Tchuthi lirilonse likhoza kubweretsa mbuye monga chisangalalo kuchokera madzulo amatha, ndikusanduka chinthu chosayembekezereka. Kukangana kwachizoloŵezi, kusagwiritsa ntchito kosatha komanso phwando lomwe likuyembekezeredwa kwa nthawi yaitali lingathe kukhala ndi kukumbukira chochitika chosangalatsa kwambiri.
Gulu la tchuthi likhoza kuthandizira njira zisanu zovuta:
Gawo 1. Ndipotu, wokondwerera holide sikuti amasangalala. Zoonadi, zimenezi zimachitika. Chifukwa chiyani mukuitanira alendo ngati, chifukwa cha zochitika zonsezi, mumakhumudwa ndi osakhutira ndi khama lanu ndi nthawi yanu. Anthu amzeru amabwera kunyumba, amakhala ndi nthawi yabwino, amadya ndi kumwa, amalankhula ndi nthabwala. Ndipo chomwe chimatsalira kwa hostess, kuthamanga kuchoka ku khitchini kupita ku chipinda, kumbali yopititsa patsogolo kuyendayenda kwa ana, komanso za chozizwitsa, ngati pazifukwa zonse simunaiwale kudziyika nokha kuti phwandolo lisanayambe.
Mutha kuitanira mnzanu kuti agwirizane pa gulu la tchuthi. Konzani tchuthi palimodzi, kugawa chakudya choyenera pakati pawo, ndipo, kugawaniza ndalamazo.
Koma ngati bungwe la zochitikazo likugwera pa mapewa anu, musaiwale kuti ili ndilo tchuthi lanu. Konzani mbale zomwe mumakonda, popanda kuganizira zokonda ndi zokonda za alendo. Sankhani nyimbo ndikubwera pulogalamu ya madzulo, kuti muzisangalala nazo. Ndipo mochuluka kwambiri musachite khama kwambiri kuti muwapatse alendo oitanidwa ndi zakudya zosiyanasiyana komanso zosakanikirana.
Kumbukirani kuti maholide ndi okondweretsa kukumbukira ndi chikondi mumtima mwanu. Ikani pambali zomwe mudya ndi kumwa, ndipo kumbukirani omwe anali osangalatsa, kumene sanalumbirire ndi mwamuna wake, sanapange phokoso kwa anawo ndipo sanadziyerekeze ngati akukondweretsa onse omwe alipo. Ndipotu, zosavuta kwambiri zomwe mukukonzekera, ndikukumbukira bwino kwambiri.
Konzani saladi zosavuta kuti mukhale ndi zokometsera zokwanira, ndithudi, maphunziro apamwamba ndi mchere wokoma, sankhani zakumwa. Ndipo kotero alendowo asatope, atenge nyimbo usiku ndi zosangalatsa zina zosangalatsa. Ndicho chimene mukufunikira pa holideyi, yomwe idzakumbukiridwe ndi aliyense, ndipo chofunika kwambiri kukupatsani chisangalalo.
Gawo 2. Kodi mungagwiritse ntchito bwanji holide komanso osadandaula kuti simuli mwana wamasiye? Kodi mungapange bwanji alendo anu, usiku watha?
Maholide apabanja ndi ovuta kwambiri, chifukwa amasonyeza zovuta za mavuto a m'banja. Mlamu anga sangazengereze patebulo kuti adandaule za matenda. Amayi akhoza kukhumudwa ngati mukukana kuwonjezera mchere, zomwe adakumbukira tsiku lonse lapitalo. Amunthu angathe kuzunzidwa ndi mauthenga angapo omwe amafunika kuwagwiritsa ntchito. Sizingatheke kuthawa kapena kubisala, kupulumuka ndi kuvomereza izi. Pokhala ndi chikhumbo chokhala ndi mtima wabwino musayesetse kupambana, zidzakhala zosavuta kwambiri ngati holideyi ili kwa ena.
Sikoyenera kuweruza ndi kuyesa kubwezeretsa achibale, ndi kutsimikizira chirichonse kwa wina aliyense. Ndi zomwe iwo ali. Landirani ndi kumwetulira zawo zosamvetseka, penyani mkhalidwewo kuchokera kumbali ndi osakumbukira.
Khwerero 3. Patsiku lililonse, mosasamala kanthu za zomwe zinachitikazo, likuphatikiza ndi kufufuza, kugula ndi kusungidwa kwa mphatso zosiyanasiyana. Ambiri ankakumana ndi zinthu zosiyanasiyana zolemba phukusi. Koma chinthu chachikulu ndicho kudzimangiriza ndi malingaliro olemera ndi zipangizo zofunika ndi njira. Pachifukwa ichi, mufunikira tepi yothandizira pa ofesi yothandizira, mutakhala pamphepete mwa pepala lokulunga ndi dzanja limodzi, mudzatha kuchotsa chidutswa cha pulogalamu. Kuonjezera apo, mukusowa mkasi, womwe umadula pepala ndi makatoni, osakaniza, chifukwa ndi yabwino kwambiri kumanga pepala ndi zodzikongoletsera.
Musayesere kupanga kapangidwe kogwiritsa ntchito luso lojambulajambula, sankhani mitundu ya mitundu. Manga, nenani, mphatso mu pepala lokulunga wobiriwira ndikumangiriza ndi nsalu yofiira kwambiri. Chabwino, njira yosavuta komanso yochepetsetsa yogwira ntchito ndiyo kugula makapu oonekera, atenge zikhomo ndi kuziika ndi zida zowoneka bwino za satin. Ndipo ngati mukuwonetsa malingaliro anu, mukhoza kukongoletsa phukusi ndi ntchito zosavuta.
Ngati mukukonzekera mphatso kwa mwana, mugule mphatso yamtengo wapatali, tiyeni tinene chidole. Chidole chomwecho chimadzazidwa m'bokosi. Kavalidwe, nsapato ndi zina zowonjezera zija mukulumikiza muzitsulo zosiyana. Zomwe zimakhala zambiri, zimakhala zosangalatsa kuziyika.
Khwerero 4. Mukamagula mphatso, muyenera kusonyeza malingaliro. Musanayambe, chitani zovomerezeka pakati pa achibale ndi abwenzi. Lembani mndandanda yemwe akufuna kwenikweni kupereka mphatso. Chabwino, achibale omwe amakhala mumzinda wina, zidzakhala zosavuta kuyamika pafoni. Ndikhulupirire kuti chinthu chachikulu si mphatso, koma samalirani.
Gawo 5. N'zosatheka kuwoneratu zam'tsogolo ndi kunena momwe zonse zidzakhalire. Imani, kumwetulira, kuvala, khalani tsitsi lanu. Tangoganizani kuti chilichonse chozungulira iwe chimapuma chikondi, ndipo iwe uli pachikondi.
Musaiwale kuti ili ndilo tchuthi lanu.