Malamulo a amuna ndi akazi
Kumbukirani ubwana, ndipo mwamsanga mumvetsetsa momwe abambo ndi amai amachitira mosiyana pamaseŵera amphamvu. Anyamata amatha kusewera ndi nkhondo ndi mpira, mothandizidwa ndi mpikisano, ndipo kuyambira ali mwana amadziwa kuti: kupanga bwino malamulo, mpikisano umapanga chisangalalo, kupambana ndi kokoma ndipo kumapangitsa ulemu ndi kuyamikira kwa ena. Atsikana amasewera ndi zidole - ndipo m'dziko lino aliyense amawonetsa mgwirizano, malingaliro, kugwirizanitsa pamodzi ndi kuwonjezereka mwatsatanetsatane. Kwa akuluakulu, chirichonse ndi chimodzimodzi. Kwa amuna, udindo ndi mphamvu ndizofunika monga chigonjetso, ndipo kuyesetsa "mphoto" kumayambitsa buzz. Ife amayi timayamikira malingaliro, kuyang'ana zokhumba ndi kukhazikitsa zolinga, ndipo ife tiri ndi chidwi ndi mphamvu ngati chida chomwe chingatithandize kukwaniritsa zolingazi. Chifukwa chake, timamanga maubwenzi m'njira zosiyanasiyana: amuna - molondola, molingana ndi mfundo yakulamulira, ndi amayi - osakanikirana. Mzimayi akulowa mu ntchito ndi chinyengo chakuti ndi bwino kukonzekera kuzindikira. Koma posachedwa amvetsetsa: tidzatsimikizira kuti sizongogwirizana, koma ndibwino kuposa amuna, kuti atsimikize kuti munthuyo amadalira yekha. Iye amayesera molimba kwambiri, koma iye sakudziwa nkomwe kuti pansi pa amuna "abwino" awa samamvetsa ntchito yabwino, koma mphamvu yokokera. Kuzindikira izo kudzakuthandizani kudziwa miyambo yosalembedwera ndi mauthenga oyankhulana mdziko la anthu.
Dziwonetseni nokha
Mukayamba kugwira ntchito yatsopano, amuna, mwachiwonekere, inu, kawirikawiri simudzawoneka ngati mpikisano. Ngakhale mutapambana bwino kumbuyo kwanu. Muyenera kudutsa mu mwambo wa "kuyambitsa."
Musati mutenge mozama
Pamisonkhano mumapatsidwa khofi ndi mabisiketi, kumacheza ndi inu, ndipo mwinanso mukukangana, mukukakamizidwa ndi bizinesi - koma mu ulamuliro wanu simukumva mozama, chifukwa ndinu nambala yomaliza. Mwayesedwa ngati chinthu chogonana. Ndipo ziribe kanthu, Armani pa inu kapena thumba losapsa - simungapewe izi. Ngati chigamulocho ndi chotsimikizika, muyambowu padzakhala ndemanga zopitilira ndikuyesa kukonda ena.
Inu mwakanidwa
Ngati mukana kulowa mu gawo la kukonda, kukonzera kungabwere. Ndipo musadabwe ngati, ngati chidziwitso chotsutsa, chikho "chamanyazi", "ng'ombe yozizira", ndi zina zotero, chikugwirizana ndi inu, ndi zina zotero. Kuonetsetsa kuti maseŵera okhudzana ndi chiwerewere ndi kukana ndizovuta kwambiri, chifukwa zimakhudzana ndi chibadwidwe chachikazi chachisoni. Kulandira vuto ili kapena ayi ndi nkhani yachinsinsi kwa aliyense. Koma mulimonsemo, mantha ndi zosangalatsa zimathandiza kwambiri, makhalidwe omwe amtengo wapatali kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi. Kuphatikizanso apo, kuseketsa nthawizonse kumasonyeza ma IQ apamwamba.
Inu mumavomerezedwa mu masewera enieni
Ngati mutadutsa nthawi yosadziwika, kusungidwa ndi kukhumba, maganizo anu adzasintha. Tsopano iwo ali okonzeka kuvomereza - zikuwoneka kuti mukhoza kukhala wopikisana.
Utsogoleriwu uli pamwamba pa zonse
Mudziko lachimuna, sipangakhale ntchito yeniyeni mpaka nthawi yomwe manambala a ordinal amagawidwa m'mibadwo yonse. Ndi ichi muyenera kungovomereza. Inde, simungathe kuchita nawo mwambowu, koma nambala yanu idzapatsidwa kwa inu mulimonsemo ndipo mudzamverera nthawi iliyonse. Pano pali mkhalidwe umene umadziwika bwino kwa mkazi aliyense: muli ndi lingaliro lalikulu, ndipo mumayesera kugawana nawo pamisonkhano. Koma palibe amene akumvetsera. Ndipo m'kamphindi Petrov adzalengeza malingaliro anu, ndipo aliyense adzayamba kumukwapula paphewa: "Wachita bwino, wothandizana!" Chifukwa chiyani sakumvetserani? Pali zifukwa ziwiri zomwe zingatheke. Choyamba, inu simunagwirizane nawo kulimbana kwa malo pamalo otsogolera, koma mwakachetechete mwadutsa pambali. Ndipo ndani amasamala za "khumi ndi zisanu ndi chimodzi" zakugwa mmenemo? Chachiwiri, inu ndi lingaliro lanu simunayankhe "nambala yoyamba" - mfumu ya masewerawa, koma, mwachitsanzo, "chachisanu" kapena "chachisanu ndi chiwiri." Ndipo malamulo a masewerawa amawerenga: "Ngati mukufuna kuti mumve, nthawi zonse muzipita kumalo apamwamba kwambiri." Mwa njira, pali njira yophunzitsira Petrova wodalirika. Ndizomwe anangomuthokoza mokweza komanso mwachifundo: "Zikomo kwambiri pothandizira lingaliro limene ndangolankhula." Ndipo kulankhula kotere kumatanthauzidwa kuti "nambala imodzi".
Zizindikiro za kulamulira
M'maseŵera amphamvu, ndizofunika kwambiri osati zomwe mumanena, koma momwe mumachitira. Ndipo apa chida champhamvu kwambiri chiri ndi maonekedwe osalankhula. Mulole kuti mubwere kumisonkhano yomaliza, kukwapula anzanu pamapewa, kudodometsa mokweza, kutenga malo ambiri - zonsezi zimawerengedwa bwino. Chidziwitso chimapangitsa mkazi kuwapewa, ndipo ntchitoyi imapangitsa kuti izi zisawonongeke. Tidzakukonzerani inu ndi chidziwitso cha zizindikiro zoyambirira.
Moni
Kodi zikutanthauzanji ngati mwamunayo akugwirana chanza ndi wachiwiri, ndi dzanja lake lamanzere pa dzanja lamanja la wokondedwayo? Malo? Palibe cha mtunduwu ndi chizindikiro cholimba cha ulamuliro: Ndine pano "nambala imodzi". Chikumbutso chokondweretsa cha Vladimir Putin ndi Jacques Chirac.
Lumikizani ndi maso
Mwachilengedwe, ofooka nthawi zonse amachepetsa maso awo ndikugwa pansi pamene amakumana ndi amphamvu. Musapereke zizindikiro zofooka: Nthawi zonse muziwoneka mwamtendere mukamayankhula ndi kumbuyo msana wanu molunjika. Kuchokera ku chirengedwe timapatsidwa: chifundo, kusamvetsetseka, udindo ndi luso lolowera mu mtima wa nkhaniyo, kupanga ndi kuthetsa mikangano mosamalitsa. Inde, ndithudi, chithumwa chachikazi ndi kugonana. Kuyankhulana kwa bizinesi kumagwirizana kwambiri ndi kukwatulidwa, ndipo zokoma m'madera onsewo nthawi zonse zimaganizira mozama zonse: kutalika kwa mkanjo, kudzikongoletsera, kukongola kwake ndi manja. Zoona, chida cholimba, monga dziko lamalonda, nthawi zonse chimagwiritsidwa ntchito mosamala, ndipo m'maseŵera a tsiku ndi tsiku ndibwino kuti iwo alowe nawo. Chinthu china ndi chakuti mukusowa zochitika pamene mukufunikira zotsatira (pansi pa mgwirizano, mgwirizano). Kenaka mukhoza kukhumudwa ndi kusewera. Mulole mnzanu yemwe akukambirana naye akuyesereni ngati wotsutsa, ndipo atakhala womasuka, mumuuzeni yemwe akukumana nawo.
Ndikofunika kuti ndimakonda aliyense
Kwa mkazi palibe chodabwitsa chachikulu kuposa kukhala wosakondedwa, Ndipo ichi chosowa chaumunthu cha chifundo kwa ambiri chimakhala cholepheretsa cholephera kuthetsa mphamvu. Mmasewerawa, malingaliro akuti "okoma", "okoma", "achifundo" sangathe kwenikweni. Mosiyana ndi - "wotsimikiza", "wokhoza", "wodalirika". Pa malo ogwira ntchito, ndikofunika kwambiri kulemekezedwa kuposa wokondedwa.
Kulamulira ena, ndikuwakhumudwitsa
Ndizosangalatsa kwambiri kuti amai akhale ndi machitidwe otsogolera otsogolera. Ndipo amuna samayamikira bwana, yemwe sagonjetsa omvera ake. Kuyanjana: kuchepetsa kuchepetsa - momwe mungathere, ndi kulamulira kwina - ngati n'kofunikira.
Chirichonse chiyenera kukhala changwiro
Munthu adakhululukidwa kuyambira ali mwana kuti sanali wangwiro - mnyamata yemweyo. Mosiyana ndi atsikana. Ndikofunika kuti munthu amange zojambulazo, ndipo mkazi amayesetsa kupeza ungwiro. Mwamuna, atakwaniritsa chinachake, adzamasuka ndipo adzasangalala ndi kupambana kwake. Ndipo mkaziyo akhala akudandaula kuti chinachake chikhoza kukhala bwinoko.
Nthawi zonse amafunika kusewera oyera
Chikhulupiriro chabwino kwambiri. Komabe, tiyeneranso kuvomereza kuti awo omwe amatsatira nthawi zonse amakhala akukwapulidwa ndi njira zonyansa. Ndipo poyang'anizana ndi njira iyi, sizomveka kusewera ping-pong, ndipo pambuyo pa phunziro ili lawonekedwe mukhoza kubwereranso ku malamulo anu oyera.
Ntchito yabwino imayesedwa nthawi zonse ndikupindula
Mwamwayi, malingaliro awa ndi okopa kwambiri. Kuti mupeze "mphotho", muyenera kusiya kudzichepetsa ndikuphunzira kulengeza ntchito yanu.
Kuthamangira patsogolo mosasamala
Kupita patsogolo, mwinamwake osati bwino, koma mayiyo nthawi zonse adzatha kuchita izi, osakhala ndi zitsulo zamakono komanso osataya kukongola kwake. Ndipo kufika pofunika ndikofunika kuti tiwoneke ndikumva.
Si bwino kumangokhala kunja ndikuyesera kukhala abwino kuposa ena.
Chilichonse chomwe chimachitika mu malo azadongosolo chimakhala chofanana ndi mpikisano. Izi ndi zachilendo. Ndipo ngati simukufuna kuti mukhale "wabwino kuposa", mutha kuweruzidwa ngati "oipa kuposa ...".
Kutenga gawolo
Amuna amakhulupirira moona kuti danga ndi la iwo, ndipo amayamba kutembenukira mmenemo, ndipo amai mwachibadwa amamangirira. Kodi mkazi, atavala suti yapamwamba kwambiri yamatolo, amagwera mutu wa mkazi, agwa pansi pampando wake mkatikati mwa ofesi, miyendo yake ikulumikizana? Ndipo kwa anthu izi ndi zosangalatsa, zimasonyeza mphamvu ya wogonjetsi (mu zamoyo komanso mwachindunji - ziwalo zogonana).
Mawu
Amuna amadziwa mosamalitsa munthu wodalirika, amene amalongosola malingaliro ake mokweza komanso wodzikweza. Ndipo ngati nyimbo zanu za soprano sizikulimbana ndi mpikisano wolimba wa Petrov kapena mabasi a Berzin, ganiziraninso za chikhulupiliro cholimba ndi kudzidalira.
Kusokonezeka
Azimayi, omwe adasokonezedwa mwankhanza, kawirikawiri amasiya kulankhula ndi kuwalola kulankhula. Ichi ndi kulakwitsa! Ndi bwino kupereka ndemanga mwamsanga ndikupitiriza kulankhula momasuka. Koma ndemanga monga "zikuwoneka kuti ndizosatheka kuti musandilole ndikufotokozereni malingaliro anga mpaka mapeto" ndikutaya nthawi.
Gwirani
Chizindikiro champhamvu cha ulamuliro ndikutaya gawo la munthu wina. Amagwiritsa ntchito okhawo omwe ali mu ulamuliro wapamwamba, ndi iwo omwe ali pansi, sadzalola konse. Koma amuna amawoneka kuti amanyalanyaza kuti agwire mkazi. Ndipo ngati mukufuna kukhumudwitsa njira yotereyi, yankhani zomwezo kwa amuna. Kapena yesetsani kulandiridwa, ngati ulamulilo wamwamuna umakugwiritsani ngati kalulu: ingoyerekezerani kuti akuima patsogolo panu mumasokisi amodzi - ndipo palibe kenanso. Ngati iye si George Clooney, njira iyi imachotseratu mavuto.
Kukula
Chithunzi cha mtsogoleri nthawi zonse chimagwirizana ndi lingaliro la "lalikulu" ndi "lolimba." Chilengedwe chimatipanga ife aang'ono kwambiri ndi ofooka kuposa amuna. Izi ndi zokongola kwambiri, koma mukulimbana ndi ulamuliro - momveka bwino, chifukwa tikuwoneka ngati osagonjetsa. Kugonjetsedwa kungathe kuchepetsedwa pogwiritsa ntchito njira zosiyana. Ndibwino kuti musamulole kuti akuyang'ane kuchokera kumwamba. Zing'onozing'ono mtunda pakati pa inu, zoonekeratu zidzakhala kusiyana kwa kukula. Choncho, mukamakambirana ndi anthu akuluakulu, yesetsani kuonjezera mtunda pakati pa inu. Konzani msonkhano uno. Ngati mutakhala pansi, musinthe kutalika kwa mpando pasadakhale kapena kukhala patali. Kodi mukuganiza kuti zokambiranazo zidzatha? Samalani zidendene zapamwamba. Anayima pa masitepe? Mosamvetsetseka kuyambira pansi, pita pamwamba. Zovuta izi zimadziwika kwambiri ndipo zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi amuna aang'ono. Mwachitsanzo, Nicolas Sarkozy pa zithunzi za gulu la atsogoleri a boma nthawi zonse amanyamuka kuti apite.
Zomwe Mphunzitsi Amaphunzira
- Musakhale chete
Kwa amai, zokambirana za amuna zachabechabe - kuyesa kuleza mtima. Koma pambuyo poti mwamuna uja, mosakayikira, sanasonkhanitse chinachake choti adziwuze, anangofuna kuti azijambula - ali ndi chiyembekezo chokwera kuchokera ku "malo asanu ndi awiri" mpaka "chachisanu ndi chimodzi". Izi ndizo malamulo a masewera: ngati mukufuna kukweza udindo wanu ndipo muli ndi chinachake choti muzinena (zosavomerezeka) - nenani!
- Zambiri ndi chinthu chachikulu
M'maseŵera amphamvu, kudzichepetsa sikunakongoletsedwe mwachigawo. Kuti mukwaniritse chinachake, muyenera kusonyeza kuyambira tsiku loyamba kuti muli ndi zolinga, muwonetsedwe mwakhama, mutenge udindo. Ndipo musagwere mumsampha wakugwira ntchito mwakhama. Samalani kuti amuna sauzidwa - kugwira ntchito mwakhama, kani-wofuna, kulenga ndi kulandira. Kuchita masewera mmasewerawa sikofunika kwambiri, koma kumagwiritsidwa ntchito mwanzeru. Ndani nthawi zambiri amachita ntchito yonse imvi ndi yosayamika? Akazi. Amuna amathamanga kuchoka kwa iwo chifukwa chimodzi chophweka: sichikulitsa kutchuka ndipo salola kuti kuwala. Mwadzidzidzi Margaret Thatcher adanena kale: "Ngati mukufuna wina amene amalankhula, funani mwamuna, ndipo ngati mukufuna kuthetsa vuto - funsani mkazi bwino."
- Zisonyezo za Chikhalidwe
Tangoganizirani "BMW" yakuda "yakuda" yakuda, yomwe imakhala yotsekemera pamsewu. Ndani akukhala kumbuyo kwa gudumu lake? Mwamuna, ndithudi. Ndipo ndani akukwera pa "galafu", yomwe ili yabwino kuyendetsa ndi kuyima? Inde, mkazi. Kwa munthu, chizindikiro cha kutchuka ndi chofunika kwambiri - Rolex, Vertu kapena Mobiado wake amalembera uthenga womveka bwino kwa dziko lapansi: zabwino ndi zabwino. Mu ubale wapamwamba, iwo ali ndi mphamvu yokopa, choncho sankhani malingana ndi momwe alili.
- Palibe malingaliro
M'maseŵera amphamvu, pali nthawi zosasangalatsa kwambiri. Akazi panthawi imodzimodzi amagwera m'maganizo, omwe anthu amawawona ngati kuwonekera kwafooka. Ngati wina wakukhudzani, onetsetsani kuti mundidziwitse za izo, koma khalani ozizira. Ndiyeno, ngati mukufuna choncho, mukhoza kukweza khoma mu chipinda cha amayi kapena kutsanulira moyo wa mnzanu.
- Malo amodzi
Malo amakhalanso chizindikiro cha umoyo: ndipamenenso zilili, apamwamba kwambiri. Ndipo ziribe kanthu kuchuluka kwa malo omwe muli nawo, musalole aliyense kutenga izo - mwazikongoletsa ndi zitsulo zanu, kukhala patebulo lanu, ndi zina zotere. Lembani malire a malo anu enieni!
- Mwachidule
Akazi ndi ovuta kupereka ulamuliro ndi malamulo, amasankha chinenero chofewa: "Ndikuganiza ndibwino ngati ...", "Mwina tingathe ...", "Winawake ayenera ..." Mdziko lachimuna kalembedwe kameneka sikulondola! Choncho, nthawi zonse sankhani chilankhulo chofupika komanso chomveka bwino ndipo chitani mowonongeka, momveka bwino komanso momveka bwino. Palinso wovomerezeka wogwira mtima: posankha m'malo mwa funsolo ndi chizindikiro cha mawu ake. Mwachitsanzo, "Mwina mungakhale nayo nthawi mpaka mawa!"
- Kulephera
Zili ngati poker - musati mupereke zochitika zachangu kwa makadi a mdani wanu. Ndibwino kuti tiphunzire kusunga nkhope yamwala - mu chikhalidwe chachimuna ichi ndi chofunika kwambiri. Ndipo kumbukirani: malo athu ofooka ndi otchulidwa mozizwitsa a kumwetulira, ndipo palibe malo otulira kwambiri m'maseŵera amphamvu: mwinamwake iwo adzawonedwa ngati chizindikiro cha kutumizidwa kapena kuyitanidwa kuchitapo kanthu.
Zochitika zosadziwika
Amuna amagwiritsa ntchito mofunitsitsa kuti ayambe ubale ndi anthu abwino. Akazi samatengedwera ndi njira iyi, koma pachabe. Kukambirana kosavuta mu bar, sauna kapena ku court ya tenisi nthawi zina kumabweretsa zotsatira zambiri kuposa kukambirana kwanthaŵi yaitali.
Kulimbana kwathu
Zimakhulupirira kuti n'zosavuta kugwira ntchito ndi amuna - mwinamwake akumenyana mochuluka kwambiri, koma moona mtima, ndipo mikangano yonse yathetsedwa momasuka. Ndipo akazi amachita izo mwachinsinsi: zokopa zokhotakhota, miseche, kulavulira poizoni. Monga momwe kafukufuku amasonyezera, ndi amayi omwe ali othandizira kuti azigwirizanitsa. Ndipo omwe amazunzidwa, monga lamulo, amasankha akazi. Kwa chiwerewere chabwino ndi zachibadwa kuyesa kukondweretsa amuna, ndipo nthawi zambiri amadzipangitsa kudzidalira kwawo ndi kupambana kuno. Choncho, amakondana wina ndi mzake osati monga antchito, komanso akazi (komanso nthawi zambiri - makamaka akazi). Ngati ntchito yanu ndi yofunika kwambiri, ndi bwino kusiya mpikisano umenewu. Zokwanira kupereka mpikisano kwa mpikisano: "Ndiwe wokongola kwambiri pakati pathu." Ndipo ndizo zonse. Wopikisana mwamphamvu akhoza kukhala chisonkhezero chabwino cha kudzikonda. Ndipo ngati mumamuyamikira, ndipo mwinamwake ngakhale nsanje, muvomereze izo - zikhale kuyamika kuchokera pamtima. Ndipo zingakhale bwino kuti mmalo mokangana nudzapeza mnzanu wanzeru ndi thandizo lalikulu pa mphindi yofunika kwambiri kwa inu. Mgwirizano wa azimayi ndi mphamvu yayikulu, pambali pake, imakupatsani inu kuyang'ana zinthu muofesi ndi kuseketsa. Ndipo zambiri. Tinayankhula zokha za zipangizo. Chilichonse chimatsimikizira cholinga. Ndipo ngati muli ndi cholinga chotere - ndi nthawi yojambula milomo yanu ndikulowa molimba mtima m'makonzedwe amphamvu.