Momwe mungasunge kutali mu ubale ndi anzako

Anthu omwe amagwira nawo ntchito zamakhalidwe, nthawi zambiri amayenera kuthana ndi zomwe zimatchedwa chiyanjano chosagwirizana mu timu. M'makampani a kumadzulo, maphwando a tiyi ophatikizana, ma buku a utumiki kapena maubwenzi ena apamtima kuntchito sakulimbikitsidwa, ndipo penapake ngakhale ataponyedwa.

M'makampani a ku Russia, mosiyana, maubwenzi osadziwika angaperekedwe nthawi yambiri.

Kukambirana mu chipinda chosuta fodya, pa tiyi kapena pa phwando lamagulu kungakhale maziko oti apange chisankho chofunikira. Ndipo ngati muwapewa, mungathe kukhala kutali ndi ntchito zazikulu kapena kusintha kwakukulu. Pa nthawi yomweyi, ubwenzi wapamtima ndi anzako ukhoza kuwononga chifukwa. Pambuyo pake, kuyesa kulingalira ntchito ya wogwila ntchitoyo kumatayika, ndipo matemberero kapena mikangano yaumwini ingakhalenso yosakanikirana.

Zovuta kwambiri ndi anthu otere omwe amaganizira za zotsatira zake, ndipo ntchito yawo imalepheretsedwa ndi misonkhano yosatha komanso zoitanira kukambirana mafunso omwe ali ogwira ntchito. Amuna nthawi zambiri amavutika ndi mavuto amenewa. Akazi mu maubwenzi ndi anzawo nthawi zina amayenera kutalika chifukwa cha zifukwa zina. Kawirikawiri izi zimachitika chifukwa cha chauvinism kuntchito.

Zimangowoneka poyambirira kuti akazi adakwaniritsa zofanana ndi amuna. Ndikofunikira kuti mkazi asonyeze zofuna zake kuntchito, pomwe iye akudziwitsani mwamsanga chiwerengero china cha otsutsa pakati pa anyamata anzawo. Mu ubale ndi iwo, zosafunikira, mikangano ndi kuzunzika kwa mitundu zosiyanasiyana zingabwere. Imodzi mwa njira zowonjezereka zowononga mpikisano wolakalaka ndi wamphamvu kwa mwamuna ndiko kuchepetsa mtunda wa kuyankhulana. Pochita kudzidalira, wamwamuna wamwamuna sachita ntchito iliyonse pofuna kuyesa wopondereza.

Kotero funso la momwe tingasungire mtunda mu ubale ndi anzako, kwa mkazi nthawi zambiri - ili ndi nkhani ya moyo ndi imfa. Ndipo ngati mukunena chinenero cha ofesi - vuto la kuchepetsa kapena kupititsa patsogolo. Kuti musagwere chifukwa cha luso la odziwa zambiri, muyenera kungodziwa njira zomwe amuna amagwiritsa ntchito polimbana ndi akazi mu bizinesi.

Kawirikawiri, amuna amavomereza chikhalidwe chowoneka bwino ndi kuvomereza malingaliro a amayi kokha kuti amvetse njira ya lingaliro lake. Iwo angapereke mosavuta lingaliro la wothandizana nawo okha, ngati awona kuti lingalirolo ndi lofunika. Azimayi ambiri amalefuka ndipo amaonongeka. Koma musataye mtima. Izi ziyenera kuvomerezedwa ngati zowona kuti khalidwe la amuna ndilofala komanso lofala. Kukhala kutali ndi ubale wawo nthawi zina n'kofunika kuti pokhapokha mutapeze mwayi wopereka lingaliro lofunika kwa mpikisano kuti pakhale kuwonjezeka kapena kuwonjezeka. Nthawi zonse muli ndi ufulu wogwiritsira ntchito zolakwika za abambo zokhudza kusagwirizana kwa amayi ndikupereka mnzanu "bakha" monga lingaliro lanu. Ndi kupereka maganizo othandiza ku misonkhano ya anthu komwe ulemba wanu udzawonekera ndi ambiri.

Zitsanzo zabwino za momwe tingakhalire mtunda pochita ndi akazi ogwira nawo ntchito, timachokera ku America ndi ku Ulaya. Kumeneko, nkhani za kuponderezedwa kwa amayi mu ofesi akhala akuphunzira kale. Osati kokha kuchitidwa chiwerewere, chomwe chinayambitsa magalasi kapena maofesi m'malo mwa makoma ku ofesi. Nkhaniyi yaphunziridwa ndi momwe amuna amatsutsira momveka bwino kayendetsedwe ka amayi pa ntchito. Imodzi mwa njira zowonongeka ndi wothandizana nawo amuna ndizochepa, zomwe sizigwirizana ndi mtsogoleri wazimayi. Mwachitsanzo, ikhoza kukhala pempho lopangira khofi kapena kupita ku malo osungiramo mapepala. Inde, mukhoza kutero kwa iwo. Koma pokhapokha mutadziwa momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito nkhaniyi kuti mnzanu apange khofi kwa inu tsiku lotsatira kapena kubweretsa pepala la printer. Ngati mulibe mzimu wochuluka kuti muchite zimenezi mu ubale ndi amuna, ndiye kungosiya ntchito zazing'ono, ponena za ntchito kapena kuti si mbali ya ntchito yanu.

Pofuna chilungamo, tiyenera kuzindikira kuti vuto la kutalika ndi chiyanjano ndi anzawo sizimangokhala amayi okha. Amuna nthawi zambiri amavutika nawo, ngati amagwira ntchito mu gulu la amayi kapena osakaniza. Palibe chimene sichimutsogolera munthu, monga kufunikira kumvetsera kwa anzanu akulankhula za chimfine cha ana komanso mavuto a m'banja. Ngati munthu sagwirizane ndi zokambiranazo kapena akuwonetseratu kuti ali ndi chipsinjo ndi kuleza mtima, akhoza kupeza mavuto ovuta kwambiri. Mwinanso, n'zovuta kupeŵa kukambirana kotere. Koma inu mukhoza kuyika zikhalidwe za gawo lazimayi la gulu kuti zokambirana zoterezi zinasungidwa pa nthawi ya kumwa mowa, kapena osati ku ofesi, koma mu chipinda chosuta kapena canteen.

Palinso zochitika zomwe kusunga mtunda ndi anzako sizingatheke. Pali mtundu wa bungwe limene lingaliro lokhala ndi chikhulupiliro limasungidwa. Pamsonkhano wofunikira, ukhoza kukhala funso laukwati wa apabanja kapena maliro a azakhali anu okondedwa, ndipo sikutheka kukana zochitika zoterozo ndipo ndi zopanda pake. Chikhalidwechi chimapezeka mu bizinesi ya banja kapena kampani ina imene aliyense amadziŵa bambo woyambitsa. Ngati muwona kuti aliyense koma ndinu okonzeka kugawana zinsinsi za moyo wanu wina ndi mzake, ndipo chipinda chanu chikuwoneka ngati chakuda, ndibwino kuti muyang'ane ntchito ina. Inde, kulankhula moona mtima, sikungatheke kukhala kutali ndi ogwira ntchito m'mabungwe ena a Russian.