Kwa amayi ambiri, kugonjetsa mwamuna ndi ntchito yovuta. Ziribe kanthu: chifukwa cha kusowa mtima ndi kudzidalira, ndizoyambitsa kuyambitsa ubale watsopano ndi kuwoneka ngati osasunthika - mulimonsemo, osadziŵa zambiri pazochitika zosautsa, mtsikanayo akuwonekerana ndi kukopeka ndizochita bwino kwambiri patali.
Ngakhale kugwiritsa ntchito njira zamakono zokambirana (telefoni, malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, mauthenga, SMS, MMS) mkazi akhoza kupindula kwambiri. Ziribe kanthu zomwe akusowa: kungogonana kapena kukondana - pali njira yowonjezera chidwi ndi chikondi cha munthuyo popanda kukhala wamanyazi m'maso mwake.
Momwe munganyengerere mnyamata ndi mawu?
Pamene mukukhazikitsa njira yonyengerera, yambani ndi dzina la munthu woyenera. Mwamuna aliyense wachikulire adzakondwera ndikudabwa ngati iwe utchula dzina lake lonse ndi chiyankhulo choyenera, kupeŵa mayina aulemu opanda pake komanso zosayenera. Kutengeka kwa munthu kumathandizira kwambiri kuyika kwa nthawi yoyenera ndi mawu ogonana. Mwachitsanzo: "Tiyeni timalize ndi izi posachedwa", "Bwerani pafupi". Yesetsani kulowetsa mwachindunji chiganizo chimodzi kuti mumve mawu amodzi okhudza thupi: kugwira, chitsulo, kugwira, kukoka, kuluma, kuchotsa, kukankha, ndi zina zotero. Zotsatira zake sizikuwonekera mwamsanga, komabe dziwani kuti njira yolondola yochotsera chidziwitso chodziwika bwino imayambitsa chilakolako chomwe munthu akhoza kutaya mutu wake panthawi yovuta. Gulu lina la mawu oyesa ndizoyamika. Mawu okonda, oyankhulidwa ndi kuyamikira kapena kulemekeza, amatha kukondweretsa munthu momwe angathere. Kugonana, kufotokoza za kupirira ndi indefatigability ndi zabwino. Khalani osamala - chiyamiko chiyenera kukhala cholungama, kotero kuti mnyamatayu samaziwona ngati kuyesa kudzipangira ulemu.
Mmene munganyengere foni: mawu okonzeka
Ngati kulibe magwero ena okhudzidwa osati mawu, ndi kovuta kwa munthu kunyengedwa, koma zosangalatsa. Kulamulira kwakukulu pa kukambirana kwa foni ndiko kukhala woona mtima, kotero kuti mnyamatayo amadziona yekha wapadera, wokondedwa kwa mtsikanayo. Ndikofunika kuti nthawi zonse mkazi akhale ndi mawu okonzeka kutsogolo, kukwaniritsa zosowa za munthu kuti zikhale zofunika komanso zothandiza. Zitsanzo za mawu otere amadziwika kwa onse:
- "Ine ndikutsata iwe, ngati khoma lamwala";
- "Zikomo chifukwa cha zonse zimene mumandichitira";
- "Popanda iwe, ndimamva ndekha";
- "Ine ndinakuphonya iwe";
- "Sindikudziwa zomwe ndingachite popanda iwe."
Pali masauzande makumi asanu ndi mazana a mafotokozedwe oterowo, ndipo musakhale aulesi kuti muwabwereze iwo nthawi zonse zosowa. Khalani ndikuwonetsa kuti mwamuna amataya chidwi mwamsanga mnzanu amene samutamanda, nanga bwanji kubwereza cholakwika ichi? Kupusitsa munthu, nthawi zina malo oyenera panthawi ya kuyitana. Mwachitsanzo, ngati msungwana ali pazochitika zinazake zogonana, sayenera kudziletsa yekha m'mawu ake:
- "Sindingathe kulemba tsopano, ndiri mu bafa";
- "Dikirani, ine ndimadzipweteka kwambiri nditatha kusamba";
- "Pemphani mtsogolo, ndikuyenera kuchotsa";
- "Tsopano ndikutsegula zenera, apo ayi ndikudziwotcha", kapena mosiyana "Ndidzatseka zenera, kuzizira kwambiri."
Mfundo zonse za moyo wapamtima ndi zowawa za thupi zomwe zimapangitsa munthu kugwirizanitsa, ndipo pamapeto pake, kumuthandiza kumunyengerera.
Momwe munganyengerere munthu wokhwima?
Munthu wokhwima, mosiyana ndi anyamata aang'ono, amafunikira mphamvu zowonjezera, zomwe zimamupatsa mphamvu yosangalala ndi moyo. Ndiponso, amuna okhwima amadziwika ndi khalidwe lopangidwa mofanana, ndikudzipereka kuti munthu angathe kuchita zambiri kuposa kuyesa kusintha umunthu wake. Choncho, kuti mumunyengere munthu wokhwima, ganizirani za ukazi wanu ndi umunthu wake, chitani ngati msungwana ndi kukhala mwamsanga. Ndipo yesetsani kukhala oleza mtima - okhwima, makamaka okwatira, mwamuna sangangopatukana pachiyambi.
Kusokoneza munthu ndi SMS!
Kuyesera kolondola koyenera kulemba mauthenga achidule kungayambitse mgwirizano wapamtima wokondana. Mnyamata yemwe uthenga wake walembedwe sungadziwe wotumiza, koma mkaziyo ayenera choyamba, poyambirira, kulembetsa chithunzi cha maganizo a osankhidwawo, kuti asamachite zolakwa pamayendedwe oyambirira. Kutengeka ndi SMS nthawi zonse ndi masewera omwe mawu kapena mau onse ali ofunika. Ngati munthuyo ali wodzidalira, wololera, wosauka mtima ndi wokondwa, mukhoza kumudetsa ndi kumuyesa uthenga wosayankhuka, monga: "Ndikulakalaka kukhala ndi inu pabedi," kapena "kukonda nanu m'makutu anu, kodi mungandithandize ndi izi?". Wokonzeka motere kuti apeze msonkhano, mnyamatayo adzakhala pa chibwenzi, chirichonse chimene anganene. Munthu wozama komanso woganiza bwino kuti asocheretse kulankhula sagwira ntchito - munthu wotere, amamva kuti ndi wonyansa ndipo amakana kuchita. Kwa mnyamata wochita mantha sanagwetse foni, ndibwino kusintha uthenga wokopa woyamba ku banal: "Moni. Dzina langa ndi (sankhani dzina) ndipo ndimasungulumwa. " Mnyamata wodekha ndi wovuta, mwinamwake mwamuna mmodzi, nthawi zambiri amakhala yekha ndipo sakonda makampani akulira, kotero muyenera kuchita mogwirizana. Zomwe zingatengere kuti mum'pusitse munthu ndi ma SMS: mkazi amafunika kugonana nthawi imodzi kapena kukondana - ndikofunikira kuti awonetse masewerawa mosavuta, popeza kwenikweni ndi amene amatsutsa komanso amakhumudwa popanda kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.