Makhalidwe a boma amatiphunzitsa kuti tiyenera kuthandiza ena. Koma ndani akutsutsa? Koma khalidwe lomwelo limalimbikitsa iwo omwe athandizidwa, kukhala othokoza chifukwa cha chithandizo ichi ... Ndicho chimene tili nacho pakati pa anzathu ndi achibale athu oterewa omwe ali okonzeka kuthetsa mavuto awo pamapewa athu.
Nkhani zambiri m'manyuzipepala zimatha kuchepetsa mosavuta "Kwa omwe sanganene kuti NO." Kumeneku, amadziwa zifukwa zomwe sizinali zachizoloŵezi kuti munthu akane ndi kupereka uphungu wokana. Tidzachita izi mosiyana: Tidzazindikira kuti ndizoopsa bwanji kukhala "wokondweretsa munthu", ndiyeno kutanthauziridwa kosintha kwa "Kukhala kapena kusakhala" kwa Hamlet (kwa ife kuti "EYA kapena NO") sikukupweteka mutu, koma kungokhala yankho (note, yankho lanu!) pazochitikazo. Ndiwe nokha amene mungapange mpikisano wamtundu wina kapena kulemba zolemba mwamsanga, kuchotsa nthawi kuntchito kapena ntchito; Ndiwe, wokhala ndi "chokhacho" vouch, wokongoza ndalama kwa anzanu; ndi inu amene mumachita zomwe mukukakamizidwa kuchita ndi kupita kumene simukufuna. Ndipo n'zomveka kuti lingaliro la ubongo limatsika: "Kodi ndikufunikira izi?". Amzanga angakulimbikitseni kwambiri ndipo mumakhulupirira kuti mwaubvomerezo, mumawabwezera udindo wanu waubwenzi. Ngakhale mukuganiza kuti aliyense yemwe alibe pakati ali wokonzeka kukhala pakhosi pako. Muyenera kupanikiza mkwiyo wanu nthawi zonse, kuyesera kuti musaswe "," ndipo izi zadzaza ndi kuwonongeka kwa maganizo komwe kudzawononga thanzi lanu. Pamapeto pake, kupsa mtima kumene kumamanga mkati mwanu kumatha kuwononga ndi kuwononga maubwenzi anu ndi anzanu.
Mtolo wowonjezera ku thanzi lanu umapanga kumverera kwanthaŵi zonse kwa pempho losavomerezeka. Tiyeni tidzipusitse tokha, chifukwa pamene chinachake chachitika, monga akunena, "osati kuchokera mumtima", pamene mumadziimba mlandu kuti mukuchita khama ndikukwiyitsanso wina amene angakuvutitseni, lonjezo lanu silinayankhidwe monga momwe muyenera. Kupsinjika koteroko kungayambitse kuledzeretsa kapena "mofulumira".
Dzifunseni nokha zambiri, koma chonde dziwani ena pokhapokha ngati mukufunikiradi. Chitsanzo chopambanitsa cha zochitika zoterezi. Munthu woledzera amabwera kwa inu mumsewu ndikukupemphani kuti mupereke ndalama kuti mugoneke. Mumamuuza kuti palibe mavuto, tiyeni tipite ku bulediyo, ndikugulitsani mkate. Chiwongolero ndi 150%, kuti ndi munthu wopepuka wofunsira chakudya angakane, amafunikira wina. Yang'anani pa chirichonse mosiyana. Kunena kuti "EYA", mumakondweretsa wopemphayo. Mukapemphedwa chinachake, nthawi zambiri amawonjezera kuti: "Inde, ndikadapanga ndekha, koma ndilibe nthawi". Monga ngati muli ndi galimoto yake ndi ngolo yaying'ono ... Inu, nokha, nthawi yanu, ndalama, zinthu mwanzeru zanu nokha, inikto, amene amakulemekezani, sangathe kulimbana nazo. Aliyense amene akuyembekeza yankho lanu lokha labwino ndikukwiyitsa kwambiri pokhapokha ngati anakana - munthu wosayamika. Chifukwa chiyani muyenera kusamala zomwe akuganiza za iwe? Komabe, mawu okana ayenera kupepesa. Musati mukhale ndi zizolowezi zanu za kunama ndi mabokosi atatu, kuti musamachite zomwe simukuzifuna. Khalani owona mtima. Ndiye mungathe kupewa zinthu zambiri zosasangalatsa, zokonzedweratu kwa inu ndi moyo. Kumbukirani, simusowa kupanga mapangidwe aliwonse omwe ali oyenerera. Kuwona mtima kwanu kudzayamikiridwa bwino, mudzachitiridwa ulemu ndi kuti mutha kuteteza malo anu. Komanso, inu nokha mudzayamba kudzichitira ulemu ndi ulemu waukulu. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi chakuti aliyense adziwe - pamene mukuti "inde", imasonyeza chilolezo chanu chodzipereka.