Ndi anthu angati, anthu ambiri ndi mitundu. Komabe, introverts, zomwe zidzakambidwe mu nkhaniyi, sizikuwoneka kuti zimasiyana ndi anthu, kukhala ophatikizana mosavuta ndi anthu ambiri ndi kukonda zochitika zofuula, zokongola, kumene kuli anthu ambiri. Kotero, iwo ndi ndani? Kodi mphamvu ndi zofooka zawo ndi ziti? Mudzaphunzira za izi m'nkhaniyi.
Kotero, izi sizolemba, koma mndandanda wa mafunso:
- Simukukonda pamene pali anthu ambirimbiri, ndikusankha kukhala wosungulumwa kapena kampani yaying'ono kwambiri?
- Kodi simukukondwerera zikondwerero, maphwando okweza, maphwando okonda phokoso kapena zochitika, kumene anthu akuyenera kukhala ochuluka?
- Iwe umakhala wozolowereka kwa mwamuna kwa nthawi yayitali kwambiri, ndipo iwe umayesera kutero, sindikufuna kuti iyo ipite?
- Kodi ndinu msungwana / wamanyazi / mtsikana, mukuwopa ngakhale kufika kwa mlendo kuti mupeze nthawi?
- Simukukonda alendo osayembekezeka, ngakhale ali munthu wapafupi kwambiri?
- Kodi mumakonda kupatula nthawi yoonera mafilimu, kuwerenga mabuku, kujambula kapena zochitika zina "pamodzi"?
- Simukuzikonda pamene munthu wina amalowetsa kampani ya abwenzi?
- Kodi mukupuma mwamakhalidwe mutatha kucheza ndi anthu nthawi yayitali?
- Kodi mukufuna kusintha chinachake, koma musachite chilichonse chimene chingakuthandizeni pa izi?
Ngati muli ndi "inde", ndikukuthokozani, mwinamwake, mumalowera. Ngati mwazindikira kuti munaphunzira kwa inu bwenzi lanu kapena bwenzi lanu, mwachiwonekere, iye ndi wolengeza.
Kufotokozera ndi kutulutsa
Munthu amene ali kunja kwa dziko lapansi amakhala ndi mphamvu yogwira ntchito, yogwira ntchito, yowonongeka nthawi zonse, osakhoza kukhazikika chifukwa cha ntchito yosasangalatsa. Kawirikawiri, otsogolera sakonda zinthu zonyansa, ndi anthu ochepa omwe amawakonda, koma kawirikawiri ndizomwe zimakhala zomwe zimachitika nthawi zonse. Makamaka ngati panthawi yomweyo kulankhulana konse ndi anthu kuchepetsedwa.
Zikondwerero zimasunga maganizo awo mwa iwo eni, sizikutsanulira malo awo. Ngati introtain ali ndi nsanje, amachita modzichepetsa. Ngati zimamupweteka komanso zimamupweteka, amalira, mwinamwake pamene palibe wina akuwona, koma wolakwirayo sangathe kunena kanthu kena. An extrovert imamvekanso maganizo kumanja ndi kumanzere, kupanga phokoso lalikulu, lofotokozera, nthawi zina.
Kusungulumwa kumakonda kusungulumwa, amadziwa momwe angayamikire ndikusangalala nazo, mosiyana ndi wotsutsa, amene sabata iliyonse popanda anthu angawoneke ngati gehena.An introvert amadzimva yekha ndi dziko lozungulira, mololera kudzera mu ndende yake yapadera yozindikira. Kawirikawiri anthu amtundu uwu amakhala ojambula, olemba kapena kusankha ntchito ina yolenga (osati woimba chabe, ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zikhumbo zomwe sungakhoze kuzikwaniritsa mwa kuchita chifukwa chosakondwera ndi owonerera ambiri). Izi sizikuthandizira kuwulula mkati mwa "I", komanso amalengeza mabwana ndi anzawo ogwira nawo ntchito, omwe amayenera kulankhulana tsiku ndi tsiku.
Introve nthawi zambiri imatsekedwa. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti simukufuna kumwa mowa ndipo simukufuna kuti muledzere ndikuyenda mozungulira, kuyenda ndi kusangalala monga anthu onse, koma odwala 90% samakhala "moyo wa kampani." Kuonjezerapo, pamene anthu angapo, abwenzi abwino, ndiye kuti otsogolera amasonyeza ntchito yaikulu kwambiri ; iwo amaseka, amasangalala ndi kusangalala, ndipo kunja kwa malo amapanga umunthu waumulungu wosasunthika. Zoona, ndizofunikira bwenzi limodzi, latsopano, makamaka watsopano kuti abwerere ndi atsikana ake, monga introvert wilts ndi kubwerera ku shell yake, kachiwiri mwa iye zamyrkas.
Otsatira nthawi zonse amafunikira mpumulo pambuyo pocheza ndi anthu nthawi yaitali. Amatha kumvetsera, amatha kusiya komanso kupereka malangizo angapo, koma ngati atagona usiku wonse akumvetsera ena, ndipo poyesera kulankhulana, adzakhala ngati mandimu yofiira m'mawa. Ndiye amafunika kudzipatula okha, kupuma kwa onse, kenako abwerere ku chizoloŵezi chachizolowezi.
Zonsezi sizikutanthauza kuti olowa nawo onse ndi zolengedwa zosatha, oopa kuchoka panyumbamo. Ayi, siziri choncho (ngakhale zili choncho), zimangokhala zotsekedwa kuposa extrovert, ndipo zimakonda kubwera ku phangidwe lolingalira lomwe linapangidwa pamutu wa mutu m'malo mowona weniweniwo.
Mwachidziwikire, palibe amayi omwe amafotokozera kwathunthu, omwe amawonekera mobwerezabwereza, kawirikawiri, kawirikawiri kuwonjezereka ndi kulumikizana kumagwirizanitsidwa, gawo limodzi limagonjetsa. Koma komabe mtsikana kapena extrovert amene amakonda nthawi yokhala yekha, kapena kulengeza , nthawizina kwambiri.
Wotsutsa
- Kudzichepetsa, manyazi, kusasokonezeka kwina ndi kusagwirizana. Chifukwa cha makhalidwe amenewa, otsogolera sangakhale oyamba kuyanjana nawo, ndipo ngakhale atakhala nawo, akhoza kuwopsya mosavuta, osadziŵa, "kusagwira ntchito" kwawo.
- Kusokonezeka maganizo, kusokonezeka ndi kukhumudwa. Popeza ambiri omwe alowa nawo amatha kusunga zonse mwa iwo okha, zochitika zawo zonse ndi mavuto awo, izi ndi zoipa kwa iwo. Aliyense amadziwa kuti kuyankhula ndiwothandiza kwambiri, chifukwa cha ichi, akatswiri a maganizo amagwiritsidwa ntchito, ambiri. Ndipo ngati wothandizira angathe kuponyera mavuto onse pamapewa a chiyanjano chatsopano, ndiyeno pitirizani kusangalala ndi moyo, Wintrovert sangatuluke.
- Kuopa, kupanikizika, kukana kukakamiza atsikana. Ichi sichiri chachikazi chomwe madona ambiri achimuna amachimwa, kuwerengera pa masitepe okha kuchokera kumbali yamwamuna, izi ndi mantha ndi paranoia. Introverts amaganiza kuti ali. Kawirikawiri zimawoneka ngati iwo, koma n'zovuta kuwatsimikizira.
- Kupatukana kowawa. Amzanga, abwenzi, okondedwa, pamapeto, tonse timadziwa kuti palibe chomwe chimakhalapo kosatha. Extroverts, pambuyo pokumana pang'ono, zimakhala zosavuta kupeza malo, koma zowonjezera zimakhala zovuta. Zimakhala zozolowereka kwa nthawi yaitali ndikupeza zambiri kuchokera kwa munthu.
Zotsatira
- Introverts, monga tatchulidwa kale, kwa nthawi yaitali amadziwika ndi anthu ena. Koma ngati akuzoloŵera, ngati mutalowa ndi abwenzi munthu wotchuka, muli ndi mwayi, chifukwa ndiwo mabwenzi okhulupirika kwambiri. Inde, simungathe kupita kumasitolo kapena makanema, chifukwa introverts samakonda izi, koma ngati mukusowa chithandizo chamakhalidwe, mudzapatsidwa zonse.
- Introverts ali odziimira ndi anzeru. Chifukwa chakuti amathera nthawi yambiri ndekha, nthawi zina adzamva ngati kudzikonda, kudzikonda. Ndipo iwo ali okhoza pa izi, chifukwa iwo samasowa anthu enieni pa izi, okonzeka kufotokoza izo, inde, bwanji, introvertsami iwo adzachita chirichonse ngati akufuna. Sakusowa thandizo la wina aliyense, amakondwera kuthetsa mavuto awo (ngakhale ali pafupi, makolo, mwachitsanzo, akhoza kuthetsa mavuto awo).
- Zowonongeka nthawi zambiri, monga kachiwiri, zotchulidwa poyamba, umunthu wodalenga. Izi ndizowonjezera kwambiri. Nthawi zina izi zimachitika chifukwa cha luso lalikulu, koma chifukwa cha kukoma mtima, kusungulumwa komanso kufuna kuti dziko lanu likhale labwino komanso lokongola. Ngakhale extroverts akuyenda, introverts, kukhala yekha kunyumba, kutenga pensulo ndi kuphunzira kukoka. Apanso, ngati sanagwire ntchito, mpaka zithunzizo zikhale ndi ndondomeko yoyenera.
- Otsatira ndi omvera kwambiri komanso omvetsera moona mtima. Iwo ali okonzeka kumvetsera mavuto awo osati "awo okha", komanso alendo. Chinthu china ndi chakuti nthawi zambiri samawapatsa malangizo abwino, koma mvetserani - nthawizonse chonde. Iwo sangakulepheretseni inu kuti muike mwatsatanetsatane ndemanga yanu kapena nkhani yowonjezereka, iwo amvetsere kuyankhula kwanu konse. Ndicho chifukwa chake mawu ophatikizira ndi otsogolera amagwirizana pokhapokha, chifukwa awiriwa amamva osamvetsetseka: onse awiri ali chete, onse akuyesera kuganiza za chinachake choti alankhule mokweza ndipo samawoneka ngati opusa, onse akudzikuza okha, kumabwereza m'maganizo kuti "Ndilo kulakwitsa" kapena chinachake chonga icho . Kawirikawiri, munthu amene ali wokonzeka kulankhula popanda kusokoneza, ndi kulumikizana bwino. Chinthu china n'chakuti ndodo sifunika kusunthira, palibe wina wachitsulo.
Zotsatira
Monga momwe mungathe kuwonera, pali ubwino ndi zowonongeka mu chiyambi. Zambiri zimadalira chilengedwe cha munthu, mabwenzi ake, achibale ake ndi abwenzi ake ndi chithandizo chawo, koma ngati introvert sanayesere kukhala wotsutsa, zikanangokhala mask, kotero ndi zosavuta kugwirizanitsa ndikukulitsa ubwino wanu.