Ambiri aife takhala tikuyang'ana mkhalidwewu pamene amayi ena pamalo amodzi akufunika kugwetsa magolovesi, monga nthawi yomweyi amuna ambiri akuthamangira kuti akufuna kuwukweza. Koma pali amayi omwe amayesa kunyenga munthu amene amamukonda, koma chifukwa chake, samachokera. Kodi ndi chinsinsi chiti? Ndipo chinthucho chiri chakuti si onse oimira chiwerewere abwino omwe amadziwa bwino luso lachinyengo. Tinafuna kukupatsani ziphunzitso zoyenera kumusokoneza munthu pamalo amodzi ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo, mumakonda kuvina kokongola!
Chidwi
Kotero, mungamunyengerere bwanji munthu m'malo ammudzi kuti amunyoze? Choyamba, nkofunikira kukopa chidwi cha munthu amene mumamukonda, kuti mumusangalatse ndi chifanizo chake, kuti mumveke ndi gululo. Kugonana kwakukulu kwambiri kumakopa chifaniziro cha mkazi yemwe akugwirizana ndi maganizo ake. Iyenera kukhala yapadera, yokongola, yonyenga komanso yokongola.
Maluso othandiza
Mayi aliyense weniweni ndi wojambula nyimbo kuyambira kubadwa. Choncho, kuyesa kuchita chinyengo kumalo a anthu ndizofunikira kuti mupambane. Kugonjetsa munthu popanda maphunziro ake sikokwanira. Muyenera kusonyeza chikondi chanu ndi zinthu zonse zokopa.
Kubwerera m'migulu yoyamba ya nkhaniyo, tinatchula amayi akuponya galasi pamalo odzaza. Ndipo izi zimachitika mophweka. Chizoloŵezi chachikazi choterechi chakhala chikuyendetsa munthu kumalo ake. Koma pogwiritsa ntchito kuphweka kwachinyengo chonchi, ndi ntchito yosawonongeka. Musanayambe kugwedeza galasi, mumayenera kuchita zambiri ndikuwonetsetsa kuti sizikuoneka kuchokera kumbali.
Yang'anani mozungulira munthu woyenera, popanda kukayikira kosafunikira, kuti asamayende mosavuta malo oyenera osayang'ana maso kuti atenge nthawiyo ndi ... ngati mwachibadwa mungathe kusiya chirichonse chomwe chidzakhala mu thumba lanu. Zovuta pazinthu izi - kuyang'ana kwake molakwika ndi kudabwa (mwa njira, kumangokhalira kukondweretsa amuna) kusonyeza kuti zowawa zoterezi zinatuluka ndipo ngati sizinali kwa iye ... Ichi ndi chinsinsi cha kusocheretsa pamalo. Mwa njira, mawonekedwe anu ophatikizana pamodzi ndi matsenga ndi maziko a kunyengerera kwa munthu pamalo alionse odzaza. Koma kumbukirani, zizolowezi zoterozo ndizofunikira kuti kukopa woimira chigonjetso cholimba. Cholinga chonyengerera munthu ndikumangokhalira kukondana naye. Kugonana kumaphatikizapo zizoloŵezi zambiri zamaganizo, mwachitsanzo, kugwirizanitsa. Choyamba, izi ndikuwonekera. Kuwonekera kwachikazi komwe kumafika mpaka pamtima ndipo wotchuka "kuwombera" kwa maso akhoza kupha oposa munthu mmodzi. Mwa njira, pakati pazinthu zina, nthawi zonse muyenera kukumbukira za kukhudzana ndi thupi. Kuwala kokha komanso kosagwirizana ndi zomwe zimakhudza panthawi ya kukambirana kungakuuzeni zambiri zokhudza chikhalidwe cha amai ndi kugonana.
Kuwonekera mwachiwonekere
Mukufuna kunyengerera mwamuna? Musachite mantha kuti musonyeze thupi lanu mosamala. Kuti pamalo odzaza munthu wina amakuyang'anirani, sikoyenera kuvala poyera. Ndikofunika kuganizira chinthu chimodzi. Ngati mwamunayo akuyang'ana zizindikiro zanu (yang'anani), pangani chizindikiro chosazindikira, mwachitsanzo, ikani dzanja lanu pa ntchafu, yikani phazi lanu pa mwendo wanu. Mwachibadwa, mwamunayo adzamvetsera izi. Kumbukirani kuti njira yowonekera kuchokera kwa khamulo ndi chithandizo cha zovala zodzikongoletsa si zonse. Kugonana kuyenera kusonyeza khalidwe, kayendedwe, gait ndi mawu. Zidzakhala zoyenera kuzindikira kuti aliyense akhoza kunyengedwa, koma si onse omwe angathe kunyenga.
Ndipo chinthu chotsiriza, luso lachinyengo ndi luso la kukhala mkazi, luso lokopa malingaliro a anthu. Ndipo apa palibe chinthu chachilendo, pakuti choonadi chimanenedwa kuti mu nkhondo njira zonse ndi zabwino! Kumbukirani kuti palibe chomwe chimachitika popanda chifukwa, kupambana kwanu konse kumadalira pa ntchito yanu ndi khama lanu. Munthu aliyense, mosasamala kanthu za malo omwe mungagonjetse, chinthu chachikulu ndichofuna ndi kugwiritsa ntchito njira zanu zonse!