Kodi mungatani ngati Lovelace atakhala mwamuna wanu? Ndipotu, ndibwino kuti musalole izi. Ndi wosasunthika, mphepo, kudalirika kwake kumayambira ku zero, koma chilakolako chogonjetsa ndi kukwaniritsa, kuti chifufuze - nthawizonse, mwa njira yachilendo, imatsimikizira. Ndi amuna oterewa sizingakhale zovuta kwa nthawi yayitali kukhalabe paubwenzi wapamtima, komanso kungokhala chete ndikumverera wokondedwa, mungathe kuiwala. Inde, ndibwino kuti musakwatire munthu woteroyo.
Komabe, choti muchite ngati mutayamba kukondana komanso mwamukwatira kale, kapena ngati mumaganizira khalidwe lake pokhapokha mutatha kukwatirana (ndipo izi zimachitika), ambiri - ngati mutha kale kunena za inu nokha: "inde, mwamuna wanga ndi mwamuna wamwamuna"?
Pachifukwa ichi, kumbukirani kuti ubale wa nthawi yaitali ndi munthu wotero ndi wovuta kusunga, koma n'zotheka, ngati mumatsatira malamulo ena.
Musati muwonetse mwamuna wanu, Lovelace, kuti iye ali kwa inu - kuwala kokha pawindo, makamaka pachiyambi cha chiyanjano. Kulankhulana ndi anzanu, pitani kuntchito ndipo mwamulola iye nthawi zina kukangane, kukukumbutsani kuti ndinu munthu wapadera wokongola komanso wokondweretsa. Pokhapokha ngati palibe vutoli musapitirire - nsanje ndi chida champhamvu kwambiri, ndi kosavuta kuweramitsa ndodoyo. Ndipo pambuyo pochita nsanje chifukwa cha nsanje yake, yendetsani chidwi ndi wokondedwayo ndi kusamala, kuyankhulana naye mwachifundo, kusonyeza momwe mumamukondera.
Kuwonjezera apo, nthawi zonse muwonetse amuna anu-akazi kuti mupeze zinthu zabwino zatsopano mwa iye, pamene mukumuphunzira. Sonyezani chikondi chake, mphamvu zake ndi malingaliro ake, ndiye momwe amatsogolerera bwino zachuma, bizinesi yake acumen, mwachidziŵitso, lankhulani mochuluka momwe zingathere ndi kuyamikira. Musaiwale kuti mayamikowa ndi ofunika pokhapokha ngati ali oyenera - simukuyenera kunama. Ngakhale munthu wokondwa kwambiri sakhulupirira chiyamiko ngati mumupatsa, molondola komanso mobwerezabwereza kukupatsani malipiro ndipo simukuwonetsa mphuno ku sitolo, mudzanena momwe mumayamikirira luso lake lotsogolera banja. Koma poopa kunyengerera makhalidwe omwe alipo, kutamanda mwamuna wake, Lovelace, sikofunikira - kumva mawu okondweretsa tsiku lililonse, sadzayesera kuwatsanzira. Komabe, ngakhale pano pali ngozi yowonjezera ndodo. Mukamamvetsera mwatamando kwambiri, amayi azimayi akhoza kusankha kuti ali woyenera kukhala ndi moyo wabwino koposa kukhala mwamuna wanu, chifukwa inu nokha mumamutamanda chotero. Kuwononga munthu woteroyo ndi njira yowongoka, mwachitsanzo, mkhalidwe wosasangalatsa kwambiri wa chiyanjano chanu-mwachitsanzo, adzakulolani kuti mufunefune zomwe zili zoyenerera kwa iye-kukhala wokongola chotero, kapena kungosintha kumanja ndi kumanzere, popanda ndalama kubweretsa malingaliro anu ndi kumverera.
Choncho, tamandani mwamuna wanu Lovelace, mum'patse mayamiko, musamamuyese ngati ali ndi vuto, koma musam'tamande; khalani okongola ndi okondweretsa kwa amuna ena, ndipo muloleni iye awone (koma musasinthe izo konse), khalani okoma, okonda ndi omvetsera kwa iye, koma musaiwale za zofuna zanu zakale ndi zokondweretsa - ndiyeno zomwe zimawoneka zosatheka - kumanga banja lamphamvu ndi losangalala ndi Lovelace - zedi mudzapambana.