Ana amtsogolo mwanjira ina yodabwitsa kwambiri amathandiza kusintha kwambiri moyo wa makolo awo. Ngati mumvetsetsa zizindikirozo, mutsimikiza kuti mumayendera kangati zomwe mukufuna kuchita pamoyo wanu, ndizosintha zotani zomwe mungakonde pa ntchito, zachilengedwe, ndi maubwenzi anu, zomwe mukuziwona nokha m'tsogolomu.
N'zoona kuti amayi ena aang'ono ndi omwe ali pafupi kwambiri ndi ntchito yabwino, ntchito yabwino, ntchito yabwino, banja lolimba. Koma palinso zitsanzo zambiri zotsutsana pamene amayi akukakamizika kuchita bizinesi yosakondedwa kuti azisamalira banja, kupirira maubwenzi omwe samamukhutitsa, ndi zina zotero. Kusintha kwakukulu komwe kumabweretsa mimba ndi kubweranso kwa munthu watsopano, ambiri amapereka mphamvu kuti ayang'ane moona mtima nthawi yomwe ilipo ndikuyesera kujambula "chithunzi chabwino" cha moyo, chomwe chingakhale chofunika kukhalamo. Mwanayo amalola kuti amvetsetse kuti moyo ndi wokongola, maonekedwewo adzasintha zonse kuzungulira. Mfundo imeneyi imathandiza amayi amtsogolo kuti adziwe khalidwe la moyo, kukhala odekha ndi oyenera.Pachifukwa ichi zimadalira thanzi la mwana wamtsogolo.Kid ndi njira yayitali mu moyo wokondweretsa wa mayi.
Zakachitika kuti pokambirana ndi amayi ambiri (amayi aang'ono) omwe anasintha miyoyo yawo, ndi pamene ali ndi pakati kapena pobereka mwana. Zoonadi, izi zimafuna kulimbitsa mtima, chifukwa nthawi zonse zimakhala zosasintha kusintha komwe kulipo, makamaka ngati kuli kotetezeka. Koma zotsatira zake ndi zoyenera, monga zitsanzo zikusonyezera.
Amayi ambiri omwe ali ndi amayi oyembekezera amatha kupezeka pakati pa alangizi othandiza kuyamwitsa. Ndipotu pa ntchitoyi, chofunika kwambiri sizomwe zimapindulitsa kwambiri pakusamwitsa ana angapo (ndithudi ziyenera kuthandizidwa ndi maphunziro ovomerezeka omwe ali ovuta kwambiri alangizi). Pakati pa alangizi anga ndikudziwa, pali wolemba nkhani wakale, woimbira, ndi wolemba. Ambiri amagwirizanitsa mafunsowo othandiza ndi zolemba pa mutu uwu, zomwe zimabweretsa kumoyo wawo ndi zinthu zowonjezera. Chidwi pa kulera ndi ubwana kumalimbikitsa akazi kukonzekera zochitika zoterezi.
Nthawi ndi yachiwiri kwa inu awiri.
Si chinsinsi chakuti kwa amayi ambiri aang'ono mawonekedwe a mwana amayamba kuyesa mphamvu. Ndipo osati chifukwa cha zoyembekeza zosayenera, kuchokera ku ziyembekezo zosakwaniritsidwe. Musamayembekezere nkhani yofunikira ngati imeneyi. Miyezi isanu ndi iwiri yolindira ikuperekedwa, kuphatikizapo kukonzekeretsa banja lanu laling'ono kwa nthawiyo, kuoneka kwa membala watsopano yemwe angasinthe kwambiri, ngati si onse, mwa njira yamba.
Tsopano muli ndi nthawi yokwanira yolongosola malingaliro anu pa moyo wa banja monga momwe mungathere, kuika patsogolo, kumuuza za zolakalaka zanu ndi zosowa zanu (amuna si ma telepaths, musayembekezere kuti ali ndi kumvetsa zamatsenga pa zonse zomwe zikukuchitikirani), yesani kumvetsa malingaliro ake ndi ziyembekezo zake. Mukamaphunzira zambiri zokhudza wina ndi mzake tsopano, zochepa zomwe zimayambitsa mavuto "osayembekezereka" omwe, nthawi zambiri, amapezeka m'mabanja ambiri ndi kubadwa kwa mwana. Ndipo yesetsani kukonza tchuthi zonse - mphatso yanu yachikondi kwa mwamuna wanu. wodzazidwa ndi chikondi ndi kuyembekezera, zidzakupatsani mphamvu mtsogolo, nthawi pamene moyo udzawoneka wovuta kwambiri, wosasangalatsa, ndi mavuto ambiri atsopano.