Tiyeni tiyankhule za anthu omwe amakonda atsikana? Mwinamwake, nthawi yomweyo tidzayamba ndi mfundo yakuti akazi oipa alibe. Pali amayi omwe safuna, sakudziwa momwe angasamalire okha. Komanso palinso akazi omwe amangokhala ndi maofesi osiyanasiyana, omwe amapeza kuchokera kwa anzako, omwe amangopita ndi achibale komanso abwenzi. Izi zikutanthauza kuti ngati nthawi zambiri mumamuuza kuti ndi woipa, ndiye kuti mwiniwakeyo amakhulupirira. Ndiyeno ingokugwetsani manja anu, simukufuna kuchita chirichonse kusintha izi. Koma izi ndi zolakwika. Filimu ya Eldar Ryazanov "Office Romance" ndi chitsanzo chabwino cha kusintha kwa woipa Lyudmila Prokofievna kukhala mkazi wokongola, wokongola, wokongola kwambiri. Inde, chikondi chimagwira ntchito zodabwitsa. Ngati mkazi ali pachikondi, adzachita zonse kuti akhale wokongola kwa wokondedwa wake.
Mayi woipa, mwamuna nthawi zambiri amakopa chitetezo pakhomo komanso m'maganizo. Mwamuna ndi wotsimikiza kuti mkazi wotero sadzamupereka, sadzamupereka. Adzamupembedza, padzakhala chitonthozo ndi chitonthozo m'nyumba, ukhondo ndi kununkhira kwa chakudya chokoma. Pambuyo pake, mkazi woteroyo adzasungunuka mwa mwamuna wake wokondedwa. Adzakhala wokonzeka kuchita chilichonse kwa wokondedwa wake.
Koma kwenikweni osati kukongola kwa kunja ndikofunikira. Inde, choyamba chimakhala chogwira ntchito kwambiri. Ndipo izi ndizofunika kwambiri. Koma ngati mkazi ali woipa, koma mkati mwake ali wokongola kwambiri, wochenjera, ndiye mwa mkazi woteroyo n'kosatheka kuti asagwirizane. Ndipotu kukongola kwa mkati nthawi zina n'kofunika kwambiri kuposa kukongola kwa kunja. Mphatso iyi siiperekedwa kwa aliyense. Pokhala ndi kukongola kwa mkati, mkaziyo akuwoneka akusintha, kubadwanso. Chikondi chimakhala ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri mu ubale. Pambuyo pake, ngati mkazi wokongola ali ndi mzimu wopanda pake mkati mwake, ndiye kuti zimakhala zosavuta kulankhula naye.
Ngati mayi woipa akhoza kudziwonetsa molondola, ndiye kuti akhoza kukonda munthu aliyense. Ndipo chithumwa chake ndi chisomo chamkati chidzamukongoletsa mwamunayo.
Pofuna kusangalatsa anyamata, mtsikanayo ayenera kudziwa zomwe munthuyo amakonda maloto ake, zofooka zake, zomwe amakonda. Ndiye monga mnyamata, zidzakhala zosavuta ngakhale kwa mkazi woipa.
Koma ndibwino kubwereranso kukongola kwa mkati. Popanda izo, palibe kukongola kwakunja kumveka. Ngati munthu amawala kuchokera mkati mwa chikondi, chikondi ndi chikondi, ndiye kovuta kwambiri kupikisana ndi mkazi woteroyo. Mkazi wotero akhoza kuchita chirichonse. Chikondi, chilakolako, chifundo, kutentha kwa moyo kumachita zambiri m'dziko lino lapansi.
Inde, mkazi aliyense ayenera kudziyang'anira yekha. Palibe munthu amene amakonda tsitsi lopaka mafuta komanso kusowa tsitsi. Ndikofunika kuti tsitsi lanu likhale ndi moyo nthawi zonse komanso kuyang'ana bwino. Komanso, onetsetsani kuti mumasamalira thupi lanu, mugwiritseni ntchito zowonjezera. Musaiwale za mapangidwe. Ngakhale ngati muli zotsekemera kwa zodzoladzola zilizonse, m'nthawi yathu muli zodzoladzola zambiri zotsutsa. Musaiwale za zovala zamkati zokongola. Ziwoneka ngati zachigololo.
Tiyenera kuchotsa zovutazo. Ndipotu, popanda izi simungadzikondere nokha. Ndipo izi ndi zofunika kuti musangalatse anthu ena. Ndipotu, nthawi zonse kuganizira zolakwa zanu, mumadzimangirira mu dzenje, zomwe zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti mutulukemo. Dziwonetseni nokha momwe mumakhalira okondwa, khulupirirani kuti maonekedwe anu akukwanira. Ndibwino kukhala mwachiyembekezo mwachibadwa, osati kukhala okhumudwa. Ndiye inu mudzakhala osiyana mosiyana. Kumbukirani kuti akazi oipa alibe. Ndipo mu dziko pali munthu yemwe adzakupeza iwe ndi kukhala munthu wako kwa moyo. Musathamangitse mafashoni. Dzivaleni nokha kuti mukhale ngati mukuwonetsera pagalasi. Musakhale ndi nsanje ndi kutsanzira wina. Iwe ndiwewekha, ndipo iwe ukhoza kumusangalatsa mwamunayo ndi umunthu wake, malingaliro ndi zest, chisomo chake ndi chithumwa.
Musaiwale za ukhondo. Ndikofunikira kwa mkazi aliyense. Inde, malamulo a ukhondo uyenera kukhala ndi inu nthawi zonse.
Mukamagwiritsa ntchito makeup, musawonongeke. Pambuyo pa zonse, chilengedwe chanu ndi khadi lanu lopambana kuti mumenyane ndi munthu. Ngakhale ngati simukugwirizana ndi kukula kwake, chitani kuti chikhale chokongola kulemera kulikonse. Pambuyo pake, amuna ambiri ngati akazi otupa.
Kuchita masewera kudzakuthandizani. Mudzasangalala, ndikudzidalira nokha.
Valani amuna, osati akazi. Musayese kukhala ngati chitsanzo, umunthu wanu udzasangalatsa mtima wa wosankhidwa wanu. Sankhani chovala chimene chimakusangalatsani kwambiri, chomwe mumawoneka mwachikongola komanso chokongola.
Muyenera kusankha zovala zomwe zimakugwirani bwino. Valani kuti mukhalebe ndi chinsinsi. Izi ndi zomwe zimakopa chidwi chanu kuchokera kwa anthu.
Muyeso yonse ikufunika. Onetsetsani mgwirizano mu chilichonse. Onetsani kukoma kwanu, onetsani makhalidwe abwino mkati. Izi zikhoza kukopa munthu aliyense, ngakhale mkazi woipa.
Ndikofunika kwambiri momwe mumamva fungo. Manunkhidwe anu ayenera kuyendetsa munthu wanu wamisala. Ndikofunika kusankha mafuta onunkhira, kuti fungo limakugwirani bwino, maganizo anu ndi khalidwe lanu. Ngati mkaziyo ali wodzaza, ndiye kuti awoneke ochepa kwambiri, mafuta onunkhira ndi fungo lokongola maluwa adzamutsatira. Zimapanga zotsatira za kuwala ndi chisomo. Mkazi woonda kwambiri amatha kupeza mphamvu zovuta, zokoma zodabwitsa. Ngati simungathe kusankha chisankho, ndiye kuti mkazi aliyense adzakonda mafuta onunkhira a citrus. Ikani mafuta onunkhira khungu kokha. Mfundo zogwiritsira ntchito mafuta onunkhira - izi ndizovala zamakutu, khungu kumbuyo kwa makutu, fossa pamutu. Mukhozanso kuchotsa mafuta onunkhira pachifuwa, pakati pa mawere. Ndikofunika kugwiritsa ntchito mafuta onunkhira pomwe mitsempha ya mitsempha. Ndiye kununkhira kudzafalikira ndi mafunde ofatsa.
Mzimayi aliyense, pofuna kukopa munthu, ayenera kukhala wokhoza kugwiritsa ntchito bwino. Mkhalidwe woyenera wa mkazi ndi chofunikira chachikulu cha amuna. Kumalo aliwonse, kaya pagombe, pa pikisiki kapena pa phwando, zodzoladzola ziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito moyenera. Gwiritsani ntchito zodzoladzola zapamwamba zokha, kuti musadzivulaze nokha. Musadziike nokha mu dongosolo pamaso pa munthu. Mwamuna ayenera kuganiza kuti iwe nthawizonse umakhala ngati choncho, winayo suli. Inu nthawizonse muli abwino kwambiri, osiyana kwambiri.
Dzikondeni nokha, ndiyeno mudzakwaniritsa zambiri m'moyo. Kukopa mkazi wosakondweretsa mwamuna kumakhala kosavuta, makamaka popeza amayi ovuta salipo!