Mbiri ya mtundu
Inde, mawu akuti "kutengeka" poyamba amatanthawuza momwe angaperekere maluwa. Ankaonekera pakati pa akuluakulu a boma ku France pakati pa zaka za m'ma 1700 ndi 1800. Ngakhale mbiri ya kukondana yokha imapita patapita zaka zambiri, mwachibadwa, kwa seductress wotchuka kwambiri ku dziko lakale, Cleopatra. Anali mfumukazi yotsiriza ya Aigupto kuchokera ku mafumu a Ptolemaic omwe anabweretsa zonunkhira, mafuta, ndi zonunkhira ndi pheromones, zomwe ankakonda kukopa chidwi cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Masiku ano, mawu oti "kukopa" adayambitsidwa ndi Wolemba Chingelezi wa Chesterfield. Iye adalongosola chimodzi mwa njira zazikulu za Lady Francis, pomwe adagwiritsa ntchito mwaluso njira zowonongeka mothandizidwa ndi wotchi: adatsegula, natseka, ndikubisa nkhope yonse, ndiye maso ake okha. Iye adazichita momveka bwino kuti mwamunayo yemwe adalankhula naye monyodola adanena kuti akungodzinyenga, adanena kuti akungodzikuza yekha, ndipo izi zimatchedwanso kukwatira. Kuchokera nthawi imeneyo, mtundu uwu wa zokongoletsera wakhala wamakono.
Zowonongeka zowonerera
Ndipo zovala zowonjezera, nsapato, makongoletsedwe, zipangizo, zonunkhira - zonsezi zinakhala zida zosavomerezeka za luso ndi mayesero.
Malingana ndi omwe akugwiritsa ntchito kugonana, mwamuna kapena mkazi, amagawanika kuti ayesedwe kapena kuyesedwa.
Njira yamayesero
Amuna ambiri amagwiritsabe ntchito chiyeso, amuna enieni samakhudzidwa ndi masewerawo chifukwa cha masewerawo, mosiyana ndi amayi. Dzuwa lodziwika kwambiri la Don Juan ndi Casanova linali ndi mphamvu zodabwitsa, zomwe zimakhudza akazi. Chifukwa chiyani? Zonsezi ndi njira.
1) Kuphunzira, kuwerenga kumayang'ana ndi chida chachikulu cha munthu pochita masewero olimbitsa thupi, ayenera kukhala wopitiriza komanso wolimba mtima. Ndi mawonekedwe otere munthu amakuwonetsani chidwi ndi kusankhidwa kwa osankhidwa ake.
2) Kukhazika mtima pansi, mapewa owongoka, kugwedeza-kotero munthu amasonyeza mphamvu zake, chidaliro ndi chofunika. Mzimayi, kaya akufuna kapena ayi, nthawi zonse adzagawira ena.
3) Kondometsani - chida nambala 1 mu chiyeso cha mayesero mwa amayi ndi abambo. Ndiko kumwetulira kwa munthu sikukukopa, koma, mmalo mwake, kuvomereza, kumasonyeza kuti ndi zabwino kuti ndikuyang'ane.
4) Kusinthasintha kwadzidzidzi kumakhala koyipa kwambiri pakati pa amuna pakukangana. Amachita mosadzidzimutsa, zonse zimachitika palokha: zovuta pamasaya anu, ngati kuwona kupezeka kwa nsalu zamtchire, zimadzipunthwitsa pachitini kapena kukonza tayi - ngati mwamunayo amachichita zonse, onetsetsani kuti mumamukonda kwambiri - ndipo izi siziri zina, monga kukonda.
5) Thandizo - perekani jekete kapena zovala kapena ambulera, mutsegule chitseko - si malamulo okha a kukoma mtima kapena chizindikiro chakuti munthu amasamala za thanzi lanu - izi ndizonso zomwe zimayambitsa mchitidwe wa chiwerewere. Zolemba zapamwamba za anthu omwe ankaimba serenades kwa okondedwa awo pansi pa mawindo kapena kutumiza maluwa ndi zolemba zinsinsi. Mwa njira, wotchuka wotchuka Casanova amagwiritsa ntchito njira zomwezo zowonongeka, popanda kupanga njira zophimba. Chida chake chachikulu chinali chidaliro ndi chikondi chenicheni kwa akazi.
Zizoloŵezi zowonerera
Kugonana ndi mwamuna kumakhala kovuta kwambiri, wochenjera kwambiri, wopepuka. Akazi amakukopana mwachangu komanso mwachindunji, pofuna kukonzekera, kuti akwanitse zolinga zawo. Ndi oimira zachiwerewere omwe ndi oyambitsa kukopa, omwe amayamba kukwatirana ndi munthu wina, kumukoka kumsewero wake.
1) Lingaliro la mkazi silo lotseguka komanso lachibale, koma mosiyana - losowa, losakhazikika. Zakale za mtunduwo - kuyang'ana kosalakwitsa, kochititsa manyazi, kutayira kwa eyelashes ndi kuyang'ana pansi, mobwerezabwereza, kutsegula kwa eyelashes mu miniti. Maganizo awa sadzasiya munthu aliyense.
2) Sungitsani - osati milomo, chifukwa kuwala kokongola, maso ndikumveketsa, ndipo amupatsa chidwi chanu.
3) Chilankhulo cha manja - zosavuta kuponyera tsitsi, ngati kuti akung'amba pang'onopang'ono, mophweka kugwedeza nsapato, kuponyera mwendo umodzi ku mzake - mwamunayo, kaya akufuna kapena ayi, adzakhala wophunzira mosasamala.
4) Liwu-liri chete, lofewa. Amuna nthawi yomweyo amasiyanitsa izo ndi mazana ena, ndipo kuseka kumayambitsa, ndikusangalala, zonsezi zimagwira ntchito mwachinyengo. Zomwe zili zofunika ndi zomwe mumanena: nkhani zosavuta, mawu osalongosoka - ndi kukwatulira kudzakhala ndi mbali yochititsa chidwi.
5) Gwiritsani ntchito chida chotsiriza ndi champhamvu kwambiri mu arsenal yanu, yomwe imatsimikizira cholinga cha zochita zanu. Pochita masewera olimbitsa thupi, akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangiza kuchepetsa zero, mwinamwake masewerawa akhoza kupita kupitirira zolinga zanu. Kumbukirani: "malo ammudzi" - 1.2 mamita, "munthu" - 70 masentimita ndi "wapamtima" - 45 masentimita. Sankhani pa cholinga ndikudutsa malire ololedwa mwa iwo. Kugonana ndi chilakolako chosatha cha abambo awiri, chinsinsi chawo komanso mgwirizano wawo. Gwiritsani ntchito mwaluso, kupanga moyo kukhala wolemera komanso wosangalatsa. Nchiyani chingathandize kukhala wokongola, wathanzi, wokondweretsa komanso wopanda makwinya tsiku lililonse? Chinsinsi chiri muwonetsedwe tsiku ndi tsiku la chikondi! Kupsompsona kwachiwiri kwa makumi awiri ndi makumi awiri kummawa kungapangitse kusangalala kwa tsikulo - mapeto olembedwa ndi akatswiri a maganizo a pa yunivesite ya Berlin, motsogoleredwa ndi Lars Hagen. Kutalika kwa kupsompsona koyenera kumatengedwa kuti ndi maminiti atatu, asayansi amati, amene adawonetsa mazana awiri awiri a mibadwo yosiyanasiyana. Kuonjezera apo, onse omwe anafunsidwa pambuyo pa njira yabwinoyi adawonekeratu pa moyo wawo. Kupsompsona kwachitali kumatha kuyimitsa masamba a vegetative dystonia chifukwa cha kuimika kwa mahomoni.