Iye amadziwa kale kuyenda, koma vuto liri, iye sanaphunzirepo kuyankhula. Ngakhale zachilendo zingamveke, koma panthawiyi makolo amadera nkhaŵa za mwana wawo kuposa wina aliyense, chifukwa zimakhala zovuta kukhala ndi moyo, kuzindikira kuti mwanayo, kale kwa masiku awiri, amatsamira pambuyo pa chikhalidwe chokhazikika. Amayi akuda nkhawa kwambiri ndi izi. Koma zonse ndi zachabechabe, posachedwa mwanayo adzalankhula, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti ayenera kukhala wopanda zopanda pake. Ndipo, ngati ziri chomwecho, pali chinthu chochepa kwambiri - kukhala ndi chipiriro.
Tiyeni tikambirane momwe mwanayo akuyamba kulankhula pang'ono. Nchiyani chikumukankhira iye pa izo? Kodi amamvetsa zomwe adanena kwa nthawi yoyamba? Izi ndizo mafunso ophweka kwambiri, mayankho omwe ambiri sakudziwa. Kotero tiyeni tiyambe mu dongosolo. Mwanayo, pachiyambi, akhoza kulakwitsa chifukwa cha dictaphone. Tikudziwa motsimikiza kuti munayamba mwawonapo ndikugwiritsira ntchito dictaphone. Ichi ndi chida cholemba zinthu popanda kulingalira zomwe zikulemba. Mudakanikiza batani - chipangizo chinayamba kujambula, ndipo pamene pakufunika kuyisewera - chidzachichita mosavuta. Koma tisaiwale kuti ichi ndi chipangizo chabe. Panopa wayika kale maikolofoni ndi wolankhula, microchips ndi zina. Palimodzi, zonsezi zingagwire ntchito mwamsanga. Koma musaiwale kuti ichi ndi chida chabe. Poyamba akhoza kulemba ndi kuberekana. Palibe zovuta konse, chifukwa maulamulirowa ndi ovuta kwambiri.
Tsopano tiyeni tiyankhule pang'ono za momwe munthu angalankhulire. Tawonani, munthu akamayankhula, amaika chinenerocho pamalo abwino, kenaka alola mlengalenga mofulumira. Pochita zinthu zoterezi, ndikusuntha milomo ina ndi kayendedwe ka munthu, amalankhula phokoso lina, kuphatikiza zomwe, timapeza mawu. Osati moyipa, sichoncho?
Zonsezi ndi zabwino, koma tinayiwala mfundo imodzi yofunikira: mwanayo si chida, pakubadwa iye samalandira "firmware" (zina zomwe adzagwiritsa ntchito kuyankhula) ndipo samayamba kuyankhula yekha. "Firmware" iye alibe, ndipo palibe amene angamupatse. Koma pambuyo pake, palibe yemwe amamuletsa kuti apange "firmware" yatsopano. Izi ndizochitikadi.
Mwana, akuyang'ana akuluakulu, amamvetsera zomwe akunena, amakumbukira mawu ena ndipo amayamba kuyesa kuwatchula, kuyika chinenerocho mosiyana. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, poyamba amamva phokosolo, ndiye amayesa kuyanjanitsa ndi mawu amodzi. Nthawi zambiri sazimvetsa nthawi yomweyo. Ngati tikulankhula motalika komanso kosangalatsa, tidzamvetsa nthawi yomweyo kuti mwana sangathe kuphunzira mwamsanga kulankhula, ndipo pali zifukwa zingapo izi.
Funso lakuti "Mungathandize bwanji mwanayo kulankhula? "Amayi ambiri amasangalatsidwa. Koma samvetsa kuti sangamve yankho loluntha pamene akufunafuna yankho la funso ili. Chifukwa chiyani? Ndi zophweka. Mwanayo sangaphunzire mofulumira, ngakhale atapemphedwa. Pambuyo pake, iye sali ndi zaka 15 komabe. Iye sakusamala pamene iye ayamba kuyankhula. Koma amayi anga - ayi. Amayi amadandaula, sakudziwa ngati mwanayo angathe kuyankhula, kaya akuwerenga tsopano.
Kotero, Amayi, mukudziwa. Ngati mwana wanu amva, ndiye amayesera kulankhula.
Ndipo tsopano, tiyeni tipitirize kufufuza zambiri za nkhaniyi. Kodi amayi nthawi zambiri amachita chiyani kuti apange mwana kulankhula? Iwo amalankhula naye. Izi, zenizeni, ziri zolondola. Mwanayo adzawona bwino momwe mumasunthira milomo yanu, iye adzakumvetsani bwino. Koma osapachikidwa pa mwanayo, sizingakhale zolondola. Kambiranani pa nthawi ya chibwenzi cha mwanayo, ngati kuti akudziwa kale kulankhula, akufunseni mafunso, ndi zina zotero.
Muyenera kudziwa kuti pali njira ziwiri zoyankhulirana zokambirana: zosasamala komanso zogwira ntchito. Kusasamala ndikumvetsetsa kwa kulankhula, ndipo kuyankhula kumayankhula. Monga momwe zikuonekera momveka bwino, mawu osalankhula amayamba mofulumira kwambiri. Panopa mu mwezi wa 10-12 mwanayo amamvetsa zomwe zokambiranazo zikukhudza. Amadziwa maina a zinthu, koma sangathe kulengeza, tsoka. Musadandaule ngati mwanayo asalankhule kwa zaka ziwiri. Amamvetsa zonse, musadandaule. Nthawi yake idzadza, nayenso.
Ndipo ora lomwelo lidzabwera mwadzidzidzi, ndiko kuti, mwana akhoza kulankhula mwadzidzidzi pamene palibe amene amayembekezera. Ndipo izi ndi zomveka komanso zomveka. Tangoganizani kokha: kwa zaka ziwiri inu munakumbukira mawuwo, koma simunanene chilichonse. Ndiyeno ^ potsiriza, tsiku lino lafika! Ndipo mumayamba kufotokoza zonse zomwe mumafuna kwa zaka ziwiri. Ndiko kuti, mwana wanu ali ndi zaka zitatu mu chitukuko akhoza kutaya ana omwe adaphunzira kulankhula kale, chifukwa palibe chodetsa nkhawa.
Tiyeni tsopano tiwone njira zothandizira mwanayo.
Tiyenera kumvetsetsa kuti pamene mwana alankhula mawu pa pempho la kholo, sizikutanthauza kuti amalankhula yekha. Iye amangobwereza pambuyo pa inu, ndizo zonse. Koma akamaphunzira kulankhula, amamvetsa bwino lomwe zomwe akunena.
Inde, n'zoonekeratu, popanda akulu, mwana sangathe kuphunzira kulankhula,
Pa nthawi imodzimodziyo, n'zoonekeratu kuti mawu oyamba amangoyamba kulankhula ndi munthu wamkulu. Koma kulankhulana pakati pa munthu wamkulu ndi mwana sikungachepetse kungojambula nyimbo zomveka. Mawu ndi oyamba ndi chizindikiro chosonyeza dzina la chinthu china. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, mwanayo ayenera kusonyeza zomwe akukambiranazo, mwinamwake sakudziwa zomwe zokambiranazo ziri. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kusewera ndi mwana ndi zidole. Chabwino ndi kuyankhulana, panthawi imodzi. Kenako amvetsetsa zomwe akukambiranazo. Zosewera zidzakhala zinthu zokulankhulana. Muyenera kusewera pamodzi, osati nokha. Ngati adziimba yekha, ndiye kuti sangafunse wina kuti athandize. Akapempha, muyenera kumuthandiza.
Tawonani apa tafufuza mbali za kuphunzitsa mwana wa chiyankhulo. Monga mukuonera, palibe chovuta kutero. Chinthu chachikulu ndikulankhulana ndi mwanayo pazinthu zina, mvetserani, koma osati mopitirira muyeso. Chitani ichi chimodzimodzi, ndipo mwana wanuyo ayenera kulankhula.