Ndipo ndimakonda wokwatira
Tili okonzedwa kwambiri: chirichonse chomwe chiri choletsedwa ndi chosatheka, chimatipangitsa ife chidwi chochuluka kuposa chomwe chiripo ndi chololedwa. Timakopeka kuti tilowe mu chingwe osati mwachindunji chabe, komanso mophiphiritsira. Kuwerenga makina achikasu, kupukuta zovala zamasewero, mwachinthu china chofanana ndi kuwerenga chibwenzi cha amesesimo - mwinamwake ndikuchititsa manyazi kuwerenga zonsezo, koma pambuyo pake, mantha ndi osangalatsa! Ndipo osacheperapo ndi Mel Gibson, mwamuna wokonda Olya - Vasily. Akulankhula za iye mochuluka! Iye sali ngati Nikolai wanu wosangalatsa! Ndi kangati mwatsindika kuti muli ndi njala zokhudzana ndi zochitika zatsopano, ndipo iye akubwezerani inu ndi malonjezano kuti muchite chinachake chokondweretsa kusiyana ndi kuwonetserako za Dr. House. Chinthu china Vasya ... Amapereka mphatso kwa mkazi wake, zodabwitsa, zabwino zogonana (mwa izi munatsimikiziridwa pa maziko a nkhani zambiri), ndipo nthawi zambiri amavala izo mmanja mwanu! "Bwanji ngati? Ayi, ndizochulukirapo," - mukuganiza, koma mumamwetulira mobisa, ndikumwetulira, mukudziganizira nokha pafupi ndi Basil wosamvetsetseka ...
Tiyeni tiyang'ane pa mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya mau okhudza mantha a chikondi kwa mwamuna wokwatiwa. Timakonda kukondweretsa munthu wina chifukwa cha kusowa chidwi payekha. Chikondi choterechi chimatha msanga, mwamsanga pamene mawonekedwe atsopano akuwonekera, chifukwa chidwi chanu chofuna "I" chiyenera kukhala chopitilizidwa ndi mphamvu ya kuyamikira. Kuonjezera apo, kawirikawiri ndi ochepa chabe amayesa kutenga choyamba chotsutsana ndi zoletsedwa. Omwe ali olimba mtima, monga lamulo, amaletsedwa nthawi yomweyo anthu awiri apamtima - bwenzi lamtima weniweni ndi chibwenzi.
Pali akazi omwe, pamodzi ndi chikondi, amazoloŵera kukhala ndi mlandu, manyazi, kupsa mtima, mkwiyo, kukhumudwa. Amasankha mosasamala amuna omwe "saloledwa" kapena "zovuta" kukonda, motero amadzizunza okha. Mkazi woteroyo ngakhale kulingalira za "chipatso choletsedwa" ndikwanira kuti apeze chidziwitso chokhumudwitsa ndi kupeza zosangalatsa zapadera. Ndifunikanso kuganizira zomwe zimachitika podziteteza. Chinyengo chakuti ndi otetezeka ndi achibale, pafupi, amuna ozoloŵera kale, amalimbikitsa ubwenzi wawo.
Ndipo ndithudi, ali ndi ufulu wowonjezera anthu ndi chikondi. Ndi mphamvu zochuluka bwanji zomwe zimafunikira kuti mukope, mutenge, ndikugwiritseni chikondi! Ndipo apa: tenga - sindikufuna! Komabe, izi zili ndi mbali ina ya ndalama. Ubale ndi amuna oletsedwa umakopeka ndi mwayi wowonjezera "kuyendetsa bizinesi. Ngati mwadzidzidzi mukuchita mantha ndi kutsekula kwa mtima ndipo musakhale olimba mtima kuti mumange maubwenzi panokha, mutha kuthawa, kumudziwa izi kwa munthu komanso pamwamba payekha, zomwe zilipo kale.
Nayi njira imodzi yolankhulira mwanzeru za mantha a chikondi. Sungani chinthu china. Zingakhale ngati mnzako wabwino kapena mnzanu kuntchito, ndi anzanu akale omwe simunawaonepo kwa nthawi yaitali. Yesetsani kuchepetsa chiyanjano ndi chinthu cha chikondi choletsedwa kukhala osachepera. Munthu wanzeru mwiniyo amvetsetsa zonse, ndipo sangakukhumudwitseni, kupatsa chidwi kwambiri.
Yankhani funso: chifukwa chiyani mukusowa izi? Zonsezi: mantha ndi kudzimvera zimatipangitsa ife kuyesera - chifukwa cha zosangalatsa kapena maganizo atsopano. Koma malingalirowa ndi afupikitsa, koma inu muyenera kukolola mphotho zawo kwa nthawi yaitali: kusintha (ndi kusintha) kwaubwenzi ndi chiyanjano, kumverera kawirikawiri kopanda pake ndi kusamvetsetsa - kumanenedwa modekha!
Yang'anani mozama
Ganizirani momveka bwino nkhaniyi ndi chikondi. Mukuganiza kuti ndi wangwiro? Zingatheke kuti kuseri kwa kukongola kwa kunja ndi chifundo kwa inu kuli mulu wa mavuto osabvuta a banja. Kodi mukufuna kukhala malo a munthu? Ndipo makamaka mvetserani mfundo yakuti nthawi zambiri timangoganizira zovuta za chikondi. Dzimvetse wekha!