Kodi chikondi chenicheni ndi choopsa?

Masiku ano, pansi pa lingaliro la "chikondi chenicheni" nthawi zambiri amatanthauza kugonana kwenikweni. Ndipo chinthuchi ndi chakuti pulogalamu yamakono opanga zamakono pa intaneti ndi anthu aulesi, safuna kusonyeza zizindikiro za chidwi m'moyo weniweni, kusamalirana wina ndi mzake ndi kupereka mphatso kwa munthu amene amamukonda, ndipo mwachidziwikire kutenga udindo pa chiyanjano cha chikondi. N'zosavuta kunena kuti lero anthu ambiri safunikira chilichonse kuchokera pamwambapa. Koma buku lokhalokha, molingana ndi ogwiritsa ntchito intaneti, sichidzikakamiza lokha, ndipo palibe udindo kwa wokondedwa. Mwa mawu, mukhoza kuyamba ma buku otero pamene mukufuna, ndi omwe mukufuna komanso osakhala ndi malire. Koma ngakhale zili choncho, ngakhale m'dziko lapansi munthu akhoza kuika pangozi. Choncho, sikungakhale zopanda nzeru kufunsa ngati bukuli ndi loopsya komanso kumvetsa kuti mabuku ochezera a pa Intaneti akugwirizanitsa osati kungokhala ndi vuto lokhalanso lopanda pake, koma komanso chifukwa chokhumudwitsa maganizo ndi maganizo awo. Kumbukirani kuti kusokonezeka kulikonse ndi kosaganiziridwa mu moyo wa munthu pa malo oti chibwenzi ndi chiyanjano nthawi zina kumachoka pamtima wa "wozunzidwa" omwe ali nawo mu bukuli.

Kuopsa kwa maubwenzi kudzera pa intaneti.

Monga tanenera pamwambapa, kawirikawiri buku lokhala ndi intaneti lonse limatanthauzira kugonana. Ndipo chomwe chiri chochititsa chidwi kwambiri, chiŵerengero cha anthu omwe akuchirikiza "maubwenzi otere" patapita pachaka amakhala ochulukirapo. M'mawu ake, chiwerengero cha ma buku amodzi amakula ndi kukula kwa majimidwe, ndipo panthawi yomweyi, anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana, maudindo, ndi zina zotero akhoza kutenga nawo mbali mu ubalewu. Onse a iwo akukhulupirira kwambiri kuti ali ndi mwayi woterewu, iwo amati, chifukwa chiyani amapita kwinakwake, kuyang'ana kapena kuyembekezera? Ndipo nyimbo zoterezi zimakhala zokonzeka kwathunthu ndipo sizikusowa zizindikiro zosamveka. Pali awiri okha omwe akugwirizanitsidwa ndi makompyuta kuwonetsa komanso Webusaiti Yadziko lonse. Mwa njira, ndipo palibe amene angadziwe za osakhulupirira, ngakhale ngati muli ndi mnzanu weniweni. Kodi mulibe chizindikiro chachikulu chokhala ndi mutu kuti mupite ku "chikondi chosangalatsa" chomwe sichiloledwa? Chabwino, koma ngati zolemba zamakono zili zowopsya, anthu ochepa chabe amaganiza za izo. Ndipo chomwe sichiyenera kunena, koma choyipa chotero, poyamba, kugonana kapena kukonda kungakhale ndi zotsatira zokhazokha.

Ngakhale kuphweka kwa ubale weniweni, akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti ndi buku lenileni (kuphatikizapo kugonana) zomwe sizowononga kwambiri zomwe ambiri amaganiza. Ndipo kuposa pamenepo, ndizoopsa kwa anthu. Zowopsya makamaka zikhoza kuwapweteka kwambiri anthu omwe ali ndi maganizo osakhazikika, omwe sangathe kukhazikitsa moyo wawo wokhawokha komanso omwe ali pachibwenzi kwambiri ndi wokondedwa wawo. Pachifukwa ichi, zotsatira zake zingathe kudwala matenda osiyanasiyana, mpaka kukula kwa zovuta komanso ngakhale matenda a schizophrenia.

Malingana ndi akatswiri onse a maganizo, kudalira pa buku lodziwika nthawi zambiri ndi loopsa kwambiri kuposa, mwachitsanzo, njuga, shopaholism, kugwirira ntchito, kusuta fodya ndi zina zotero. Mwa njira, chizoloŵezi ichi cha intaneti ndi chovuta kwambiri kuchotsa.

Kutaya maluso olankhulana .

Ngati munthu yemwe alibe wokhala naye kwamuyaya m'moyo weniweni, amakonda maubwenzi weniweni, izi sizikutanthauza kuti kukopa kotere sikuli koopsa kwa iye. Nthawi zina bukuli lingakhale chopunthwitsa ku chiyanjano chenicheni. Choyamba, izi ndi chifukwa chakuti wokondedwa weniweni nthawi zambiri amawonekeranso kuti ali woyenera. Ndicho chifukwa chake munthu amayamba kukhulupirira kuti ndi wodabwitsa kwambiri yemwe ali "mbali ina ya chowunika" ndipo safuna kusintha chilichonse. Komanso, ngati msungwana kapena mnyamata nthawi zonse "akumangirira" pa intaneti, mwayi wawo wopezeka ndi wokondedwa weniweni waperewera kwambiri. Ndipo luso loyankhulana ndi anthu "mwa amoyo" latayika kwambiri.

Zovuta zowononga .

Buku linalake lachinsinsi ndi loopsya chifukwa munthu amene akuyang'ana mnzanu weniweni amatha kuyankhulana ndi munthu yemwe amadziyerekezera ndi munthu wina. Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna yemwe ndi wosasangalatsa kwambiri kwa inu komanso amene mumamudziwa akhoza kupanga akaunti yatsopano ndikuwonekera pamaso panu munthu wosiyana ndi wodalirika. Motero, mumatsogoleredwa ndi chinyengo chotero, koma posakhalitsa mumadziwa choonadi chonse. Chabwino, ndithudi, kuti mungaleke kuyankhulana ndi munthu uyu, koma kusweka kwa maganizo sikupita nthawi yomweyo.

Apa ndizotheka kutchula omwe amatchedwa akwati akukwati. Koma izi, ndithudi, mukakhala kuti mukuwerengera kuti chikondi chanu chidzakhala ndi kupitilira moyo weniweni. Chiwembu cha ntchito zoterezi ndi chophweka ndipo chiri ndi zizindikiro zake: mwamuna yemwe ali wokondana kulankhulana amakoka madona ambiri, kuwawombera ndi mauthenga awo, mwachitsanzo, ku ICQ, kupeza chidaliro chawo chonse. Patapita kanthawi, chikondi cha pa intaneti, chomangiriridwa mwaluso kwa iwo, chimasandulika kukhala chopempha kuti apitirize kuyankhulana mmoyo weniweni. Pachifukwa ichi, palibe chomwe chingakhale chowopsya, chifukwa chikondi chanu chakhalapo kwa nthawi ndithu, bwanji osadziwana wina ndi mnzake pafupi? Munthu wokongola, panthawiyi, akuyenda kudutsa mumzinda, kukacheza ndi abwenzi ake enieni ndi kutenga nawo mitima yawo komanso ndalama.

Luso ndi luso lachinyengo .

Buku lenileni ndi loopsa pazosiyana kwa amuna. Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna amadziwana ndi mkazi, chifukwa cha kulankhulana bwino kwake, amamukonda, potsiriza ubale wawo umakhala chikondi cha pa intaneti komanso kugonana komweko ndi chikondi. Koma zikafika pamsonkhano weniweni, mkazi amavomereza zonse, koma kulipira. Momwemonso, mwamunayo amakhala wothandizira ake chifukwa chakuti pa chidziwitso chodalira kale chimadalira mayiyo.

Mwa njira, apa mungathe kuphatikizapo ubale weniweni ndi okonda zosiyana zogonana ndi zamaganizo "zoyesera." Mabwenzi oterewa ndi osankhidwa mwachindunji kudzera pa intaneti "okhaokha" ndipo amamupweteka maganizo, omwe ndi owopsa kwambiri kuposa Intaneti. Choncho kumbukirani, musanayambe bukuli, ganizirani izi ndipo yang'anani mnzanuyo watsopano m'njira iliyonse.

Koma, ndithudi, sizinthu zonse za pa Intaneti zimakhala ndi zotsatira zomvetsa chisoni, chifukwa munthu aliyense ali ndi zilakolako zachinsinsi ndi malingaliro ake, zomwe angathe kuzizindikira mu dziko lonse lapansi ndipo, mwa izi, zimakhala zosangalatsa. Chinthu chachikulu ndikumvetsera komanso kumudziwa bwino munthu amene mumamulankhulana naye!