Kodi ndinganene chiyani pano zomwe zingapangitse moyo ndi ubale ndi mwamuna zisa zake, motero, kumuchotsa wa imvi ndi zosangalatsa, msungwana yekha angathe. Popanda zizolowezi zonse za amayi, ife (ndi anyamata) sitingathe kuchita. Mmene mungakhalire ndi mnyamata: zizoloŵezi za amayi ndi zodziwika za kunyengerera, ndizofunika kwambiri kwa msungwana aliyense.
Chilakolako chokopa ndi kumanga maso m'magazi a mkazi aliyense. Ndiponsotu, palibe amene amaphunzitsa kamtsikana kakang'ono, kamwana, kusintha maso ake pakuwona munthu wosadziwika kapena maola kuti apite pagalasi. Mwa aliyense wa ife timati chibadwa cha wonyenga wonyenga. Choncho, kuti mudziwe bwino momwe mungakhalire ndi mnyamata, choyamba, dziwani nokha kuti ngati simukumva okongola (poyamba pa zonse) ndipo musati muwonetsere ku dziko lonse lapansi, simudzafuna kutero. Kudzidalira ndilo khutu lanu lamakono muzochita za akazi. Simudzakhala iye, monga momwe zilili zofunika kuti mukhale nawo, ndiye kuti sikungakhale kwanzeru kuganiza za mtundu wina wa "frills". Zosavuta, zosasamala, zokoma, ndicho chimene munthu aliyense akufuna kutiwona. Kotero, iwe umangokhala momwemo, pansi pa zonse.
Ndipo kotero, momwe mungakhalire ndi mnyamata: zizolowezi za amai zomwe zidzakuuzani komwe mungalankhule, zomwe mungachite ndi zomwe simukuchita. Mawu akuti: "kukomana pa zovala - kuperekedwera ndi malingaliro", osati wosakhalitsa ku funso ili. Kumbukirani, mwa mkazi chirichonse chiyenera kukhala chabwino. Kuwonekera ndi chivundikiro cha dziko lanu lamkati limene mumalongosola mkati mwanu. Muyenera kukhala osasunthika nthawi iliyonse ndi nthawi iliyonse ya tsiku. Mnyamata ayenera kukhala ndi lingaliro loyamba pa zomwe mungachite ndipo mukhoza kudziyang'anira nokha. Ndipo kusankha kwanu, tsitsi lanu, manicure ndi zovala, ndi zotsatira za zovuta kwambiri komanso maola ochuluka a "ntchito nokha." Ndipo choyamba, kuwerengedwa pa kukongola kwanu kodabwitsa, kuti mukhale wokondedwa wanu. Ndipo ichi ndiphatikizaponso - kusonyeza munthuyo kufunika kwake. Ndipo komabe mukudziwa momwe mungagwirizane ndi kukoma kwa chirichonse, ndiko kuti, tsitsi lanu, nthawizonse liyenera kufanana ndi kupanga-ndipo chotero zovala zomwe mumasankha panthawiyi. Ndikugwiritsabe izi, nthawizonse mumakhala pamwamba, chinthu chachikulu ndikuthandizani nthawizonse kuyang'ana, achikazi komanso achikondi.
Dziko lamkati ndilo zomwe akufuna kukuwona pansi pa zovala zanu, zomwe mulidi komanso zomwe simudzasintha kapena kusintha ndi chithandizo chilichonse. Ndiwe mkazi yemwe nthawi zonse amafunikira kumbali ya munthu wamphamvu ndi kumuthandiza nthawi zonse kuchokera kumbali yake. Gwiritsani ntchito izi (ndithudi, mwa kulingalira). Musakhale wamanyazi kuti musonyeze kutaya kwanu. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa masewero akuluakulu a kuyankhulana kwa amayi ndi chikhalidwe cholimba. Mphamvu yanu ili mufooka yanu ndipo osati. Mwa njira iyi mungathe kumusonyeza munthu amene mumamufuna komanso kusamalira mwana wake (ngakhale kuti si choncho). Mwamuna amamukonda pamene mkazi ali wofooka komanso wopanda chitetezo. Chifukwa chokhacho, akhoza kusonyeza mphamvu ndi chifuniro chake, kukutetezani ku mavuto ndi mavuto. Kumbukirani, kwa mtsikana wofooka, nthawizonse mumakhala munthu wamphamvu. Ndipo mwa kuyamikira kwa iye, kuti athandizidwe ndi munthu wamphamvu, asonyeze malingaliro anu mwanjira iliyonse, musazengereze kuyankhula za iwo. Musakhale otanthauza kuyamikira. Kutseguka mu ubale, pa mbali yanu, muyenera kutenga malo amodzi oyambirira, potero kuyesayesa, kuti muchite chimodzimodzi mofanana ndi inu. Musaope konse kum'taya. Apo ayi, mantha anu adzakula ndikukhala ovuta kwambiri, omwe, posachedwa kapena pang'ono, adzayamba kuwononga ubale wanu. Mnyamata akungoyamba kukuchititsani inu mantha.
Kusangalala kwanu, kuwonetserako masewera olimbitsa thupi - izi ndizo zoumba zanu zonse. Dziwani, pa mtsikana aliyense kuona ndi kumwetulira kumawoneka mosiyana. Sewerani naye pamasewero a mawu - izi zidzakupatsani chiyanjano chanu kukhala chidziwitso ndi kukwaniritsa maganizo. Makhalidwe achikazi awa ndi ofunika osati tsiku loyamba. Ayenera kukhala anzanu osatha a ubale wanu, kutenga udindo wamuyaya. Pakuti ichi ndi psychology yathu, ndi champhamvu kwambiri kuti tigwirizane nazo, pafupifupi tsiku lirilonse. Kumumbutseni kuti ndiwe yekha, anthu onse ali mu malo awo ozama, bwanji osamukakamiza, kulimbikitsa chithunzi chopanda pake.
Kulankhulana kwanu ndi mnyamatayo nthawi zonse kumaphatikizidwa ndi kumvetsetsa. Mukhoza kumvetsera, kulangiza, kunyengerera. Ngakhale aang'ono - koma mnyamatayo adzasangalala kwambiri kuti mumupatsa, maganizo ake achimuna ndi kumvetsera malangizo omwe akukupatsani. Ndikofunika kuti amvetsetse kuti ndi inu angathe kuyankhula pa mutu uliwonse popanda zoletsedwa. Imeneyi ndi njira yanu yayikulu yomwe mumagwirizana. Mukhoza kusintha maganizo ake ndikugwiritsa ntchito mwanzeru nokha, ngati ndizofunika izi kapena izi. Mukafuna kukhumudwa kapena kuseka, kumwetulira kapena kulira, tiuzeni za vutoli kapena khalani chete. Mmodzi mwa zizoloŵezi za akazi ndi: "Ndiwe mkazi - ndiye ndiwe wojambula masewero, amatha kusewera, kusintha masks ndikuchita kotero kuti munthu akhale wokonda kuyamikira nthawi zonse ndikupatsani maluwa ndi kuima kwa inu nokha."
Ndipo potsiriza, kumbukirani nthawi zonse kuti ndinu mkazi, ndipo akazi onse ali ndi miyendo yawo. Anyamata samakonda atsikana omwe amakonda buku lotseguka. Khalani osungunula pepala lanu lapadera kwambiri mu dziko lanu lamkati, kuti munthu azikondwera ndi "chinsinsi chachinsinsi" chanu. Chinsinsi chanu kwa iye ndi vuto lalikulu la masamu, limene iye adzayesa kuthetsa ndi chidwi chochuluka, potero kukutsatirani inu ngati mwana. Mwana yemwe ali ndi chidwi ndi chirichonse chatsopano komanso chosadziwika. Khalani oyenerera ndipo panthawi imodzimodzi opanda lamulo (mwamuna weniweni ayenera kugonjetsa mkazi moyo wake wonse, ngakhale kukhala naye mbali) ndipo monga ndanenera kumayambiriro kwa nkhaniyi: dzikondeni nokha ndikukondani.