Panthawi imene chibwenzicho chinangoyamba kuonekera pa intaneti, anthu ambiri osungulumwa, omwe ankafuna kuti azidziŵa bwino, anali osamala kwambiri pankhani yodziwika bwino. Nthawi yambiri yadutsa kuchokera nthawi imeneyo, ndipo malo akupitiriza kukula ndikuwonjezeka. Mpaka pano, sitikuwoneka kuti ndi chiyembekezo chomaliza chopeza kuti simunzanu wokhazikika, koma mwina mwamuna kapena mkazi. Ambiri amakhulupirira kuti ma sitetiwa asokoneza lingaliro la chibwenzi ndikupotoza chikondi chenicheni. Ndipo kwa ambiri, malowa ndi mwayi wapadera wopeza munthu. Mbadwo watsopanowu wa anthu omwe akuyang'ana hafu yawo ndi omwe amagwiritsira ntchito malo ochezera.
Potsiriza mwampeza munthu wamaloto anu pa tsamba. Buku losavuta - kukondana ndi interlocutor ndilosavuta. Ndipotu, kulankhulana ndi mnzanuyo kumakhalabe ndi magalasi ofiira. Ngakhale musanafike pamsonkhano ndi munthu yemwe simukumudziwa mukhoza kudziwa za zizoloŵezi zake ndi khalidwe lake. Koma mukakumana, kawirikawiri watsopano, inu simungakhalepo konse omwe inu munaimira. Akhoza kukhala wamkulu kuposa zaka khumi, ndi pansi pa sentimita khumi, ndipo akulemera kilogalamu ndi makumi atatu kuposa momwe akuwonetsera mu mafunso ake. Izi ndi momwe chikumbumtima chathu chimagwirira ntchito, ngati sitinauzidwe maonekedwe ena, ndiye kuti timaganiza ndikudzimaliza tokha. Ngati kukula sikukudziwika, ndiye kuti ife tidzakhala pamwamba. Musati mufotokoze kunja - kwa ife iye ndi wokongola. Pambuyo pa zonse, ndikufuna kwambiri kuti ndikhale wokongola monga m'nthano. Ndipo zimakhala zovuta kuwombera magalasi pinki ndikuyang'anitsitsa mosankhidwa bwino.
Kodi tingatani kuti tipewe kukhumudwa tikakumana? Choyamba, ndi ntchito, ndipo molingana ndi chidziwitso chatsopano muyenera kuchigwira ngati polojekiti. Choyamba, muyenera kuganizira za yemwe tikumufunafuna? Mzanga watsopano? Wogonana naye? Mwamuna wam'tsogolo? Ndipo moona mtima lembani za funsoli. Tikawerenga mafunso angapo ndikusankha oyenerera, timayamba kulankhulana. Pankhaniyi, sikuli manyazi kulemba choyamba. Ngati iye sakuyankha, ziribe kanthu, timapita ku yachiwiri, makumi awiri .. Mwa njira, mukasankha munthu amene mukuyesera kuti mudzipangire nokha zochepa kuposa atsikana omwe akuyesa mafunso awo. Gawo lotsatira sizeng'onoting'ono gawo ili lachidziwitso.
Popeza kuti anthu ambiri pachibwenzi pa intaneti - chabe masewera, kotero misonkhano yeniyeniyi imasiya kukhala cholinga. Kukhala pachibwenzi - kumakhala chizoloŵezi chochotsa zomwe nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta. Zikuwoneka kuti zikuwoneka zovuta kale, kuvala bwino, kubwera kumalo osonkhana. Izi zachitika mofulumira kotero kuti anthu amadabwa kwambiri akalandira kuitanidwa kumsonkhano kuchokera pa foni yawo. Ambiri samvetsetsa kuti ena akuphatikizapo batani la makompyuta awo ndikuyembekeza kupeza wokondedwa pa dziko lachiwawa, koma lenileni.
Mphindi yomwe mungathe kugwira maso a munthu, kumwetulira ndi chiwombankhanga chomwe mumamva poganiza za chilakolako choyandikira. Zomwe simungaiwale pamene munthu akumwetulira ndi kuchepetsa maso ake - kumva dzina lanu ndi zonsezi zikhoza kuchoka, monga zolemba zozizwitsa za wolemba woyamba zimasintha pazomwe mumazisankha m'dziko lonse lapansi.