Kwa chikwati, abambo ndi abambo amachiritsidwa mosiyana. Amayi ambiri kuyambira ali mwana amalota kuti akhale mkwatibwi. Koma sangapeze malo abwino kuti apite pansi pa korona. Koma ndi zovuta kwambiri kuti amuna azipeza mnzawo wa moyo kusiyana ndi mkazi. Akazi amadziwa kale zomwe ayenera kukhala mwamuna wake wam'tsogolo. Ndi makhalidwe ati omwe ayenera kukhala nawo komanso momwe ayenera kukhalira. Ndipo amuna okhudza mkazi wamtsogolo akuganiza choncho: sayenera kukhala nsanje, kuyenda. Ayenera kukhala wochenjera, ndi miyendo yabwino, thupi ndi moyo. Iwo akuyesera kupeza malo awo okha, akulowerera kuphompho kwa ubale ndi akazi osiyana. Nthawi zambiri amakhumudwitsidwa ndi iwo, osapeza zomwe akufuna kapena kuyembekezera.
Koma makhalidwe onse omwe anthu amaganiza, mkazi ayenera kukhala nawo, amavuta moyo wathu ndi iwo. Amuna samayang'ana bwino makhalidwe amene mumawona kuti ndi abwino kwa inu. Ndipo iwo sadzakwatira iwe.
Amuna ali okonzeka nthawi iliyonse kusiya ntchito yawo ndikuchita zina. Iwo ali okonzeka kusamukira ku dziko lina. Azimayi ambiri amakhala okonzeka kugwirizana ndi chisankho ichi. Koma izi ndi zolakwika. Inde, mwamuna adzakondwera kuti msungwanayo ali wokonzeka kumutsata mpaka kumapeto a dziko lapansi, koma sadzakwatirana ndi kugonjera koteroko. Iwo ali okonzekera kugwirizanitsa miyoyo yawo ndi omwe angakhoze kumudzudzula iye, kumukana iye mu chisankho ichi.
Amuna amakonda amai omwe akufuna kugonana pa chifuniro. Amuna a m'banja samakonda akazi omwe ali okonzeka kulowa mu chidziwitso chachisoni, kapena omwe ali okonzeka kuchita nawo nthawi iliyonse yamtundu uliwonse. Ukwati kwa iye makamaka kumvetsetsa.
Amuna, monga mukudziwira, samakonda nsanje yambiri, koma kusakhala kwake sikukukopa ngakhale. Akusowa mkazi yemwe angadziimire yekha ndi kuteteza chisangalalo chake.
Ngati mkazi sakukondwera yekha, ntchito ndi khalidwe lake, ndiye izi zimamuopseza munthuyo. Ndiponso, malingaliro osakondweretsa kwa mwamuna ndiwonso adzakhala kulakwitsa kwake koopsa. Iwo ali okonzeka kuti alowe m'malo awo ovuta mu nthawi zovuta, koma osati nthawi zonse. Kusakondwera ndi umunthu wanu kungamuchititsenso mantha.
Ngati munthu ataledzera ndi kusokonezeka ndikuchita zinthu zoipa, simuyenera kuyang'anitsitsa. Koma musayambe amatsenga ndi kusokoneza naye. Ingotetezani mkhalidwe kapena kusiya changu chanu cha mawa, pokhala mutamukonzekeretsa kuti azikhala bwino.
Yesani kusokoneza mwamuna nthawi zambiri, kumuyitana wopanda chifukwa. Izi zingachititse kuti asinthe maganizo ake pankhani ya kukwatira. Komanso, nthawi zonse mayi ayenera kudziyang'anira yekha, makamaka pamene munthuyo ali wotanganidwa kapena wotopa. Koma chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kuwonjezerapo kuti mwamuna wanu asakuyang'ane ndipo sakudandaula.