Kwa iwo, mndandanda mufunsoli "chikhalidwe cha banja - wosakwatira" ndi chinthu chofunikira kwambiri, chizindikiro chawo chosiyanitsa. Kodi sangathe bwanji kutaya kusiyana kumeneku m'moyo - n'kovuta kunena. Iwo okha safuna kulengeza njira zawo, ndipo si zophweka kutsegula chophimba cha zinsinsi zawo. Mwinamwake ndichifukwa chake moyo wa mabakiteriya uli pafupi ndi nthano zambiri komanso nthano zambiri. Otsatira kwambiri komanso omwe nthawi zambiri timakumana nawo timayesa kukonza.
Nthano 1. Munthu wamtendere ndi munthu wosakwatiwa.
Ndi cholakwika chachikulu choyamba ndi chachikulu, munthu sangathe kuvomereza nkomwe. Ngati munthu akadali (kapena kale) satakwatiwa, izi sizikutanthauza kuti ndi wodwalayo. Kuti mulembetse kumudzi wa asukulu okhulupirira mukufunikira pang'ono kuposa sitimayo yosowa mu pasipoti yanu. "Wosayera" chikwati sichikhalidwe, koma moyo. Bwalo la anthu oterowo ndi locheperapo ndipo onse ali kutali kwambiri ndi banja. Chofunika kwambiri cha bachelor yeniyeni ndi nkhawa yapadera yotsutsana ndi zofuna zake, zizoloŵezi zake, zopangira zokondweretsa. Ndipo amaona kuti kukwatira kumakhala koopsa kwambiri ku mgwirizano wawo. Ichi ndi chifukwa chake mabakiteriya enieni amadziwa bwino ngakhale ngakhale pang'ono za ukwati.
Chodabwitsa kwambiri, koma izi ndizo zimakopa mafilimu kwa iwo. Munthu wamba amakhala nthawi zonse gulu la anthu onyenga m'manja ndi pamtima. Izi zikugwirizana kwambiri ndi mpikisano - ndani angakhoze "kumangokhalira" munthu wosasunthika yemwe alibe ufulu?
Bodza 2. Bwino ndi nthawi yochepa.
Inde, palinso peresenti inayake ya "abambo" omwe ali "aang'ono", amayi aang'ono a amayi awo, osakhoza kuchita zinthu. Koma adakali ang'onoting'ono, ndipo ambiri mwa amuna osakwatira ali bwino, amadzikonda okha. Kwenikweni, ndiko kudzikhutira kumeneku kumene iwo amateteza mwakhama, molondola ndi chitetezo chawo ndipo sakufuna kugawanitsa.
Zimakhala zowawa kuvomereza, koma ndi pamene munthu alowa muukwati kuti nthawi zambiri munthu amalephera kulandira ungwiro. Ndi moyo wa banja umene umadyetsa zofuna zawo zoyambirira. Kufanana kwa okwatirana ndi chithunzithunzi chosangalatsa, koma kwenikweni nthawi zonse munthu ayenera kupereka nsembe zawo, komanso mwinamwake nthawi zonse. Kotero bachelor - cholengedwa sichikwanira mokwanira, ndipo, mwinamwake, mochuluka kwambiri mozungulira. Ali ndi mwayi wonse wodzikuza, ndipo palibe chopinga pa izi, kupatula, mwinamwake, ulesi wake.
Bodza 3. Aphunzitsi amada komanso amaopa akazi.
Sitikukayikira kuti akazi omwe, omwe sankatha "kulira" chitsimikizo chokhazikika, anabwera ndi izi. Izi ndizopadera zawo - sizinali zoonekeratu kuti zisonyezero zofuna kuzungulira ofesi yolembera. Otsata oterewa sadziwa kanthu ndipo amawasokoneza mwa njira khumi. Ndipotu nthawi zambiri sakhala ndi vuto polankhula ndi anyamata kapena akazi okhaokha. Kuwonjezera apo, ndi bachelor amene amatha kuzindikira mwa mkazi, osati mlingo wokhala ndi thanzi laukwati, koma umunthu. Maphunziro apamwamba ndi okondedwa, okondana, othandizira amayi mu moyo. Pa nthawi yomweyi, iwo samakoka aliyense ku khitchini, samagwira malaya awo osatetezedwa ndipo samayesa udindo wa amayi kwa ana awo amtsogolo.
Pali, ndithudi, pakati pawo ndi osokonezeka, koma osati kuposa ena. Izi ndizo khalidwe lachikhalidwe, osati chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe.
Nthano 4. Wophunzira sangathe kupeza ntchito yabwino.
Nthano iyi ili kale yokongola kwambiri, komabe ili moyo. Ngakhale masiku ano mawu oterewa okhudzana ndi mabakiteriya akhoza kugawa kokha ndi ogwira ntchito ogwira ntchito a dipatimenti ya anthu kuchokera ku boma. Maganizo a anthu amasiku ano kwa anthu adasintha kwambiri. Olemba ntchito omwe atangotsala pang'ono kugwiritsira ntchito "zhenatikov" masiku ano amakonda kukonda bakha. Iye nthawi zonse amakhala mfulu, mafoni, akhoza kukhala nthawi iliyonse yowonjezera nthawi, osachedweka kuchoka paulendo wa bizinesi. Malingana ndi chiwerengero, maudindo apamwamba tsopano akukhala ndi amuna osakwatiwa.
Nthano 5. Ophunzira ali m'mabvuto a pakhomo.
Wodwala wodwala wodwala, wosasewera ndi zovala zonyansa amene amati "banja liri losakwatira" pamphumi pake, tsopano mukutha kuona filimu yowakomera kokha. Bwino yamakono yamakono imasunga mawonekedwe abwino - ichi ndi fano lake. Zokonzeka bwino zipangizo zapanyumba zimatha kupirira zochitika zake za tsiku ndi tsiku. Bachelor amakondwera kuti angathe kuthana ndi mavuto a m'banja. Panthawi yovutayi, ntchito ya tsiku ndi tsiku kapena mmodzi wa othandizira odzipereka omwe amapezeka nthawi zonse mumndandanda wake wachangu nthawi zonse amathandiza.
Bodza 6. Wachilombo alibe kugonana kokwanira.
Lingaliro lopenga limeneli, lomwe limatchulidwa ndi amuna okwatira. Iwo, mwinamwake, amangochita nsanje basi. Kuwongolera kwawo kwakukulu - "Bachelor sangakhoze kupanga chikondi pamene iye akufuna basi, ndipo mkazi nthawizonse ali pafupi." Ndipotu, zonse zimakhala zosiyana kwambiri - mwamuna wokwatiwa nthawi zambiri amadikirira nthawi yomwe anawo amachoka kwa agogo awo kapena pamene mkazi wake amatha masiku ovuta. Munthu wodalirika pazochitika zotere nthawi zonse amakhala ndi njira yosungira (osati imodzi).
Ndipo pali chinthu chimodzi chowonjezera. Mwamuna wokwatira nthawi zambiri amakakamizika kukonda chikondi pamene sakufuna. Bachelor sasowa kudzikakamiza yekha chifukwa choopa kunyalanyazidwa ndi "wopanda mphamvu" kapena "wosadziletsa".
Nthano 7. Mabakiteriya amakhala osachepera.
Pali chiwerengero cholakwika. Zoona zake n'zakuti, achinyamata omwe asanakhale ndi nthawi yokwatira nthawi zambiri amawoneka ngati odwala, omwe amachepetsa chiwerengero cha zaka zambiri. Ndipo ochita kafukufuku ena amatchula mabakiteriya ndi kusudzulana. Izi zimasokoneza kwambiri chiwerengero.
Zikuwoneka kuti palibe mtsutso wokhazikika wokhudzana ndi kugwirizana kwa "chikhalidwe chokhazikika". Komabe, pafupifupi kangapo pachaka, pamene abwenzi onse okwatirana akusangalala ndi maholide apabanja kumbuyo kwa beseni la Olivier, banjali limakhala lowawa. Ndi pamene amalingalira mobisa za mnzanuyo. Ndipo panthawi imeneyo bachelor ndi omwe ali pachiopsezo kwambiri.