Kodi mungaphunzitse bwanji mwana ulemu?

Kodi mukufuna kuti mwanayo akhale ndi khalidwe labwino, akhale wolemekezeka komanso wamakhalidwe abwino? Momwemo zidzakhalira, ngati amayi ndi abambo anga apereka chitsanzo chabwino. Mawu akuti "khalidwe" adapezeka zaka mazana anayi apitawo. Tsiku lina Louis XIV, atakhumudwitsidwa ndi khalidwe loipa la eni ake, adalamulidwa kuti apereke kwa makalata onse makhadi apadera - malemba. Zinalembedwa malamulo a makhalidwe pa mpira ku Emperor. Kuchokera nthawi imeneyo, malingaliro akhala akunenedwa kukhala wokhoza kukhala ndi ulemu. Zimathandizansobe! Momwe mungaphunzitsire mwana makhalidwe abwino, mudzadziwanso.

Nchifukwa chiyani izi zili zofunika?

Ndi ana omwe sadziwa malamulo a luso, pangakhale mavuto aakulu. Ngakhalenso nkhani zachikhalidwe zimatichenjeza za izi! Mukukumbukira momwe mashenka ochokera ku "Bears Three" adafika povuta chifukwa sankadziwa momwe angakhalire m'nyumba ya munthu wina? Inde, ndi Neznayka wotchuka chifukwa chosasunga malamulo oyambirira akuyendera. Nanga bwanji za ankhondo a "Mabungwe Oipa" Grigory Oster? Ndithudi, mutatha kuwerenga mabukuwa, mwana wanu wamwamuna kapena mwana wanu wamkazi adasankha zolondola. Komabe, izi si zokwanira! Tsiku lililonse amafunika kukonzekera. Zimakhala zabwino ngati zikuchitika ndi anzanu ndi makolo awo (pa chitsanzo cha ana akuluakulu, ndizovuta kuti aliyense aphunzire!). Koma kunyumba ndi amayi ndi abambo mukhoza kuchita.

Masewera aulemu

Kumbukirani mawu abwino mwanayo amathandiza masewera, komanso odziwika kale ... ngati atasinthidwa pang'ono.

"Mawu"

Ochita masewerawo amayankhula mawu amatsenga. Amene ali ndi mawu adzatha.

"Dunno"

Tengani chidole, chimbalangondo kapena kalulu ndi kusewera pamaso pa mwanayo malo omwe chidolecho chimachita zoipa (sadziwa momwe angachitire ndi dokotala, m'sitolo, patebulo). Lolani mwanayo ayese kukonza zolakwa!

Kuchokera ku chiphunzitso chochita

Inde, ndizosangalatsa kuphunzira pamsewero. Koma pofuna kulimbikitsa chidziwitso ichi, zimakhala zofunikira zina. Timapereka kukonzekera ndi ... kulenga iwo! Fotokozerani khalidwe labwino pamene mukudya. Chitani izo mu mawonekedwe achilembo - kumbukirani bwino! Pambuyo pa gawo lotereli, konzani chikondwerero chamadzulo malinga ndi malamulo onse (panthawi imodzimodzi ndikutumikira tebulo la mwanayo mukaphunzire!). Mudzadabwa kwambiri ndi momwe mwanayo amachitira! Musanapite ku zojambulajambula, kupita kuchiwonetsero, fotokozerani kuti simungathe kuthamanga pamalo ammudzi, kulankhulana mokweza, zala zapadera pamakonzedwe, pawuni. Musalowe basi, minibus ndi chikwama, thumba pamapewa anu, kuti musapweteke ena okwera. Zolembazi zimaphunziridwa ndi mtima, koma nthawi zina zinyenyeswazi zimaiwala, izi kapena lamulo la ulemu. Khalani ololera ndipo ... chitani zomwe mukufunikira, nenani mawu a matsenga! Chonde, chonde, pewani kufotokozera umunthu wa mwanayo. Makhalidwe abwino kwa mwana wanu adzapindula kwambiri atakula msinkhu. Ndicho chifukwa chake pakali pano akufunikira kulera kwanu mochuluka. Ndipotu, nthawi zambiri ana amaphunzira chinachake chabwinoko, kuphatikizapo ana ena ali aang'ono, kotero ngati mumaphunzitsa ziphuphu zamakhalidwe abwino pakalipano, mutapindula kwambiri. Phunzitsani mwanayo kuti alankhule molondola, osayambiranso ndi akuluakulu, chikondi ndi kulemekeza achikulire, kuthandizira ndikufotokozera anthu achikulire zakuthupi. Kenaka mwanayo amakulira ndikukuuzani mwapadera zikomo. Zikomo ndi chikondi ndi kumvetsetsa.