Ndicho chifukwa chake amakhumudwa kwambiri pamene womaliza akuwonetsa zolakwika za "mwana woyenera". Bambo, bambo, akuyang'ana "zovuta" zoterezi kudzera mwala zake. Ufulu wolerera mwana ndi abambo ndiwopindulitsa. Amangomvetsa kuti:
a) ziribe kanthu kaya ndi mtundu wanji wa malaya ovala, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti amachita bwino ntchito zawo;
b) ndi zopanda phindu kudzibisa mwana pang'ono, iye amadziipitsa, chifukwa nthawi imeneyi moyo sungapewe.
Papa akuganizira zambiri za "dziko lonse": mwachitsanzo, momwe mungapititsire zochitika zake kwa mwanayo, kuti apambane. Amadziŵa bwino kuti sangakhale wangwiro, ndipo samayesayesa ndi ena abambo amene mwana wake amakhala pansi pamphika.
Malangizo a bambo
Onetsani ufulu wodziwonetsera komanso pankhani ya maubwenzi ndi mwanayo. Musayese kusintha machitidwe a mayi. Muyenera kudziwa zomwe mungachite ndi mwanayo mukakhala nokha. Ndipo musathamangire kuthandiza mkazi wake pa nthawi yoyamba ya mwanayo. Yesani kumvetsa zinthu zonse nokha. Fufuzani chithandizo pokhapokha ngati mukumverera kuti simungathe kupirira vutoli.
Adadi nthawi zambiri amagwirizanitsidwa ndi mwanayo ndi masewerawo, ndipo amayi anga - ndi milandu (simungakhale odetsedwa, muyenera kusamba m'manja). Thandizani mkazi wanu pa nkhani yovuta ya kulera mwana monga bambo ndikuyesera kusandutsa gawo la masewera kuti akhale ophunzira: "Tisambitsa nkhope yathu ngati pussies" kapena "paulendo tidzamanga nsanja ya mchenga, ndipo omanga onse avala magolovesi, ndikuwonetsa momwe amawagwiritsira ntchito." Kusewera, zonse ndi zosavuta kuzidziwa.
Chidwi ndi chidwi
Masewera ndi kulankhulana ndi abambo zimalimbikitsa chilengedwe. Adadi amanena zazing'ono, koma za zinthu zofunika - mabowo wakuda, zimbalangondo za pola komanso momwe angaponyedzere masewero a khitchini pamphika. Kupereka gawo ili amayi ali ovuta, ntchito yake ndi kuphunzitsa mwana momwe angachitire. Amuna mwa chilengedwe amayenera kupitirira mosalekeza, pangani chinachake. Ndikofunika kwambiri kukhala ndi chidwi pakati pa atsikana, chifukwa anyamata poyamba akuyesa kuyesa chinthu chatsopano. Chifukwa chogwirizana ndi atsikana kunyumba, zomwe zimawazungulira pomwepo, papa ayenera kuyesetsa kukweza mwanayo, kuti adziwe zomwe zimapitirira zomwe amadziwika kale.
Malangizo a bambo
Musaiwale kuti kulenga kuli ndi vuto. Kukhala ndi chidwi ndibwino pamene mukufuna kupeza njira yothetsera mavuto. Kawirikawiri, kufufuza njira zingapo kungapangitse kuti pakhale chisankho ndi kusankha zochita. Chifukwa cha umunthu wosadziwika, kusinthika kwa zochita ndi zochitika ndizovuta kwambiri. Ikhoza kufooketsa njira zothetsera maganizo.
Choncho, yesani kusunga nyimbo ya moyo yomwe imadziwika bwino kwa mwanayo. Kukhala ndi mwana kwa nthawi yaitali popanda amayi, sikuli koyenera kumudyetsa msangamsanga sushi, steak ndi magazi, kuti atsogolere alendo kumalume osadziwika bwino (asiyeni akhale a cronies), mwadzidzidzi amuphunzitseni kukoka ketchup ndi mayonesi pa tebulo ...
Kuti asinthe pa kumanga nyumba yamatabwa m'nyumba, ana amafunika nthawi. Akazi amakhumudwa kwambiri pokambirana. Mwamuna, pofuna kuthetsa nkhawa pambuyo pa ntchito, uyenera kukhala ndekha - dinani pa TV kutalika kapena batani la makompyuta (zithunzi zowala zikuthandizira kutulutsa mutu). Choncho yesetsani kuti mugwirizanitse ndi mkazi wanu - mukufunikira mpumulo wa mphindi makumi asanu ndi awiri mutatha kugwira ntchito yokhala nokha ndi inu nokha, ndiye mungathe kuchita naye mwanayo, kumasula amayi anu.
Ulamuliro wa papin umathandiza ana kuti apambane mwachindunji. Masewerowa amaphunzitsa kulingalira ndikupanga luso laling'ono lamagetsi, zomwe, monga momwe zimadziwira, zimathandizanso ubongo:
"Mabatani"
Tengerani botolo loonekera poyera ndi makatani 10. Ganizirani mawu omwe amayamba ndi kalata A. Pa liwu lililonse, taya batani mu botolo. Mukasonkhanitsa chirichonse, mutseka botolo ndi chivindikiro (mu masewerawa onse kulankhula ndi kuyendetsa bwino zamagetsi).
"Piramidi"
Kusonkhanitsa piramidi, nenani mawu omwe ayambira ndi kalata B. Mphete imodzi ndi mawu amodzi. Makalata, ndithudi, akhoza kusintha.
Malangizo a bambo
Mosiyana ndi kufatsa kwa amayi, udindo wa abambo ndiwowongolera. Koma phunzirani kukhala osasinthasintha muzotsutsana ndi zilolezo zanu. Apapa amakonda kunena kuti "satsatira" mfundo, komabe nthawi zambiri amasonyeza mtima wosagonjetsa pazinthu zazing'ono (mwadzidzidzi mwana yemwe ma tepi akhala pamphepete kwa masiku atatu ayenera "mwamsanga, minitiyi ikonzekere!"). Pachifukwa ichi, apapa ali okhulupirika kwambiri kusemphana ndi malamulo oyambirira (chabwino, kunyalanyaza agogo anga aakazi, chabwino, anaba makina - opanda pake, omwe analibe izi!). Mukamachita zimenezi, mumasokoneza mwanayo. Ngati bambo amachitapo kanthu mosiyana nthawi iliyonse, mwanayo ndi ovuta kuphunzira momwe angakhalire molondola.
Zatsopano ndi zoopsa
Chithunzi chodziwika pa malo owonetsera. Pamene amayi akuyang'ana nthawi zonse mwanayo, kubwereza pa sitepe iliyonse, "Samalani!" Ndipo "Fu, ndizosavomerezeka!", Apapa molimba mtima "amapotoza" mwana kumbali, amaphunzitsa kuti ayende pamalo, kufufuza malo atsopano.
Malangizo a bambo
Ndikofunika kuti musatengeke. Kawirikawiri, chiwerengero cha zochita za abambo zimatha nthawi imene ana amafunika kugona (sizowonjezereka kuti achite). Kumbukirani kuti ali ndi zaka 2 mpaka 4, ana amalephera kuthetsa maganizo awo monga chikondi, chidani, mantha. Iwo sadziwa bwino kwambiri pakati pa zenizeni ndi zopanda pake. Ngati abambo amavewera chimbalangondo, ndiye kuti mwanayo ali ndi chimbalangondo. Izi ndizovuta kwambiri kwa mwana woterowo. Choncho, masewera achiwawa ayenera kukhala abwino komanso osakhalitsa, ngakhale mwanayo atapempha zambiri. Ndikofunika kuti asapitirize kufunafuna kapena kumenyana, koma khalanibe m'masukulu.
Kuletsa ndi kudziletsa
Bambo akhoza kukonzekera bwino kuti mwanayo akhale malire a zomwe zingatheke komanso zosatheka, malinga ndi vuto linalake. Zoonadi, ndi zoipa kulavulira (ngakhale kuti nthawi zina mumatha kuseka), koma simungathe kulavulira akulu akulu - zidzakhala ndi zotsatira zoipa kwambiri, chifukwa zimaphwanya miyambo ya anthu. Bamboyo amaphunzitsa mwana kuti adzilamulire yekha osati "kumusiya" kuyanjana ndi anthu ena.
Njira ya "magetsi"
Mwachidule, gawani mu magawo atatu kuyesa khalidwe la mwana ndikutsatira bwino. Chilichonse chimaloledwa: kusewera m'chipinda chilichonse, kukwera kwa makolo anu m'mawa kukagona, tsanulirani madzi ... - mungathe kuchita zonse, koma muli ndi vuto: kuponyera teŵeti m'chipinda chanu, kuitana alendo, kuchenjeza makolo, kuchotsani bokosi okha mapepala apulasitiki .. .
Osati: kuthamanga kudutsa msewu, kukoka pamakoma, kufuula, kuluma.
Masewera ali ndi bambo
Kuchita zochitika:
1. Pambuyo pa kumuika mwanayo pamimba, gwirani miyendo ndikuyendetsa patsogolo, kenako mubwerere. Zochita izi ndizokhazikitsa chitukuko cha mapepala ndi mapewa. Pamene mwanayo amatha kupirira zovutazi, mukhoza kumusunga ndi miyendo, ndipo adzapita m'manja mwake. Ndikofunika kuti thupi la mwanalo lifanane ndi pansi.
Chingwe, chingwe chokhala mu mawonekedwe a bwalo ndi "nyumba", apo n'zotheka kubisala. Ayenera kuchitidwa muzipinda zosiyanasiyana. Kenaka akuyamba masewera a kukwera. Cholinga: mwana amathamangira ku "nyumba", kumene ali kale chitetezo. Ndiye mukhoza kusinthana maudindo ndi zinyenyeswazi. Pamsewu "nyumba" zimatha kujambulidwa ndi mabokera, mchenga, ndi chisanu.
Inde, abambo ali ndi nkhawa, koma amasonyeza kuti akumva bwino. Amakhulupirira kuti kupyolera mwa kudziyesa nokha mungathe kuphunzira kudziimira nokha.
Ulendo wapanyumba
Kubwerera kuchoka ku maulendo, pemphani mwanayo kuti abwere naye kunyumba. Mupatseni mwayi wopita kumene akuganiza kuti ndibwino, nthawi ndi nthawi funsani mafunso: "Ndipo ife tinakhala ndi birch pafupi ndi nyumba, ndipo apa pali magalasi." Lembani lingaliro kwa iye ndi iwe fano: mwachitsanzo, ndinu akalonga a ndege yomwe ikuyang'ana njira.
Abambo kawirikawiri amakana ana mwa zinthu zophweka komanso zopanda pake (kusewera ndi ana ena, kusankha zovala okha), pozindikira kuti ndizovuta. Athandizeni kusintha kaganizidwe kake pakakhala amayi.