Pali zizindikiro zomwe zimanyamula chidziwitso chofunikira ndipo zimagwiritsidwa ntchito m'zinenero zosiyanasiyana. Zizindikiro zomwe zimafanana ndi anthu ndikuwonetsa anthu awo. Mauthenga omwe amakhudza ubwino wokhalapo. Dzinali ndi zizindikiro. Kodi kugwirizana kwa anthu ndi zizindikiro za chizindikiro? Werengani - ndipo tipeze kuti "chizindikiro" ndi chiyani. Zinsinsi zawo zonse ziri pano.
Awiri alembe, atatu mu malingaliro.
Vuto lalikulu la kuyankhulana limaperekedwa ndi anthu-ndemanga. Simukudziwa ngati zolankhula zawo zili zolunjika kapena chirichonse chiyenera kumveka mwachifanizo. Zimakhala zovuta kudziwa zomwe ziri mmaganizo mwawo komanso ngati ziyenera kukhulupilika. Sali zophweka kwa iwoeni, chifukwa akuyembekezera chinyengo chochokera kwa anthu ndi dziko lapansi, kusakhulupirika kwa anthuwa kumakhala kosavomerezeka, kosasintha. Iwo amakayikiranso mwa iwo okha, osati mwa ena okha. Chimene amachiopa, amalandira. Iwo samafuna kwenikweni kukhala mabwenzi nawo, iwo "amalowetsamo" ndipo amanyengerera, iwo amakanidwa ndipo samawakonda. Pangani moyo wanu mosavuta
ndipo ina ingakhale njira imodzi yokha: kuonjezera chitukuko cha kuwona mtima ndikusiya mayeso. Gwiritsani ntchito ndemanga pazinthu zokhazokha, poiwala kuti angathe kuthetsa tanthawuzo la mawu kumbali yosiyana. Njirayi "Kodi izi ndi zoona?". Ndi zophweka, ndizofunikira kuti afunse funso ili kuzinthu zake zonse.
- ndimakonda nkhaniyi.
- Kodi izi ndi zoona?
- Chabwino, zenizeni, ndi zosangalatsa komanso zatsopano si zokwanira ...
- Nkhaniyi ndi yokhumudwitsa, koma chinachake chiribe chidwi.
Mawu omalizira ndikulankhulidwa mwachindunji omwe angatchulidwe, zokambirana za mkati zitatu.
Titsegula mabotolo.
Mavuto a kuwona mtima ndi kutseguka amachoka osati m'mawu okha. Mabwalo a anthu, otsekedwa ndi akutali, otetezedwa ndi otsekedwa, amakhalanso akuwoneka ndi mantha ndi kukayikira. Sizimasuka kulankhula ndi madzi oundana, omwe ambiri amabisala pansi pa madzi. Pa nthawi yomweyo, anthu awa amakopeka chinsinsi chawo ndi kusadziwika kwawo, kutuluka kwawo kumapangitsa ulemu. Kuwunikira mabala oterowo kuli ngati kutsegula manja anu: mumapeza njira yatsopano yolankhulana. Gwiritsani ntchito pokambirana nawo ndi kubwezeretsa - ndi kupeza zambiri zowonjezera zowonjezera. Mafotokozedwe atsopano akufotokozera malingaliro monga:
- ngati ndikumvetsa bwino ...
- mukutanthauza kuti ...
- ngati mukulongosola zomwe mwanena, zikutuluka ...
- ngati ndagwira bwino lingaliro lanu, izo zikutuluka ...
Icho chimakhala chitsimikiziro, ndipo ndicho chomwe ife tikusowa.
Bweretsani zochotsedwa.
Dash - chinthu chodziwonetsera chokha kuti sikuli koyenera kulankhula za, dash, ndi zina. Ine ndine bwana, ndinu wopusa, iye ndi wanzeru, ndipo iwe ndiwe wani-the-wit. Msungwana wochokera pachivundikiro cha magazini yofiira ndi wapamwamba, ndipo ine ndikuwonetsera mu kalilole wokhotakhota. Kodi ndi chiyani chomwe mungakambirane? Chirichonse chikuwonekera, mu liwu limodzi - dash. Koma! Chimene chimapita popanda kunena kwa dash-munthu, chifukwa choti womuthandizira akhoza kukhala ndi tanthauzo losiyana kwambiri. Pali bwana, koma malingaliro amalingaliro sali otsimikiziridwa ndi mpando womwe amakhala nawo. Msungwana yemwe ali pachivundikiro ndi wangwiro komanso wosasangalatsa, koma mawonekedwe anga osakhala ofanana ndi chinthu choyenera kugwira. Anthu anzeru nthawi zina sangapereke chilichonse chatsopano kudziko lapansi, ndipo theka la Einstein, yemwe sanadziwe mayeso omaliza, analenga chiphunzitso chogwirizana.
Anthu amatha kukangana kuti asakhale chete, kotero kuti wokondedwayo adziganizire kumene adamukhumudwitsa ndi chifukwa chake adalowa "kumatetezedwe akafa." Kuchokera pa kufotokoza kulikonse kwa chiyanjano chaumunthu chikana. Ngati ndikhala chete, ndizolakwa zanu, zomwe sizikuwoneka bwino? Koma iyi ndi njira yoperekera, chifukwa posachedwa mnzanuyo adzatopa ndi kulingalira pa malo a khofi, kufunafuna zolakwa zake, ndipo adzati: "Kodi iwe uli chete? Ndipo khalani chete pa thanzi lanu. Ndili ndi chochita ndi? ".
Mawu ofunika kwambiri amabisika pansi pa dash: "ndi", "it", "amatanthawuza." Kuwasintha iwo ndi dash yosavuta, timachotsa kunjenjemera, kuchotseratu kufunika kwake ndi kukayikira kukhalapo komweko. Chotsani dash - ndi osatetezeka kwambiri.
Tulankhulirani mawu akuti "ndi", nenani ndikukambirana zodandaula, fufuzani ubale weniweni wa mawuwo. Ndikukulangizani kwambiri kuti mugwiritse ntchito mafotokozedwe a I: Panopa simukukhala ndi nthawi yaying'ono ndi ine, ndipo ndikukwiya chifukwa chakuti timakhala nthawi yochepa. Simunaiwale za tsiku la ukwati wathu, koma sindinakukumbutseni. Simukumenya pa ine, koma ndimachita mantha kwambiri ndi ziboliboli zonyansa. I-zothandizira zothandizira kuti zibweretse moyo ku mlingo wa madontho, ndipo izi ...
Buku lokhala ndi zotsatira.
Ngati muli ndi mwayi wobadwira monga ellipsis, ndinu ofunikira komanso a demokarasi, otseguka ku zatsopano ndi zamphamvu, zodabwitsa komanso zosagwirizana. Ngati kuchokera pa kubadwa, makhalidwe amenewa sali okwanira, mungathe komanso muyenera kukhala, chifukwa ellipsis - moyowu ndi moyo wodabwitsa komanso wosadabwitsa, wokhutira komanso wosadziwiratu. Uwu ndi mwayi woti mubwere ndiwongolerani nokha za chitukukocho, kupeza mphamvu pazochitika. Chizindikiro chirichonse chingakhale ellipsis, padzakhala chilakolako, chotsimikiziridwa ndi kuchitapo kanthu.
Panthawi ina, pamene ulemerero wa mneneri Mose unkafika m'mayiko oyandikana nawo, mmodzi wa mafumu adatumiza wojambula kwa Israeli kuti akoke ndi kumubweretsa chithunzi cha munthu wamkulu. The tsar anali ndi wambwebwe yemwe, mwa chithunzi, amakhoza kuwulula khalidwe la munthu, motero zinali zotheka kudziwa ngati ulemerero wa Mose umagwirizana ndi maluso ake enieni. Chithunzicho chinapangidwa, chinaperekedwa, ndipo wolosera uja ananena kuti palibe chilema chotere monga munthu amene akuwonetsedwa pazenera sakanakhoza. Mfumu yaukaliyo inaganiza kuti iwononge wina wojambula, kapena wonyenga wamasomphenya. Koma choyamba anayenera kukomana ndi Mose mwiniyo kuti awone ngati fanolo lidafanana ndi mneneri weniweni. Ngati zikuwoneka ngati wamatsenga adzafa, ngati ayi, imfa imayang'ana katswiriyo. Ndipo apa msonkhano womwe wakhala ukudikiridwa kwa nthawi yaitali unachitika, Mose akubwera kudzachingamira mfumu, ngati madontho awiri a madzi ofanana ndi fano lake ... Mfumuyo imamuitana wakuphayo.
"Chifukwa chiyani mukusowa wakupha?" mneneri akufunsa.
- Kupha munthu wamatsenga amene adanena kuti iwe, munthu wamkulu, muli ndi mphamvu zochitapo kanthu.
"Musafulumire ndi kuphedwa, ndikutha kuchita zinthu zochepa kwambiri, koma ukulu wanga ukupezeka chifukwa chakuti ndatha kuthetsa izi mwa ine ndekha."
Mwinamwake kugonjetsa ndi kusinthira pang'ono ndikuphatikizana ndizofunikira kwambiri kusintha kwakukulu, komwe zizindikiro zonse zolembera zimatikhudza ife?