Kodi kupotoza ndi chiyani? Aliyense adzayankha funsoli mwa njira yake. Zonse zimadalira chikhalidwe cha mkati, maphunziro apamtima komanso mlingo wa ufulu wa munthu aliyense. Kuti wina apsompsone tsiku loyamba - ndiko kutalika kwa kupotoza. Ndipo chifukwa cha kugonana ndi munthu wina ndi gulu - njira yodziwika bwino kwambiri. Kotero momwe mungasiyanitse pakati pa kugonana kwachinyengo ndi chizoloŵezi ndipo kawirikawiri pamakhala lingaliro lotero la "kupotoza" mu kugonana?
Ndipotu, pali chinthu choterocho. Ndipo ziri mwamtheradi konkrete ndi zofanana kwa aliyense. Kupotoka kwachiwerewere ndi mtundu wa matenda, mtundu wamalingaliro omwe munthu sangapeze kukondweretsa kugonana mwa njira "yachizolowezi". Nthaŵi zambiri, kupotoka kumaphatikizapo nkhanza ndi kupambana kwa mphamvu. Koma osati nthawi zonse. Mulimonsemo, pali mitundu yambiri yowononga zogonana. Pafupi kenako.
Nthawi zambiri timamva ndemanga ngati: "Ndizovuta bwanji! Uku ndiko kupotoza kwenikweni! "Kawirikawiri, anthu omwe ali ndi maofesi ena obisika amachitapo kanthu ndipo amakhala opusa komanso osagona pabedi. Ndipo chimene amachitcha kupotoza, nthawi zambiri mawonekedwe omwe amachitika kawirikawiri amalingaliro kwambiri kwa iwo. Anthu omwe amadziwa zokondweretsa wina ndi mzake, omwe saopa zoyesera, amatha kupotozedwa mosavuta ngati zonyenga pakamwa kwa onyenga ovuta komanso osamala.
Koma pali nkhani ina. Pali zifukwa pamene madontho a magazi amangofotokoza za kupsinjika kumene kumapangidwa ndi misala ena pa ozunzidwa osalakwa. Palibe amene anatsutsidwa konse - ichi ndi kupotoza kwenikweni. Ndipo palibe amene amatsutsana nazo izi. Ndipo anthu otere (kapena osakhala anthu) amatsutsidwa mwamseri. Mudzadabwa, komabe ngakhale pa nkhani yoyamba, kapena yachiwiri sikuli zokhuza kugonana monga choncho. Pachiyambi choyamba, tikulimbana ndi maganizo okhudzana ndi kugonana, ndi mtundu wa ufulu wa kugonana, ndipo wachiwiri - ndi matenda a maganizo. Nanga kusiyana kotani pakati pa kugonana ndi chizoloŵezi chomwe tingachiitane ndiye? Ndipo kodi apo? Alipo!
Kusokonezeka sikungatchedwe kupsompsonana kwa wokondedwa, kutenga nawo mbali mwa kugonana kwa gulu kapena kuchitidwa kwa abambo ndi amai okalamba. Izi ndizo zowonjezera zowonjezereka zokhutira kugonana kwabwino. Kusokonezeka sikungatchedwe kugonana kwa abambo, kugonana pogwiritsa ntchito zikhomo kapena kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zowonjezera - madera, maulendo a anal, plethys ndi zina zotero. Ngati izo zimapatsa chisangalalo kwa onse awiri - bwanji osatero? Kuchokera pa malo owonera akatswiri, izi ndizoyendera bwino. Koma kodi akatswiri amafotokoza chiyani ngati kugonana kwachinyengo? Nazi mitundu yambiri mwao:
- Agalmatophilia: ndi kupotoka uku, kugonana ndi chifanizo chachisambo kapena chithunzi chosonyeza thupi lamaliseche. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, munthu akhoza kuganiza zokonda kugonana pokhapokha atayang'ana zinthu zoterezi.
- Asxiphophily: ndi chisangalalo ichi chogonana chimachokera ku kusowa kwa mpweya. Munthu amakumana ndi zowawa, kupuma, koma osataya nthawi yomweyo. Kawirikawiri anthu amayesera kudzimangiriza okha ndi chingwe kapena nsalu, pofuna kudzibweretsa okha kuzinthu. Nthawi zina zimathera pamapeto.
- Voyeurism: pamene chisangalalo chimapereka kuwunikira kwa anthu ena popanda chidziwitso chawo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, munthu amawonanso anthu ena, akuyang'ana pawindo, mwachitsanzo, ndipo izi ndizosavuta.
- Chiwonetsero: pamene kukakamiza kugonana kumatheka mwa anthu kudzera mu ziwonetsero za ziwalo zawo zogonana kwa ena. Anthu otere (nthawi zambiri amuna) amapezeka nthawi zina m'malo amodzi. Amangoyamba kutsegula zovala zawo, kusonyeza ziwalo zawo ndikubisala m'magulu.
- Erotonophonophilia: pamene kukhutitsidwa kwa kugonana kumachitika pakupha anthu osakayikira.
- Kleptophilia: ndi kukhutitsidwa kwa kugonana kumene kumapezeka poba zinthu. Kuchokera ku kleptomania kumasiyana kokha pamene kleptomania munthu amangomva kuti adrenaline ikufulumira pa kuba, koma samawona mphulupulu.
- Coprophagia: ndi kukhutira ndi kugonana kumeneku kumachitika panthawi yamadzimadzi
- Masochism: Chikondwerero ichi chogonana chimadza chifukwa cha zochita za thupi zomwe zimapweteka.
- Chisamaliro: pamene kukhutitsidwa kwa kugonana kumatheka chifukwa chopweteka wokondedwa.
- MOSOSCOPY: Pankhani iyi, kukakamiza kwambiri kugonana kumatheka mwa kuyang'ana zina zogonana. Zikhoza kukhala mafilimu oonetsa zolaula pa intaneti, pangakhale zochitika zomwe zimachotsedwa pawindo kapena kwinakwake kunja kwa nyumba.
- Naratophilia: ndi kukondana kotereku kumapezeka kudzera mwa mawu ena a slang. Kulankhula momveka bwino, munthu amakhala ndi chiwonongeko panthawi yachinenero choipa, mawu omveka a mnzanuyo. Ikhoza kukhala limodzi ndi kugonana kwachizolowezi, ndipo mwinamwake ayi.
- Necrophilia: ndi kukondana kotereku kumatheka chifukwa cha kukhudzana ndi thupi lakufa.
- Pictograph: ndi kukondana kotereku kumapindula mwa kuyang'ana mafano ena / zojambula zowonongeka.
- Zojambulazo: pamene chisangalalo chimapereka kuwunika kwa zochitika zina zogonana. Osangowona, koma kukambirana, kufotokoza mwatsatanetsatane, kuyerekezera ndi zochitika zina, ndi zina zotero.
- Matenda a Somnophilia kapena "Sleeping Beauty": Pankhaniyi, zosangalatsa za kugonana zimakwaniritsidwa chifukwa cha kugonana.
- Stigmatophilia: Chisangalalo choterechi chimapezeka chifukwa chokhala ndi zinthu zosiyanasiyana - makamaka zodzikongoletsera: zibangili, mphete za diamondi, ndi zina zotero.
- Urophilia: Pankhaniyi, chisangalalo chimachitika mukakhudzana ndi mkodzo. Ndipo, osati kwenikweni ndi wokondedwa wake wa mkodzo. Zikhoza kukhala mkodzo wa nyama.
Pambuyo pophunzira mitundu yonseyi ya zolakwika zogonana, mukuwoneka mosiyana ndi kugonana kwachilendo komanso zovuta zake. Ndipo nthabwala yopanda chilungamo imawoneka ngati mapepala ofewa ndi nthunzi pansi pa mtsamiro. Ndipo momwe mungasiyanitse pakati pa kugonana kwachinyengo ndi zofala zowonongeka, palibe vuto palokha.