Kupsompsonana kwa mwamuna kumatanthawuza mwayi wodziwa mkazi. Kumayambiriro kwa chiyanjano, pamene kulibe "kufika kwa thupi," kukupsompsona makamaka kukhudzika, chifukwa ndi thandizo lawo lomwe munthu amadzipiritsa kuti n'zosatheka kupeza zambiri. Pamene kamphindi kodikirira kwa nthawi yayitali ikuchitika, sakufunanso kupsyopsyona ndipo zonse zimatsikira kugonana.
Akazi mwanjira ina amatanthauza kupsompsona. Kwa ife ndi chinthu chamtengo wapatali komanso chokondweretsa, ndi njira yabwino yopezera chisangalalo, kufotokoza zakukhosi kwanu. Ndife anthu achifundo komanso omvetsa chisoni kwambiri. Kwa ife kukhudzana kwamtundu ndikofunikira kwambiri, chifukwa chake timakonda kukumbatirana ndikupsompsona kwambiri.
M'moyo wa banja la kumpsompsona bwino kumakhala kocheperachepera chifukwa sitimakonda njira iyi, koma chifukwa timamasuka ndikupitirirabe za amuna. Ndi nthawi yokonza izi.
Chinthu choyamba choyamba ndi kuyang'ana pa milomo yanu pagalasi. Ngati iwe ukhala mwamuna, kodi iwe ungafune kuti uwapsompsone apulaneti amenewo? Yesetsani, mubwere ndi zovuta zosiyanasiyana zomwe zingayambitse kufuna kukupsompsonani. Onjezani zachiwerewere, kugonana ndipo mwamuna ndi wanu!
Mwachibadwa, kumpsompsona mkazi wabwino wokonzekeretsedwa ndi wokongola. Choncho, sungani thanzi labwino, fungo la pakamwa panu, khungu labwino pamaso panu ndi kuzungulira milomo yanu. Yang'anani pa milomo. M'nyengo yozizira, gwiritsani ntchito milomo yoyera. Chotsani zitsamba zakufa zakufa. Aloleni iwo akhale odekha ndi oitanira.
Kuti munthu akufuna kukupsompsonani, muyenera kutsimikiza kuti ndinu mwini wa milomo yokongola komanso yokongola kwambiri padziko lonse! Musamamvetse milomo yanu kapena kuwaponyera muwendo wochepa. Pakamwa panu nthawi zonse muyenera kumasuka, mwinamwake pang'ono ajar.
Yang'anani mwatcheru m'maso mwa munthu wanu, onyozani milomo yanu, ndipo amvetsetsa zomwe mumatanthauza. Phunzirani kufotokoza milomo yanu pogonana. Gwiritsani ntchito phokoso lamakono kuti liwonjezere kuchuluka kwawo ndikupatsompsona kukoma pang'ono kwa sitiroberi kapena nthochi.
Kuti mumve zopsompsonana ndi mwamuna wanu, ndikwanira kuphatikizapo malingaliro! Tangoganizani kuti mukangompsompsona munthu uyu nthawi yoyamba. Simudziwa momwe amachitira zimenezi, ndipo mukufuna kumusangalatsa kwambiri.
Patapita nthawi, timasiya kuyesera, ndikuyamba kumpsompsona zomwezo komanso zosasangalatsa. Inde, ndani angakhale ndi chikhumbo chobwereza zinthu zomwe zadutsa kale? Ndinadabwa mwamuna wanu ndi njira yatsopano yopsompsona. Wachisoni kwambiri, kapenanso, kugonana koopsa. Adzamvetsa kuti sakudziwa zonse za iwe, ndipo iwe ukhoza kumudabwa.
Phunzirani mitundu yatsopano yopsompsona: French, Brazil. Sinthani liwiro ndi liwiro la chinenero. Amanong'oneza bondo panthawi yopsompsona. Uzani mwamuna wanu kuti amakukondani ndipo mumamufuna. Komabe, musachite izi pamene lilime lili m'kamwa mwanu. Izo sizingakhoze kukhala zovuta, koma zoseketsa. Ndipo kupsa mtima kwanu (kosakonzedweratu) kumakakamiza munthuyo kuti ayambe ndikupitiriza kuchita ntchito zokhutira.
Phunzirani kuseka! Khala masewera okonda masewera. Zidzasangalatsa mwamuna wanu, ndikuwonetsani inu mwanjira yatsopano, ndikuwonetsanso zomwe mwasankha pamene adakwatirana.
Sikoyenera kupsompsona pamilomo. Pa thupi la munthu wanu muli malo ambiri osangalatsa, omwe simunamupsompsone. Nanga bwanji za khutu la khutu, cholembera chala, kanjedza, phewa, khosi?
Mwamuna adatamandidwa panthawi yopsompsona. Ngakhale mutakhala pamsonkhano wapadera, pitani ku sitima yapansi panthaka kapena mukakhala paulendo kwa makolo anu, kupsompsona pang'ono ndi mawu ochepa ponena za momwe "ali mnyamata wabwino" adzamuukitsa mwamunthu kumwamba kwachisanu ndi chiwiri ndi chimwemwe.
Mpsompseni mwamuna kulikonse ndi nthawi zonse, pamene mukufuna komanso pamene mukuwona kuti sakuganizira. Pa ntchito zapakhomo, masewera ndi mwana, akuwonera TV. Inde, kulikonse! Chinthu chachikulu sikumusokoneza pamene ali wotanganidwa ndi chinthu chofunikira komanso chofunika. Panthawiyi, mwinamwake, simungapsompsone.
Yesetsani kumpsyopsyona. Bwanji osachita izi mukamadya kirimu chokoma kapena mukamamwa pipi lokoma? Zidzakhala zatsopano kwa inu.
Kupsompsona kokoma, kosauka kumapangitsa mpweya watsopano kukhala wapamtima mu ubale wanu! Musaphonye mwayi uwu!