Mdziko lino, moyo uli wovuta mwa iwo wokha, chifukwa mphamvu yochuluka ya uzimu ikuyenda mu "dzenje lakuda" la nthawi. Ndipo mosasamala kanthu komwe malingaliro anu akuwongolera, kalelo kapena mtsogolo, simuli "pano ndi pano". Pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pazigawo ziwirizi: Munthu yemwe amadzimvera chisoni kwambiri poyesa kuyesa kulemba moyo wake "kuti awone", amatha kupezeka pambuyo poyankhula momveka bwino - amataya m'maganizo ake kuyambira kale, akuganiza momwe angachitire. Ichi ndi chomwe chimatchedwa "moyo mmoyo wachikhalidwe": "ngati ..., ndiye ...". Mosiyana ndi omwe akukhala m'tsogolomu, "munthu wakale" ndi wosavuta kuchoka kudziko lino ndikuyamba kukhala ndi moyo "lero": kudalira zakale kumakhala koonekera kwa ena, ndipo anthu amadzigwira okha pa zomwe zikuyang'ana kumbuyo. Chizoloŵezi chokhala ndi mawa m'tsiku sichinaoneke. Mukakhala "kadzutsa" nthawi zonse nokha ndi ena, ndiye kuti mumakhala pafupifupi - "lero" ndi "mawa", omwe ali pafupi kubwera. Koma izi sizichitika! "Palibenso china chilichonse chokhalitsa," limatero buku la Chingere, Ching. Ena amakhala ndi moyo wakale, ena ndi mtsogolo, ndi ochepa chabe pakalipano - nkhani ya nkhaniyi.
Mmawa ndi wanzeru kuposa madzulo ...
Mwamuna amakhala wozoloŵera kukhala ndi malonjezano a tsiku la mawa kuti, atalandira chimwemwe chokhumba, amapanga chifukwa chatsopano chobwezera moyo "kwa mtsogolo". Izi ndi "maganizo ovomerezeka": "Ndidzaphunzira Chingerezi pomwe ..." Kwa zaka zambiri, kuyembekezera kuti nyumbayo ikhale yomaliza, munthu akulota m'mene moyo udzasinthira ndi kusamuka. Apa pakubwera kanthawi koyembekezeredwa, ndi nthawi yoti alowe mnyumbamo. Ndipo komabe pali "koma", yomwe ikukhazikitsanso nyumba. Ndiponso, zaka zimadutsa munthu asanayambe kupita kumoyo watsopano mnyumbamo.
Kutsatira malotowa
Komabe, sikungakhale chilungamo kuti titsutsane mwakachetechete anthu omwe akulota zam'tsogolo. Pa udindo wa munthu, kuika moyo patsogolo "panthawi ina", pali "limodzi" limodzi: anthu awa ali ndi malingaliro abwino, ndipo izi ndizo mphamvu zawo. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuzindikira izi ndikusintha zofooka zanu. Chabwino, pamene munthu ali ndi maloto, lolani izo zikhale! Koma izi siziri chifukwa chosagwira ntchito pakali pano. Kuti ntchito yothetseratu padziko lonse ikhale yotheka, m'pofunika kukhazikitsa zolinga zazing'ono ndi kuzikwaniritsa pamene akufika. Kuti tichotse mtima wosakhutira ndi chizolowezi chokhala mawa, tikupempha kuti mutenge njira zinayi zotsatira kuti mukwaniritse cholinga chanu chofunika.
Lota ndi malingaliro!
Dziwani kuti maloto a tsogolo sali oipa. Ndipo ndithudi ndi bwino kwambiri kulota ndikukonzekera kuposa, mwachitsanzo, kupeza malipiro, kuzigwiritsa ntchito tsiku loyamba la zosangalatsa za pakali pano, chifukwa choti mukufuna. Inu muli ndi ubwino pa udindo wotere - phunzirani kukondweretsa maloto anu.
Sangalalani ndi moyo!
Kuti mudziwe momwe mungasangalalire ndi zomwe zilipo, yambani ndi kumverera. Kodi mwabwerera kunyumba mutatha ntchito? Zimakhala zosangalatsa kuti miyendo ikhale yopanda nsapato pamphepete wofewa kapena pansi. Musaganize za chirichonse - kungomva khungu ndi chisangalalo ndi zosangalatsa. Wotambasula pansi pa nyali za solarium? Mvetserani chikondi chomwe chimapezeka mu selo lirilonse, musaganize za kukongola kwa tsogolo lamtsogolo, kuganizira zakumverera kwa thupi. Kudya ayisikilimu? Sungani chidutswa chilichonse ... Ndipo yesetsani kukonzekera nokha masana ambiri a zisumbu za zosangalatsa zosavuta.
Dzipatseni kowonjezera!
Mukamaphunzira luso lokhazika mtima pansi panthawi yachisangalalo, pitani ku gawo lotsatira - kuchokera ku thupi labwino kufikira maganizo a maganizo. Yesetsani kusindikiza nthawi pamene kusakhutitsidwa mkati mwa nthawi ino kukuwonjezerani inu ndipo chikhumbo chikuwonekera kachiwiri kupereka "ndondomeko ya akaunti" ya moyo: "Ngati izi zikukwaniritsidwa, ndidzakhala wosangalala." Dzifunseni nokha pafunso ili ndikudzifunseni funso ili: "Ndili ndi ubwino wanji pa izi?" Kutentha kwafika - ndi zabwino, chifukwa sizitentha; galimotoyo inathyoka ndipo inu munachedwa mofulumira - koma muli ndi malipiro okondwera mukuyenda pamapazi ... Sikophweka. Poyamba, "wotsutsa" wa mkati amayesa kukwiyitsa kusakhutira kwanu. Musati muzindikire izo!
Mverani nokha!
Kugwira ntchito ndiwekha ndi ntchito yowopsya, koma patapita mlungu umodzi wothandizidwa mwatcheru mudzawona kuti mwakhala wotetezeka m'moyo. Nanga bwanji zolinga zapadziko lonse? Mudzadabwa kuona kuti munayamba kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zochepa zauzimu kuti muzitha kuzikwanitsa, ndipo zonse zomwe mumafuna zikanakhala zokha. Maloto adzakwaniritsidwa pamene iwe sukuyembekezera! Chinthu chachikulu sikuti tisiye kuyesetsa kutsogolo ndikukhala osagwirizana.