Mwachidziwikire, palibe njira yabwino yoyenera kuchita bwino muukwati. Chilichonse chiri chosiyana, munthu aliyense amafunikira njira zake.
Yesetsani kukhala omasuka kulankhulana, ochezeka komanso nthawi zonse. Musamuike munthuyo ndi mavuto anu. Modzipereka yesetsani kugaŵana naye zochita zowonetsera ndi zosangalatsa. Msonkhano uliwonse ndi inu ukhale holide kwa iye.
Ndikofunika kuchita bwino kuyambira pachiyambi pomwe. Lolani kuti chiyambicho chibwere kuchokera pa tsiku loyamba kuchokera kwa munthu, ndipo inu "mumatsanulira mafuta pamoto" ndipo mukuwotcha chilakolako chake. Msungwana yemwe akuwoneka kuti ali ndi chidwi cholankhulana, ndipo akuwoneka kuti akukayikira pang'ono, adzachititsa chidwi chochuluka kuposa amene nthawi yomweyo amaika makhadi onse patebulo ndikuvomereza chikondi chake kwamuyaya. Amuna amakopeka ndi zomwe akufuna kupambana. Ngati nthawi zina zimakhala zomveka kuti msungwanayo ali wokonzeka kulekerera chirichonse, sizingakhale zosangalatsa ndi iye.
Kuti mukhale ndi chiyanjano muyenera kudzikuza, koma osati kudzikuza. Mtsikana aliyense ayenera kudzilemekeza. Ngati, pa masewerawa, mnyamata wina akukukhumudwitsani mwanjira inayake, ndi bwino kuyembekezera nthawi mpaka iye atabwera kwa inu osapepesa, m'malo moyesa tsiku lotsatira kuti palibe chomwe chinachitika, ziribe kanthu momwe simunayanjanitsire naye.
Komano, zomwe zimachitika pazochitika zonse ziyenera kukhala zokwanira. Mkhalidwe ndi wosiyana, nthawi zina mumayenera kutchula koyamba ndikuponya mlatho kuti muyankhulane.
Limbikitsani munthuyo kuti akupatseni zizindikiro za chidwi, kuti mukwaniritse zochepa zanu. Izi zidzamuphunzitsa iye mu udindo, kumuphunzitsa iye kuti asamalire iwe. Osangowonjezera. Kumbukirani kuti aliyense amafuna chikondi ndi chikondi. Musawope kuwonetsa malingaliro anu kwa wosankhidwayo. Ndikofunika kupeza pakati pakati pa umoyo wodzikonda ndi kudzikonda.
Sikofunika kuti zinyamvetsetse monga Fermat's theorem ndi kuzizira monga mfumukazi ya chisanu. Onetsani chidwi chenicheni kwa mwamuna, mumudziwe kuti ndinu wokondwa ndipo mumakhala wokondwa kumakhala naye nthawi ndi nthawi yomwe simungapeze.
Yesetsani kunyengerera, kunyengerera malingaliro a munthu ndipo musafulumire kuyenda mofulumira kuti mukhale paubwenzi wapamtima. Pamene akuyesetsa mwakhama kuti akwaniritse inu, adzayamikira kwambiri.
Ngati pali mavuto ena, yesetsani kulankhula ndi wokondedwa wanu. Kukhala ndi chilakolako chotukwana kapena kusonyeza nsanje si njira yabwino kwambiri. Yesetsani kupukuta zonyansa zapamwamba. Mtsikana wokonda ndi wofatsa adzapeza njira ya mtima wa munthu.
Pokonzekera maubwenzi, yesetsani kukhala wodalirika kumbuyo kwa mwamuna. Muuzeni kuti ngati akufuna, akhoza kulankhula nanu pamutu uliwonse, ndipo ngati sakufuna, sangavutike ndi mafunso osasangalatsa. Amuna samakonda kuvomereza zolephera zawo, ndipo ngati mtsikanayo samapweteketsa nkhani, koma amasonyeza maonekedwe ake onse, popeza akudalira luso la wosankhidwa, ndiye kuti onse awiriwo angapindule. Nchifukwa chiyani amuna ena akuswa ndi kumwa? Chifukwa chakuti akazi ena amawawona nthawi zonse, amafuna zambiri ndipo nthawi zambiri amanena kuti ali otayika.
Mukuyenera kukhala kumbuyo, koma osati mthunzi. Muyenera kukhalabe owala komanso okongola monga tsiku limene munakumana nawo. Aloleni bamboyo awone kuti ena akuyang'ana pa chibwenzi chake, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo ayenera kutsimikiza kuti mayi wake sapita kumanzere.
Mwa zochita zanu, khalani olimbikitsa mwamunayo poganiza kuti sadzapeza wina wabwino kuposa iwe. Limbani ndi chinthu chokoma, pangani mpweya wokhala bwino. Khalani kwa iye mpweya wa mpweya wabwino pambuyo pa tsiku lotopetsa. Mulole iye aiwale za chirichonse ndi iwe.
Yang'anirani amayi ake. Mu njira zambiri, chikhalidwe cha khalidwe la amai chimawoneka ndi munthu mmenemo. Samalani momwe amachitira, kuyankhulana ndi kusamalira mwana wake.
Tawonani momwe abwenzi anu amachitira chiyanjano, ndipo panthawi imodzimodzi penyani ngati simukukopera zolakwika mu ubale wanu. Chitsanzo chabwino nthawi zonse chimasonyeza.
Pa mgwirizano pakati pa awiri, anthu atatuwa sayenera kusokoneza. Nthawi zonse kuthetsa mavuto anu nokha. Musalole abwenzi anu kukumana ndi uphungu wawo. Musati muwonetsetse kuti mwina sangakhale ndi zolinga zabwino.
Yesetsani kudziyika nokha pamalo ake, yesetsani kuyang'ana mkhalidwewo ndi maso ake. Njira yotereyi idzakuthandizani kuti muwonetsetse bwino chiyanjano chanu ndikuteteza motsutsana ndi maganizo olakwika.
Mvetserani kwa mtima wanu. Ndi bwino kuposa mabuku abwino komanso akatswiri a maganizo a anthu kuti akuuzeni momwe mungapitirire. Ndipo kumbukirani, nthawi zonse zimakhala zomveka kuti mudandaule zomwe munachita kusiyana ndi zomwe simunachite.