Kuti musapange zolakwa, ndikwanira kudziwa zomwe zimakwiyitsa kwambiri amuna.
Darling, simukuganiza kuti ine ...?
Ayi, izo sizikuwoneka kuti iye ndiwe wonenepa, wamafuta, iye sangakhoze ngakhale kuzindikira zazing'ono zako. Kotero musati muwakumbutse zolephera zanu kachiwiri. Ngati munthu sanapulumutse, sakunena za maonekedwe anu, choncho zonse zimamukwanira. Ngati mumamuuza nthawi zonse kuti mwapeza mapaundi angapo, mumakhala okalamba, mukuwoneka mochulukirapo, akuwunika ndikuwoneka bwino, koma akukuonani ndi maso anu. Pali ngozi yaikulu kuti pamapeto pake mudzatha kumutsimikizira kuti chinachake chikulakwika ndi inu.
Musati muchotsedwe!
Pamene chiyanjano chiyamba, atsikana amapita kukondweretsa mwamuna wawo. Iwo ali okonzeka kugona pa ochizira, tsiku lililonse kupita ku masewero olimbitsa thupi ndi solarium, kuchotsani tsitsi ngakhale pamene sikofunikira. Koma nthawi ina imadutsa, zilakolako zimatha, mtsikanayo amadziwa kuti munthuyo wagwidwa ndi kutonthozedwa. Choncho, kukula kwa mimba, manicure ndi kukongoletsera kwachisamaliro kumabwereranso mpaka tchuthi lotsatira, zowonongeka zimapezeka panthawiyi, koma pali chilakolako chosayembekezereka cha nsalu zofiira ndi thalauza zopanda pake.
Mwamuna amayamba kukondana ndi mtsikana mmodzi, koma amapeza zosiyana kwambiri, zomwe sazifuna konse. Kodi mumakhala ndi nthawi yatsopano?
Sungani malingaliro anu.
Amuna ndi zolengedwa zotsutsana, zotsutsana kwambiri kuposa akazi. Musakhale anzeru, koma musakhale opusa - ndicho chimene amuna akufuna. Zikuwoneka kuti imodzi ndi imodzi, koma izi siziri zoona. Chowonadi ndi chakuti malingaliro a munthu wanzeru ndi momwe amadziwonetsera, mukhoza kukhala osiyana kwambiri. Ngati mutayamba "kulemetsa" ndi chidziwitso chosatha chomwe chikuwoneka ngati chosangalatsa komanso chosasangalatsa, sipadzakhala zabwino.
Pachifukwa ichi, munthu wamba sangafune kuwona bulu wamba wopanda pake. Amafuna kulankhula nanu nthawi zina, ndipo ngati simungathe kuyankhulana, ndiye kuti chiyanjano chanu chidzawonongeka. Kuti mukhale wosangalatsa kwa iye, sikofunika kuphunzira chipangizo cha galimoto ndikuwonera masewero onse a mpira, nthawi zina kukhala ndi chidwi ndi zomwe zimamukondweretsa. Kapena muwerenge magazini a amuna, kumene kuli mawu.
Musakhudze opatulika!
Oyera angakhale chirichonse: mpira, disks, kompyuta, t-shirt yapadera. Musakhudze zinthu izi popanda chilolezo, musayese kusinthana makanema pamsinkhu wofunikira ndipo musayese kuyika zinthu momwe mukuganiza kuti palibe. Mwachitsanzo, mu mafayilo pa desktop. Izi zidzasokoneza mkangano ndipo zidzasokoneza ubale wanu.
Khalani chete!
Musamuuze anzanu, amayi kapena anzanu za ubale wanu. Iye ali wokwiya kwambiri. Musakambirane za ubale wanu wapamtima ndi abwenzi ake ndi amayi ake, iye sadzakondanso. Musapereke chinsinsi cha anthu ena - nthawi zambiri amuna amakhala okhudzidwa kwambiri ndi funso la kusunga zinsinsi za anthu ena. Ndipo kawirikawiri, kambiranani pang'ono.
Musakhale amoeba!
Mwamuna samakonda atsikana omwe alibe maganizo awo. Inde, ndizosangalatsa pamene msungwana akuyang'ana mwamuna ngati chitsimikizo chokha cha nzeru, koma musamachite zinthu mopitirira malire ndipo sangathe kusankha yekha payekha. Mwamuna sakudziwa momwe anali kukhalira pamaso pake, ngati sakanatha kusankha chovala, malo oti apite, zomwe akanena ndi zomwe akanalota. Musamudzule chifukwa chochita mantha, ndiye kuti munthu akhoza kukugulitsani mndandanda wa zolemba zapamwamba ndikupita ku tsogolo labwino ndikudzikonda.
Musamuyitane kuti ayende, ngati simukudziwa komwe mukufuna kupita. Kawirikawiri, khalani okhudzana kwambiri ndi zolakalaka zanu ndipo musawope kutenga udindo pa zina mwa zinthuzo.
Musakhale ozizira!
Amuna ndi anthu amoyo, kotero n'zosadabwitsa kuti amakonda atsikana okondwa komanso okondwa. Ngati nthawizonse mumakhala achisoni popanda chifukwa, nthawi zambiri mumalira mumtsamiro, kukana kugonana, kapena kugonana ndi magalasi, kwa nthawi yaitali ndi inu palibe mwamuna mmodzi adzakhala ndi inu.
Inde, mungathe kulemba mndandanda womwe mukufunikira ndi zomwe simufunikira kuchita ndi munthu. Chinsinsi chonse ndi chakuti pali malangizo amodzi okha abwino: chitani naye momwe mukufuna kuti zikhalire ndi inu. Ndipo pokhapokha mutapeza zotsatira zomwe mumakonda.