Akazi amakono ndi anthu amalonda komanso odziimira okha, koma poyanjana ndi amuna amakhala opanda mphamvu. Ngati ngakhale pakati pa awiriwa pali ndewu yosafunika kwenikweni, mkaziyo watayika, osapeza mawu olondola oyanjanitsa. Pamene akunena Kum'maŵa, mawu abwino angasangalatse ngakhale njoka yoipa kwambiri. Pofuna kulimbikitsa kapena kubwezeretsa ubale ndi munthu, nthawi zina ndi mawu ochepa okha okondweretsa komanso okonda. Kuonjezerapo, mkazi ayenera kudziwa kuti ndi liti, ndi liti komanso mawu ati.
Sankhani yemwe anganene mawu awa. Inde, mawu awa adzalankhulidwa kwa munthu wokondedwa. Tsopano tiyeni tifotokoze pamene akunena mawu abwino? Inde, nthawi zonse! Zatsala kuti mudziwe kuti ndi mawu otani kwa munthu? Ngakhale atatha nthawi yaitali, abwenzi nthawi zambiri amangodandaula kuti asiya kumvetsetsana komanso akulankhula zinenero zosiyanasiyana. Mawu awa akubwerezedwa mosalekeza.
Kodi mungalephere kubwereza mawu osokoneza bongo ndikuyesa kumvetsa chinenero cha wokondedwa wanu? Pezani njira yothetsera mtima wake? Izi zikhoza kuchitika m'mawu osavuta. Mwachitsanzo, nthawi zambiri amai amanena kwa mwamuna: "Khala pang'ono ndi ine." Mwa njira, akatswiri a maganizo amaganiza kuti mawu oterewa amatchulidwa ndi anthu. Mwamuna amamva bwino kwambiri akamapita kulikonse ndi mkazi wake wokondedwa.
M'banjamo kuyambira pachiyambi, nkofunika kupanga lamulo kuti abwenzi azichita zonse palimodzi. Komabe, mosiyana ndi mkazi, mwamuna amafunika nthawi ndi nthawi kukakamiza mawu. Tiyenera kumutamanda ndikuthokoza chifukwa cha thandizo lake. Pali nthawi yomwe mwamuna angafunikire thandizo la amayi omwe ali ndi vuto lapadera, mwachitsanzo, malangizo, mphatso yogula bwana. Zikatero, simungamukane. Musakane munthu, ndi bwino kugwiritsa ntchito izi kuti muthandize.
Musakwiyire mawu otamanda ndi kuyamikira. Mwamuna wanu adzatha kuyamikira thandizo lanu tsiku lina. Kawirikawiri mkazi amadziwa kupambana kwake, ngakhale kakang'ono kwambiri. Ngati akadatha kuzindikira bwino izi ndi mawu, tikhoza kuganiza kuti ali pamapazi ake. Wodzazidwa ndi mawu omveka: "mkazi amakonda makutu, ndipo maso a munthuyo" sali olondola. Mawu okoma ngati kumva anthu, nawonso. Kotero musati muziyamika, ngakhale simungathe kupita patali kwambiri. Kudziyesa bwino kulikonse.
Mawu ndi chida chimene aliyense angagwiritse ntchito. Komabe, si aliyense amene angagwiritse ntchito chida ichi. Komanso, mawu akhoza kuchititsa munthu "kuwuluka", koma m'mawu akhoza "kuphedwa."
Sikoyenera kutchula mawu awa, akhoza kulembedwa pa positi kapena kutumizidwa ndi imelo. Mwamuna adzasangalala kulandira uthenga woterewu pamene ali mu ofesi.
Kodi ndi mawu otani omwe anthu amakonda kumva? Kodi pali mndandanda wa mawu oterowo? Ayi ndithu? !! !! Koma sikoyenera kuitana munthu ngakhale kutchula maina a bastial: "Bunny", "bear" ndi zina zotero. Ndibwino kuti muwabwezere m'malo mwawo: "wokondedwa", "wokoma," "wokondedwa," ndi zina zotero. N'zovuta kunena mawu omwe munthu amamva kumva amuna muzochitika zina. Izi zikhoza kutsimikiziridwa ndi mayesero ndi zolakwika. Mayi amayenera kukonza luso lake. Ayenera kukhala wowolowa manja ndi kutsegula mtima wa munthu ndi mawu okoma.
Mawu achikondi ndi mayamiko akulimbikitsidwa kuti apite ndi kukhudzana. Pamene kukhudzana kumanenedwa, kugonana sikumamvetsetsa nthawi zonse. Mukhoza kuyenda mumsewu kapena kugula, mutagwira manja. Onetsetsani TV pa bedi, kukumbatirana, komanso pa kadzutsa kuti mugwire pamutu wa mwamuna wanu ndi kuwonjezera mawu akuti: "Ndibwino, wokondedwa". Pambuyo pa kadzutsa chotero, mutsimikiziranso kupsompsonana kwa mwamuna. Momwe mungadziwire, mwinamwake, ubale wotere komanso osakwatirana kwa nthawi yaitali. Pokhala pachibwenzi, maphwando ayenera kumvetsera. Ndikoyenera kumvetsera mwatchutchutchu zakuya kapena kuseka kwa theka lake lachiwiri. Ndikofunika kumvetsera munthu wokondedwa wanu ndi kumvetsera zomwe akufuna ". Chomwe chimamukondweretsa iye kwambiri: mawu okondweretsa, mphatso, kuyenda kofanana, ndi zina zotero?
Mwachibadwa, okonda amagonana. Kodi mwamuna akufuna kumva chiyani pa nthawi yogonana? Sayansi yasonyeza kuti ubongo wazimayi wapangidwa kotero kuti ukhoza kuchita zinthu zingapo nthawi yomweyo. Pano amuna, kugonana, amatha kuganizira pa phunziro limodzi. Choncho, nthawi zambiri pa nthawi yogonana, amuna amakhala chete. Komabe, izi sizikutanthauza kuti sangamve panthawi yogonana. Mwachilengedwe, kugonana mwamphamvu ndi msaki. Ndicho chifukwa chake amakonda pamene nthawi yogonana mkazi wake amasangalala kwambiri. Mkhalidwe wotero mkaziyo adzawonetsa bwino osati zochita zokha, komanso mawu. Msungwanayo am'dziwitse munthuyo ndi mawu, pa nthawi yotani yokhutira iyeyo. Mawu pa nthawi yogonana amathandizira kuwonjezereka kwa amuna.
Mawu sayenera kungowonjezera kugonana kwa mwamuna, koma akhoza kuthandiza mtsikana kukonzekera wokondedwa yekha. Choncho, okondedwa pa nthawi yogonana ayenera kuyankhula zokhumba zawo zonse. Simungathe kulamulira mawu nthawi yogonana. Wina amakonda kumvetsera mawu apamtima pa nthawi ino, wina - wachifundo, wina - wopambana, ndipo wina amalephera. Koma nthawi zambiri amuna amakhala okondwa pamene, pa nthawi yogonana, amamva momwe wokondedwa wake alili wabwino. Kuthokozedwa, komwe mtsikanayo amamuuza mosalankhula m'makutu, kumamupatsa chisangalalo kuposa kugonana. Kotero mawu awa akhoza kukhala ophweka kwambiri ndi oletsedwa, mwachitsanzo, kunena kuti iye ndi mulungu ali pabedi kapena wapadera.
Mawu opupuluma amayenera kutsatiridwa ndi kuyang'ana kosaoneka ndi kayendedwe kabwino ka manja ndi thupi. Muzogonana, ntchito yofunikira ikusewera ndi kumasulidwa kwa maphwando ndi mawu a maganizo.
Kumbukirani, ngati munthu sakuvutika ndi zochita komanso chikondi, koma ndi mawu okondweretsa, ndiye kuti funso lachiwerewere sichidzakhalanso. Mayi adzafunika kuphunzira kuti azisankha ndendende mawu omwe mwamuna akufuna kuti amve kuchokera kwa iye.