Msungwana aliyense alota kuti adziŵe bwino mwamuna wabwino, wolimba mtima, wolimba mtima. Koma amuna amasiku ano nthawi zambiri amakhala amanyazi, amanyazi, osasamala. Iwo amawopa zomwe mtsikanayo amachita pazochita zawo pachibwenzi, musaope kuti mutengepo kanthu. Ngakhale kupsompsona koyamba kungasinthidwe kosatha chifukwa cha kusaweruzika kwa mnyamatayo, ngakhale kuti tsiku loyamba lachikondi lapita kale. Kodi mungatani ngati mukuchita zimenezi? Momwe mungamvekere kwa mnyamata kuti ndi nthawi yopitilira ku chiyanjano chotsatira cha maubwenzi ndi kupsompsona kwenikweni ndikukhala otsimikiza kwambiri muzochita zanu?
Sikuti mtsikana aliyense akhoza kulankhula zachindunji. Ndiye kodi mungatengepo kanthu kapena mungagwiritse ntchito njira zingapo zazing'ono? Ndi khama lochepa, mkazi akhoza kukwaniritsa chilichonse chimene akufuna. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuchita mwanjira yoyenera ndikudalira chidwi chanu chachikazi.
Kuti chipsompsono chodikira kwa nthawi yayitali chichitike, chidutswa chochepa kuchokera kumbali yanu n'chokwanira. Ndikofunika kuchita izi moyenera, kuti mnyamatayo awone ndikuwamasulira molondola.
Njira zingapo zothandizira wokonda zakumpsompsona
Mwina chifukwa chimene mnyamatayu sanakupsompsone, ndiye maganizo ake kuti simunakonzekere. Maganizo awa ayenera kuchotsedwa. Pali chithunzi chachikale chomwe chipsompsone choyamba chiyenera kuchitika pakusangalatsa kwa okondedwa. Gwiritsani ntchito izi. Afunseni kuti apite nanu, chifukwa ndichedwa kwambiri ndipo ndikuwopsya kupita kunyumba nokha. Yambani kukambirana zakugonana kapena kunena kuti mudzasokonezeka popanda izo. Mukagawana mwangozi, gwirani mnyamatayo kapena mutenge dzanja lake. Ngati simuli aakazi amantha, mum'kumbatireni. Zochita zoterozo zidzakhala ngati chizindikiro cha kugwirizanitsa komanso kukupsompsona kumeneku.
Komabe, njira iyi siigwira ntchito nthawi zonse, chifukwa mnyamata angakhale wochepetsetsa ndipo mwinamwake wofanana kwambiri amakukhulupirirani. Ndiye muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito njira zing'onozing'ono, ndipo ayenera kufotokoza zochitikazo monga zochitika zosavuta.
Pemphani wokondedwa wanu tsiku lanu lobadwa kapena Tsiku la Azimayi la Mkazi pa March 8th. Mungathe kubwera ndi tchuthi, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti chiyenera kukondana komanso kutanthauza kuyamikira. Panthawi imene mwamunayo akukuthokozani ndikuyandikira kumpsompsona pamasaya, muyenera kugwira nthawiyi ndikumuyang'ana ndi milomo yanu. Apa ndikumpsompsona kwa nthawi yayitali! Mwanjira yomweyi, mungathe kuchita pa tsiku la kubadwa kwake, koma tsopano muyenera kumpsompsona pamilomo. Ndipo panjira, musaiwale kusonyeza chibwenzi chanu kuti kukhudzidwa kwa milomo yake kunali kosangalatsa kwambiri kwa inu.
Kupita ku mafilimu nthawi zonse kunali mwayi waukulu wopsompsona. Ndibwino kusankha filimu yowopsya kapena sewero lachikondi kwambiri. Mu nthawi yovuta kwambiri ya filimuyo, mutha kukwera kwa chibwenzi chanu, onetsani kuti mukuwopa. Ndipo, ndithudi, kuti achotse mantha anu, iye akupsompsani inu. Mafilimu okonda kwambiri, makamaka achikondi, amakhalanso ndi milomo. Ndipo musaiwale kuti pakadalibe "malo oti ampsompsone", ndiko kuti, mzere wotsiriza wa cinema. Tengani matikiti kwa iwo, ndithudi amasonyeza kukoma mtima.
Ngati muli ndi ubale wautali ndi wokondedwa wanu, ndiye kuti musayambe kupanga chirichonse. Ndi bwino kuchita zinthu ndikukumana ndi mnyamata wanu.
Komabe, munthu ayenera kukhala wochenjera, mnyamatayo ayenera kumverera kuchokera kwa iyemwini, izi zidzamupatsa chidaliro.
Momwe mungakhalire kuti mupsompsone
Kuwonjezera pa zifukwa, zofunikira ndi khalidwe loyenera la mtsikanayo. Kukhoza kwa kupsompsonana kumawonjezereka kasanu ndi kamodzi ngati msungwana amamvetsera, kumwetulira, kumathandiza nthabwala zake. Chilichonse chikhale cholimbikitsa. Onetsani kuti mnyamata amene mumamukonda.
Ndipo wolandila wamba, omwe asungwana ambiri amaona kuti ndi othandiza kwambiri. Panthawi yomwe muli nokha ndi mnyamata wanu, yang'anani poyamba, ndikuyang'aninso milomo ndi maso. Iwo amati izo zimagwira ntchito.
Ndipo otsirizira ... ngati malingaliro atasiyidwa mosamalitsa, lankhulani za kupsompsona mwachindunji kapena kupsompsona nokha. Khalani ndikuwonetsa kuti achinyamata ambiri omwe akuyesera kupeza njira zothandizira mtsikanayo ponena za kumpsompsonana, koma sakuchita bwino.