Mkazi aliyense, pokhala mayi, amapeza maudindo ambiri, osati kunyumba, komanso kusamalira mwanayo. Ndipo zikuwoneka kuti palibe chimene chingachitike, chifukwa chagwera kwambiri: kuyeretsa nyumba, kuphika, kusamalira mwana, kuyenda naye, kusamala nthawi zonse zomwe akufuna. Tsiku la mayi wamng'onoyo limakhala m'malo osamala komanso mofulumira, palibe nthawi yeniyeni yake, komanso nthawi yogona. Tsiku lina nthawi zambiri amakhala ngati chimzake. Ndipo momwe angasamalire zonsezi mwamakhalidwe, ndipo apitirize kusangalala ndi mawonekedwe a mwanayo m'banja?
Njira yopulumukiramo, imakhala yosavuta - musachite zomwe mulibe nthawi. Gawani zofunikira, pangani ndondomeko ya tsiku limodzi kapena awiri, ndiye kwa sabata ndikuyesera kufufuza. Inde, ngati simukugwiritsidwa ntchito pokonzekera, zidzakhala zovuta poyambirira, ndiyeno mudzachita nawo mwambo wotere ndikutha kuchita zonse zomwe zalinganizidwe.
Kumbukirani kuti cholinga chanu chachikulu ndicho kusamalira mwanayo, za thanzi lake ndi chisangalalo chabwino. Auge ali pamalo achiwiri - kuphika kwa banja, kusunga nyumba mwangwiro, ndikudziyang'anira yekha. Mulimonsemo, musaiwale za inu, za mpumulo wanu. Pambuyo pake, ngati simungathe kusamala, ndiye ndani angakuchitireni?
Ambiri mwa iwo akungoyenda ngati agologolo pamagudumu, sagona mokwanira usiku chifukwa cha mwana wosazizwitsa komanso kudya nthawi zonse, ndipo madzulo, mmalo mogona pansi ndi kumwetulira kwa kugona kwa tsiku, amayamba kuyeretsa pa nthawi ino. Nchifukwa chiyani mukufunikira kuyeretsa koteroko, ngati mwatopa komanso ngati ogona? Ndi bwino kupatsa nthawiyi mpumulo wanu, ndipo ngati mayi ali pafupi, ndiye kuti mwanayo agona nthawi yayitali.
Chinthu chachikulu ndicho zokhudza mwana
Choyamba, chinthu choyambirira chimene amayi akuchiganizira ndi chakuti mwana alibe njala, wathanzi, woyera, wokondwa ndi wokondwa. Kudyetsa mwana, makamaka m'miyezi yoyamba ya moyo, kawirikawiri nthawi zambiri, palibe njira yochitira popanda mayi. Kusintha kansalu, kuyenda ndi mwana, kugula ndi kuwapatsa nthawi yosangalatsa - izi ndizinso, ntchito ya amayi. Koma izi zingatheke ndi wina aliyense m'banja. Ndipo iwe udzakhala ndi nthawi pang'ono.
Ngati muli kunja ndi mwana kunyumba, mungathe kuchita naye zonse, makamaka pamene akukula pang'ono. Tsopano pa malonda pali zoperekera zapadera, zomwe mungathe kumuyika, pamene manja anu adzakhala omasuka, ndipo mungathe kuchita zina. Inde, mudzafuna nthawi yogwiritsa ntchito, koma ndi njira yabwino kwa amayi omwe akufuna kuchita chirichonse.
Chitani chirichonse molingana ndi ndondomeko - kuyeretsa m'nyumba kapena nyumba tsiku limodzi, kutsuka ndi kusindikiza mu ina, kuphika kwa adla kumalola nthawi yochepa tsiku lililonse. Monga zosiyana, mukhoza kukonzekera chakudya masiku awiri kapena atatu pasanapite nthawi, ndiyeno muzibwezeretsanso. Musaiwale kuti nthawi zambiri zidzasintha mofanana ndi mwanayo komanso kumusamalira.
Kuchokera kuntchito kapena kugwira ntchito kuchokera kunyumba?
Ikubwera kamphindi pamene mkazi akuganiza kuti ndi nthawi yopita kuntchito. Zikhoza kugwirizanitsidwa ndi zifukwa zingapo: kusakhala ndi ndalama zokwanira za banja, kusakhutira kusiya ntchito, kapena chifukwa chakuti chizoloŵezi sichikulolani kuti mukhale ndi moyo ndi kupuma mwachizolowezi. Pankhaniyi, mayi amabwerera ku ofesi, ndipo zina mwa maudindo ake angatengedwe ndi achibale (mwamuna, agogo ndi amayi).
Monga mwayi, mukhoza kuitanitsa mwana wamwamuna, ndi kusunga ntchito zapakhomo. Kapena mungagwire mkazi yemwe angathamangire munda ndikuyang'ana mwanayo ngati mukugwirizana. Ngati njirayi isakugwirizana ndi inu, mungamupatse mwana wamasiye kapena munda wa ana (malinga ndi msinkhu wake). Ngati muli ndi makolo omwe sali patali, musakane ndi thandizo lawo, zidzasangalatsa iwo ndi maola ochepa chabe kwa inu.
Ngati mumakhala womasuka kunyumba ndi mwana, koma mulibe ndalama zokwanira kapena chitukuko chanu, mukhoza kugwira ntchito kunyumba. Dalitso liripo pa intaneti ndi vuto ili kuthetsa mosavuta. Amayi ambiri, atakhala pansi pa lamuloli, amakhala odzipereka komanso nthawi, kupeza bwino. Kuonjezera apo, amalankhulana ndi anthu ena, nthawi zonse amatenga uthenga watsopano kuchokera kumagulu osiyanasiyana, amayesa kuphunzira, amaphunzira kukonzekera nthawi yawo, amalandira malipiro abwino komanso amadzizindikira okha.
Nchiyani chingakhale bwino kuposa kuphatikiza kwa banja ndi ntchito zomwe zimabweretsa chisangalalo chenicheni kwa mkazi?
Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale wokongola komanso wodzikongoletsa?
Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti mkazi, atakhala pakhomo ndi mwana, samayiwala kuti ndi mkazi. Wokongola, wokondedwa ndi wofunidwa. Inde, ndizovuta kwambiri, makamaka nthawi yoyamba kubereka, kuti udzipangire nokha miniti. Koma ndifunikanso kuti muzichita izi kuyambira pachiyambi, chifukwa podziyendetsa nokha, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti zikhale zofanana. Dzipatseni nokha mphindi 15-20 pa tsiku, ndiye mukhoza kuwonjezera nthawi ino.
Vomerezani kukhala wokwatira kapena wina wa achibale omwe angakuthandizeni. Mwachitsanzo, pamene mwamuna abwera kuchokera kuntchito, amatha kupereka nthawi yina kwa mwanayo, ndipo mumayenera kukhala ndi mpumulo wokhazikika, kungokhala chete kapena kupanga manicure. Mungathe kupatula mphindi izi nokha, dzikonzereni nokha.
Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti mukhale ndi mwayi kuthawa kunyumba kwanu kamodzi kapena kawiri pa sabata, kupita kwa wovala tsitsi kapena wodzikongoletsa, kudzigulira wekha kavalidwe katsopano kapena jekeseni, kupita ku kanema kapena kuwonetserako, mwachidzidzi, dzipatseni nokha ndi kupumula moyo wanu. Chinthu chachikulu chimene mwamuna wanu akumvetsa ndikukuthandizani pa izi, ndiye kuti mutha kuzichita. Iye, makamaka, adzakondwera kuti mkazi wake amamvetsera maonekedwe ake, chifaniziro chake ndi maganizo ake ndikuyesera kuwoneka ngati abwino kwambiri!
Azimayi ena amakumana ndi mavuto ena atabereka, komanso mavuto omwe amagwirizana ndi kusintha kwa thupi lawo. Wina amachepetsa manja ndipo sachita kanthu, ena amayesetsa kuchita zozizwitsa kuti abwere ku mawonekedwe abwino. Musamachite zinthu mopitirira malire, yesetsani kuti mupereke nthawi yambiri yochita masewera olimbitsa thupi, mu miyezi ingapo mudzabwerera ku mawonekedwe anu.