Kulakwitsa koyamba ndikuti palibe njira yochokera kwa inu.
Pazogonana, amai nthawi zambiri amatenga mbali, chifukwa safuna kuti aziwoneka ngati okhwima kapena opitilira. Akatswiri owona za kugonana amalingalira kuti cholakwika ichi ndi chachikulu kwambiri, chikugwirizana ndi kufalitsa maudindo pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Amakhulupirira kuti akazi, mosiyana ndi amuna, sagonana kwambiri. Choncho, nthawi zonse munthu amadziona kuti ali woyambitsa, ndipo izi zimakhudza kwambiri kugonana, zomwe zimayambitsa kusamvana mwa iwo. Amuna akufuna kuti ayesedwe ndi anzawo, kotero kuti palibe kuganiza kuti amafunikira kugonana basi.
Onse awiri ayenera kugonana. Ngati mutenga sitepe yoyamba, yesetsani kutenga zokhudzana ndi kugonana. Izi zimalimbikitsa khalidwe la kugonana, komanso zimabweretsa abwenzi pafupi.
Cholakwika chachikazi chachikazi pa kugonana - mumakhudzidwa ndi momwe mukuwonekera.
Mwinamwake simudzakhutira ndi kugonana, ngati muli pa kama mumaganizira za mawonekedwe. Chisokonezo chanu chidzafalikira kwa mnzanuyo, pa nkhani iyi, kugonana kungawonedwe kuti sikunayende.
Asayansi asayansi amatsimikizira kuti amuna sazindikira ngakhale theka la zinthu zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala osasangalala. Zodzoladzola, maonekedwe a mchiuno ndi mimba, tsitsi lodulidwa, cellulite - amuna samasamala. Pa bedi kwa amuna kumeneko mumakhala khungu. Kwa iwo, changu chanu, mphamvu zanu ndi chidwi chanu pa kugonana ndizofunika kwambiri.
Cholakwika chachitatu - mukuganiza kuti kugonana kwa amuna ndikofunikira kuposa ubale wokha.
Izi ndizonso zowonongeka kwambiri pa kugonana. Mu ubale wautali, amuna amagwiritsa ntchito kugonana kusiyana ndi kugonana kwachiwerewere. Maphunziro a sayansi atsimikizira kuti pankhani ya maubwenzi a amai ndi abambo, kugonana kumakhutiritsa. Choncho, nthawi zambiri chiwerewere chimakhala pakati pa okwatirana.
Zimatsimikiziridwa kuti anthu ali ndi maganizo okhudzana kwambiri ndi kugonana komanso maubwenzi kuposa amayi.
Cholakwika chachinayi - mukuganiza kuti amuna amakhala okonzeka kugonana.
Makhalidwe amenewa amachitika kwa achinyamata, m'malo mwa achinyamata. Mu moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, kupanikizika kumachepetsa mwamuna libido, uyu sangakhale mkazi wokondweretsa kwambiri. Koma kumbukirani, ngati mwamuna sakufuna, "safuna", osati "ndi inu."
Cholakwika chachisanu - pa nthawi yogonana simunena zomwe mukufuna kuchokera kwa iye.
Wokondedwa wanu ayenera kudziwa zomwe mukufuna, ndipo muyenera kumumvetsera. Njira yokhayo yothetsera chiyanjano chogonana chokhazikika ndi kukambirana momasuka, ngakhale simukuzikonda.
Ngakhale kuti mkazi sakhala ndi udindo pa zochitika zake zogonana, mwamuna sangathe kumubweretsa kuti azisangalala. Ngakhale wokonda kwambiri padziko lapansi sadziwa chomwe mkazi akufuna.
Mwamuna akukhutira kukhutiritsa zilakolako zanu zogonana, kotero iye adzachitapo kanthu mwachimwemwe. Koma kuti musasokoneze kudzidalira kwa amuna, muyenera kusankha mawu oyenera.
Cholakwika chachisanu ndi chimodzi - ngati chimapereka chinachake chatsopano, mwakwiya.
Pambuyo pazaka zingapo za banja, nthawi zonse mumafuna zosiyana zogonana. Ngati mnzanu akufuna kuti ayesere chinthu chatsopano pa kugonana, sizikutanthauza kuti sakukondwera ndi kugonana.
Simuyenera kuchita zomwe simukuzifuna. Makamaka zimakhudzana ndi malo apamtima. Ngati mnzanuyo akulimbikitseni, mulole mnzanuyo kudziwa bwino chifukwa chake simukufuna kuchita. Koma pa nthawi yomweyo muyenera kusankha mawu omwe samamupweteka.