chikhumbo chovomerezeka kwa onse, ndipo izi zikhoza kukhala anthu oyandikana ndi anthu kwathunthu kunja. Kukhala ndi maofesi osadziwika ndi kovuta kwambiri.

Kapena tiyeni titenge nsanje: onse amangofa ndikukhala ndi lingaliro lakuti theka lachiwiri limapeza munthu wabwino, nthawi zina amawonekeranso kuti ma satellite akufunafuna malo abwino kwambiriwa.

Ndiyenera kunena kuti amayi ali ndi chizoloŵezi chowombera ndipo chifukwa chake, mawonekedwe a kusatsimikizika mwa iwo, komanso amuna amakhala ndi kachilombo chifukwa alibe kachilombo koyambitsa matendawa. Kugonjetsedwa kumapindulidwa ndi mantha, ndipo matenda ndi osatsimikizika.

Mliri wa ma complexes, iyi ndiyo njira yokhayo yothetsera vutoli, anthu onse amakhala ovuta matendawa, ndipo izi zimakhala zenizeni, abambo amatsutsa amayi, amayi komanso ngakhale ana athu amaphunzira kulumpha okondedwa awo momvetsa chisoni momwe zingathere.

Momwe mungapulumuke ku zovuta izi, chifukwa ndi kukhalapo kwake mtunduwo sungathe kutchedwa kuti psychologically wathanzi. Ndipo zonsezi zingayambitse mavuto aakulu, chifukwa nthawi zambiri anthu omwe ali ndi maulendo amakhala okhwima ndipo samapsa mtima chifukwa chozunza.

Dziphunzitseni nokha kuti musamangodandaula kawirikawiri, kapena kuti mutengepo kuchokera kumbewuzo zomveka ndikuyesera kusintha chinachake mwa inu nokha, koma pitirizani kudzidalira !!

Ksenia Ivanova , makamaka pa webusaitiyi