Mwamwayi, nthawi zina kugonana kwazimayi kumasonyeza kuti palibe chidziwitso chopanda malire, ndipo nthawi zina, ngakhale kupusa. Koma ndife akazi a izo. Ndipo amuna amati iwo akufuna kuti awone dona wanzeru, wanzeru pafupi nawo. Ndipo ndani adanena kuti anthu anzeru sangathe kukhala osaphunzira ndipo nthawi zina amanyenga nthawi yomweyo? Komabe, tiyeni tiyesetse kumvetsetsa malingaliro awo ndikupeza kuti ndi zolakwika zazikulu ziti zomwe atsikana amalankhulana ndi maubwenzi ndi anyamata - pambuyo pa chidziwitso chonsechi chidzatithandiza kuti tizitha kuyankhulana ndikupewa kusamvetsetsana kokhumudwitsa.
"Ngati ndamuitana, sizitanthauza chilichonse!"
Awa ndi mawu omwe anyamata amauza abwenzi anu mutayamba kuchita ngati kuti muli kale chibwenzi. Okondedwa asungwana, anyamata ndizilombo zotere zomwe angathe kutchula mabwenzi awo aakazi kuti alankhulane, ngakhale kuwathandiza ndi mayamiko, koma sizikutanthauza kuti iwo akufuna kukhala ndi inu palimodzi. Kotero, iwo amadzikweza kudzilemekeza kwawo, chabwino, kapena kwenikweni, mnyamata, wokondana kwambiri. Kotero simukusowetsa foni yake, makamaka kunyumba, chifukwa chakuti amayi ndi alongo ake akhoza kutenga foni ndi wofunsayo kuti "ndi mtsikana wanji wotchedwa iwe", "ali ndi zaka zingati", ndi zina zotero? Ndipo anyamata a awa o, monga iwo sakonda.
Khalani kaye pang'ono, ngati posachedwa ayamba kukuitanani nthawi zambiri, kapena ngakhale kuitana tsiku, ndiye mutha kuyankha kale SMS, koma ndibwino kuti musadalire pa nkhaniyi. Mukhoza kutaya mtima ndikuyamba kumudetsa nkhawa.
Maonekedwe owala ngati si anthu onse.
Atsikana ambiri amasonyeza kuti anthu amatha kukonda marathon. Amafuna kukhala okongola, okondweretsa komanso osangalatsa. Ndi zabwino ngati mkazi akufuna kukonda mwamuna wake. Makamaka ngati munthu amamuuza kuti ikuwoneka mwachigololo, mwachitsanzo, kupanga "diso loputa" kapena china chake. Ziri bwino, talingalirani izi ndikugwiritsira ntchito zida zoterezi. Koma, ngati wokondedwa akunena kuti sakufuna kupsyopsyona bokosi la ufa, ndipo amakonda kukonda, musaganize kuti akunama ndipo amangomvera chisoni ndalama zanu. Ngati iye anena choncho, ndiye. Ife tikuyang'ana kale chinyengo chamanyazi, ndipo nthawi zambiri amalankhula momasuka, momwe amaganizira.
Ngati mukufuna kutuluka pakati pa gululo, dzipangire nokha masoka achilengedwe, osati maskiki a Papuan. Maonekedwe owongoka a pastel adzakupatsani chiwongoladzanja komanso kuyitana achinyamata. Ndipo iyi ndiyo njira yabwino kwambiri yokopa chidwi cha mnyamata wanu. Khalani achibadwa.
Amuna samakonda miseche ndi chidwi.
Nthawi zina, atsikana amakambirana ndi anthu ena pakali pano. Ziribe kanthu ngati zimatsegula, kapena kuyesa kunong'onezana. Pambuyo pake, chikawonekabe, ndipo munthu wodzilemekeza sangalekerere izi. Inde, tonsefe tiri opanda cholakwika. Oimira abambowo, nthawi zina amatha kukambirana wina, koma izi zimachitika mwakachetechete, osadziyesa okha. Kotero musati muwonetse ulemu wanu phindu la zofooka za ena, chifukwa inu muli nawo iwo.
PMS si chifukwa chokhalira pa wokondedwa.
Akazi okondedwa, kumbukirani kuti amuna athu okondedwa sakudziwa momwe PMS angakuchititsireni mantha, ngakhale, maganizo! Inde, inde. Iwo sadzamvetsa konse izi, kuti azidandaula kwambiri. Ndipo, ngati tidzilola kuti tiwafuule, ndiyeno "kutaya" zonsezi pamatenda opatsirana ndi PMS, ndiye akukhulupirira kuti izi ndizo "zifukwa zathu". O, ndizomvetsa chisoni bwanji kuti simungasinthane malo ndi maulendo angapo!
Foni yam'manja ndi katundu wanga.
Anthu okwana theka la dziko lapansi akukwiyitsidwa ndi atsikana awo akuyang'ana mafoni awo. Awa ndiwo malo awo, dziko lawo. Musamulepheretse iye, mumupatse ufulu, izi ndi zofunika kwambiri kwa amuna. Ndibwino kuti muziwakhulupirira basi ndipo zonse zidzakhala bwino. Pambuyo pake, ngati akufuna kukusintha, adzachichita mosasamala kanthu kuti mwakwera foni yake kapena ayi.
Kukambirana pa nkhani zazikulu ndi koopsa.
Pa nthawi yoyamba yolumikizana ndiletsedwa kulankhula za banja ndi ana. Amuna onse ali achangu kwambiri pa ufulu wawo. Ndipo kulankhula kotereku ndi denga lomwe iwo akugwetsedwa. Pamaso pawo, nthawi yomweyo amawoneka chithunzi chomwe iye ngati bulu waufulu amathawa kuchoka mu ukapolo wa ufulu. Makamaka ngati mnyamata akadali wamng'ono kwambiri. Ngakhale izi zikhoza kuopseza mwamuna ndi zaka makumi atatu kapena kuposerapo.
Nsanje ndi wakupha ubale.
Mtsikana wansanje amayamba kuwadodometsa, ndiyeno - mkwiyo. Ndipo, ngati ndi nsanje yopanda pake, ndiye kuti ubale wanu sukhalitsa. Apa ndikofunikira kusankha, kapena nsanje kapena kumanga maubwenzi.
Anzanu ndi opatulika.
Pano inu mumayamba kukumana, akukulankhulani kwa abwenzi ake, ndipo sakukukondani. Mmodzi - wamwano, wachiwiri - amatemberera kudzera m'mawu onse, chabwino, ndi zina zotero. Kungakhale kulakwitsa kwakukulu ngati mutayamba kuwasokoneza, chifukwa ndi abwenzi anu. Bwino pang'onopang'ono, pang'onopang'ono muzilowa nawo, kapena kudziwana ndi anthu atsopano ndikudzipanga nokha, kampani yamba. Koma, chifukwa cha ichi muyenera kukhala oleza mtima ndi opirira.
Pano ife tabweretsa zolakwika zazikulu zomwe atsikana akuyankhulana ndi maubwenzi ndi anyamata. Dziwani za iwo ndipo khalani okondwa!