Kugonana kwabwino: kodi ndi koyenera?

Intaneti inaloleza anthu kugonana pafupifupi pa mafakitale, kuwataya iwo pazitsulo zonse. Koma tiyeni tisunthire pang'ono pang'ono ndikuyesera kupeza zomwe anthu amaganiza za chodabwitsa ichi.
Zowonongeka kawirikawiri zimasiyanitsa okonda, zoterezi ndizo maulendo, maulendo ogwira ntchito, kusintha ntchito, banal ntchito m'makampani osiyanasiyana, osalola kuti tsiku lonse likhale pamodzi. Koma ngati chibwenzi chonse chisanayambe kulembera makalata ndi maitanidwe osavomerezeka pa Lachisanu, lero intanethi ya intaneti imakulolani kuti muwone wokondedwa ngakhale mtunda wa makilomita zikwi kuchokera kwa wina ndi mzake. Izi, mwachibadwa, zimaphatikizapo kutuluka kwa "Wirth" (kugonana komweko), ndipo ziyenera kukumbukira kuti pakati pa achinyamata amakono nkhaniyi ndi yamba.

Kwenikweni, nchiyani cholakwika ndi icho? Tsikulo liri lalitali, ntchitoyo ndi yosangalatsa, ndipo ICQ ndi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti akhala akuiwalika. Ndizosangalatsa kukhala pansi kuntchito: kuzungulira gulu la anzanu, nthawi zina ngakhale makasitomala akukwiyitsa akuyendayenda, ndipo mumakhala kutsogolo kwa zofuna zanu, zomwe si zoyenera osati za Shakespeare, koma ngakhale filimu ya Germany ya m'ma 90s! Chithunzi chachikulu, zala pa makiyi oyenda kuzungulira ... ndiko kuwala kokha m'maso mwake ndipo tsitsi lopanda tsitsi la mkamwa mwake limapereka choonadi.

Poyamba, zonse zimaoneka zosangalatsa, zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa, koma mumayamba kumvetsetsa kuti zonsezi ndizo zenizeni. Musalole kuti china chilichonse chichitike kuchokera pambali - makalata okha amatha pakati pa makompyuta awiri ndi waya ndi mpweya, koma zonse ziri pamutu zilizonse ngati kuti palibe wina ali pafupi, ngati usiku uli pabwalo, kuwala kowala kumalowa, komanso anthu awiri, kuti tsiku lina m'mawa adzabwera.

Zochita ndi machitidwe a mauthenga omwe alipo
Anthu omwe amakopeka kugonana, posakhalitsa zimakhala zomveka kuti iye sasiyana kwenikweni ndi kugonana kwenikweni, chifukwa momwe akumverera ndi okonda enieni ali enieni. Aliyense amaganizira za momwe angapangitsire mnzakeyo kukhala wosangalatsa, momwe angadziwonetse yekha bwino komanso akuyimira zomwe zikuchitika pazenera. Kotero kusiyana kwake ndi kotani? Popanda kukhudzana ndi thupi? Koma kodi ndizolemera, ngati "chinthu" chachikulu chikuchitika pamutu?

Kuonjezera apo, kugonana komweko kumakupatsani mwayi wokhala ndi chiwerengero cha anthu ogonana nawo, chifukwa intaneti ndizovuta kwambiri, ndipo anthu ambiri, sadziwa bwino wina ndi mzake. Kusakaniza kwa zinthu izi kumapangitsa kuti anthu atsegule pa nthawi ya Wirth ndi bwino kwambiri kuposa nthawi yeniyeni yogonana, chifukwa palibe zinthu zomwe zimatilepheretsanso kuyanjana. Lasciviousness? "Timangolemba." Mavuto? "Iye sakundidziwa ine nkomwe". Kusakhutitsidwa ndi maonekedwe anu? "Ndidzamutumizira chithunzi kuchokera pamalo ena."

Maganizo a amuna kapena akazi ogonana pazomwe amagonana
Atsikana omwe amafunsidwa mafunso ambiri amavomerezedwa ndi zotsatirazi: "Kugonana kwabwino ndi chinthu cholemetsa kusiyana ndi usiku wosagwirizana ndi mlendo kuchokera ku gulu, chifukwa zimakhudza maganizo ndi moyo. Kuphatikizanso, kusakhulupirika kwenikweni, mwina, kungakhale kolemetsa kwambiri kuposa kwenikweni, chifukwa cha zifukwa zomwezo. "

Anyamata pa nkhaniyi ali ndi lingaliro losiyana, lomwe, silolendo kwa chiyambi cha "mwamuna logic". Ambiri mwa anthu ofunsidwawo amaganizira kuti kugonana kumakhala kosafunikira kwenikweni (komanso kuyang'ana zolaula), koma funso: "Ie. simukumbukira ngati bwenzi lanu lidzachita nawo ndi alendo? ", yankhani mwachidule ndi momveka bwino:" Kutsutsana! " Aloleni ayese! ".

Chikondi chenicheni ndi choipa?
Tiyeni tifotokoze pang'ono: kugonana komweko kumalola anthu kumasulidwa ndikupeza zilakolako zachinsinsi zomwe zimakhala zovuta kuziwona pamoyo weniweni. Komabe, simudzafuna kulemba mobwerezabwereza, ndani komanso pamene mumpsompsona komanso komwe mukufuna kuchita chinenero - munthu akukonzekera kuti nthawi zonse azifuna zambiri. Posakhalitsa padzakhala mayesero osatsutsika oti musalembe, koma kuti muchite zomwe mukuganiza, ndipo panthawi imeneyo mudzazindikira kuti chirichonse chiri chovuta. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, muzowona kuti Lucien ndi wosirira - osati Lyuska kuchokera ku ofesi yotsatira, ndipo Margot si mnansi wachilendo wokhala ndi ubweya wambiri komanso olemera kwambiri.

Mulimonsemo, ndizokhumudwitsa kwambiri kuti maganizo ovuta kwambiri, omwe asanduka mbali yofunikira kwambiri ya mbiri ya anthu, pang'onopang'ono amachoka pa Net - pali zamwano zowonongeka ndi zonyansa, mwinamwake ndizofunikira kusiya chikondi mu dziko lenileni?