Musati "amangirireni" carapace
Ndi ana zonse zimawonekera: kwa iwo, mawu atsopano - monga chidole, chomwe amapeza mwachinsinsi m'bokosi la mchenga. Mwamva mawu omwe atayidwa ndi winawake (mu tepi ya kindergarten, mu sitolo, pamsewu), apa iwo anawutenga iwo. Ana a zaka zitatu kapena zinayi samazimvetsa ngakhale tanthauzo la mawu omwe amalumbirira omwe amagwiritsa ntchito polankhula. Amatha kamodzi kapena kawiri kukambirana pazinthu zonga izi, kenako nkuiwala bwinobwino. Zoona, ngati makolo amakwiya, akudandaula, adzalanga kapena kuseka, mwanayo amatha kulumbirira momasuka amayi ndi abambo, kuwawona iwo kuti awathandize. Ndipo mwinamwake kuti asalumbire, koma mawu omwe amachititsa zomwe zimachitikira akuluakulu, kumbukirani motsimikizika - psychologists amachitcha izo "kumangiriza", kukonzekera. Choncho, tiyenera kusamala "zokambirana". Ngati mwanayo akuyamba kugwedeza zosayenera, onetsetsani kuti sanamvepo kalikonse. Koma pamphepete mwa diso lanu, yang'anani mwanayo. Ngati iye ali chinachake pa nthawi imeneyo, ndiye, mwinamwake, kutemberera ndi kupeza mwachinsinsi zomwe zidzatha pokhapokha. Chinthu chinanso, ngati mwanayo mwadala amachititsa Papa kuti aganizire, ndipo m'bale wake - mdima ("mwamphamvu" wotembereredwa pa msinkhu umenewo ndi wotchuka kwambiri) kapena amagwiritsa ntchito mwano, kulingalira momveka bwino tanthauzo lake. Fotokozani kuti m'banja mwanu simunayambe. Kulanga kapena kuchitira manyazi mwanayo sikoyenera: Iye akadali wamng'ono kwambiri ndipo sadziwa zomwe akuchita, kotero ntchito yanu ndi kumuphunzitsa kuchita chinthu choyenera. Nkhondo yolimbana ndi nkhanza - mwazoipa kwambiri zomwe mungaganize! Amakhala ndi makhalidwe awiri: amayi ndi abambo akhoza kulumbira, mwana sangathe? Ngati mwanayo akufunsani kuti afotokoze tanthauzo la mawu achipongwe, yesetsani kuchita zomwezo. Pamene pali mawu ofanana kwambiri, mukhoza kuyankhula, ndikupempha kuti musayesedwe. Ngati mulibe mawu ofanana, nenani mwamphamvu kuti: "Sitikudziwa mawu otere m'banja mwathu", ndikusintha mwanayo pa masewera ena.
Yankhulani kwa ine, Amayi
Kwa zaka zoposa zisanu ndi zisanu ndi ziwiri zakhala zikusintha - achifwamba amayamba kulumbira mopanda ulemu. Chifukwa chiyani? Nthawi zambiri, mwa njira iyi, akuyesera ... kuti akope chidwi cha makolo awo! Mwachitsanzo, amayi anga "akulendewera" maola awiri pa foni, ndipo mwanayo akuyesera kumuchotsa pa chubu popanda chifukwa. Palibe "mayi, tiyeni tiyambe" sikugwira ntchito. Koma zimamupangitsa kuti awononge mawu otsutsa - chubu idzapachikidwa pomwepo. Zoona, mayiyo adzayamba kulankhula mokwiya, koma kenaka mukhalenso chete ndipo muzisangalala naye! Chifukwa china chochitira chinyengo ndi kuyesa kutsanzira munthu wina: mbale wachikulire, khalidwe lojambula kapena chojambula (inde, ngati muwayang'ana pamodzi ndi mwanayo, mudzadabwa ndi kuchuluka kwa mawu akuti "dude", "apolisi," etc.). Chifukwa china-chilakolako chowoneka moyenera komanso "champhamvu" pamaso pa anzako. Kodi mungakondweretse bwanji mwanayo?
Yesetsani kukhazikitsa chiyanjano ndi iye tsopano, kufotokoza zabwino ndi zoipa. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amati: zaka zisanu ndi zisanu ndi ziwiri ndi zisanu ndi zaka zabwino kwambiri zokambirana zokambirana, chifukwa ana ambiri amakhala ndi mantha a kusagwirizana pakati pa anthu - amawopa kuti asagwirizane ndi ziyembekezo za akuluakulu.
■ Pa chifukwa chilichonse komanso mwana wanu wamwamuna akuzunzani, khalani chete. Nenani mwamphamvu kuti: "Sindikufuna kumva mawu awa kuchokera kwa iwe!" Musati musonyeze chisokonezo chanu, mwinamwake mwanayo adzakumbukira zomwe mukuchita ndipo kuyambira pano angagwiritse ntchito miseche kuti awopseze ena.
Phunzitsani mwanayo kuti afotokoze mkwiyo wake popanda kuwombera. Ndi bwino kumulolera kuti: "Munandikwiyitsa bwanji mai," kusiyana ndi momwe mungakhalire akunong'oneza kumbuyo kwanu.
"Wolemba, Imwani Yadu"
Ndili ndi achinyamata, chirichonse chiri chovuta kwambiri. Choyamba, nthawi zambiri samasamala zomwe makolo awo amaganiza pazoyankhula zawo. Chachiwiri, kukambirana kwawo kuli ndi mawu "achilendo". Ndipo izi sizikutanthauza kuti mwamuna kapena mkazi (ngakhale kuti ndizokwanira) - makamaka achinyamata slang ("loft" (ubongo), "tusa" (kampani), "shoelaces" (makolo) kapena kupotoza kwa mafashoni a mawu osachokera pa intaneti (" , "krosavcheg," "preved," "pasitiffgeg," etc.) Komabe, modabwitsa, akatswiri a maganizo ambiri amakhulupirira kuti achinyamata omwe ali ndi chilankhulo chawo ayenera ... kuchoka okha, ngakhale atakukhumudwitsani. akatswiri, achinyamata slang ndi chinthu chachilendo: chinaliko, ndipo chidzakhalapo nthawi zonse ngati chikhalidwe chofunika kwambiri cha mafashoni. achinyamata, njira yawo yolankhulirana ndi mpweya wa ufulu m'dziko lachikulire lolamulidwa ndi akuluakulu, komanso ndi mchenga pakati pa "athu" ndi "osati athu." Akatswiri amanena kuti slang la achinyamata limasinthidwa zaka zisanu zilizonse, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mawu omwe amachititsa kuti mukhale ovuta, zidzatha pamene mwana wanu akukula ndipo potsirizira pake amasunthira ku chinenero chachilendo.
Kukhala osakhululukidwa
Achikulire nthawi zambiri amawopa ndi achinyamata omwe amachitira nkhanza, zomwe zimawonetsedwa mwaukali kuti zisunge ndi momwemo kulankhula. Komabe, akatswiri a zamaganizo amalimbikitsira makolo kuti asamachite mantha - izi ndizochitika zachilengedwe. Izi zikusonyeza kuti kuyambira pa chikhalidwe cha chisinthiko pachigawo choyamba munthu amazindikira kuti dziko lapansi ndilolendo komanso akulimbana ndi momwe angathere, kuphatikizapo kulumbira mawu ndi zibambo. Ndipo kokha ndi msinkhu kwa iye amabwera kumvetsa kuti dziko mozungulira, mwachilendo, siloipa kwambiri. Choncho, kupempha kuchokera kwa mwana kuti asokoneze mtendere - ntchito yomwe ili yopanda pake komanso, yowonjezera, yoopsa: ngati wachinyamata nthawi zonse ayenera kuletsa mkwiyo wake, ndiye kuti m'tsogolomu akhoza kukhala wampondereza. Zoonadi, izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kuyang'ana pa zala zanu momwe mwanayo akuyesera "kupatsa mutu" kwa munthu woyamba pa mzere kapena momwe mwana wake amachitira nkhanza kwa agogo ake. Athandizeni "kumasula nthunzi" m'njira yodalirika. Masewera, masewera, basketball kapena masewera amakono - chilichonse chogwira ntchito mothandizira chimayambitsa kayendedwe ka mantha.