Tantra ndi dongosolo lonse la filosofi lomwe linayambira ku India zaka zikwi zambiri zapitazo. Kugonana kwa Tantric ndi mbali imodzi yokha ya ziphunzitso za a Buddhist a Tibetan. Koma m'zaka makumi asanu ndi limodzi, pamene yoga ndi kugwirizanitsa chiwerewere zinakhala zofewa kumadzulo, kugonana kwa tantric ndi neotantra zinayambira. Maphunzirowa akukhudzidwa ndi kuphunziranso zochitika za thupi, kukwaniritsa zosangalatsa za Mulungu kupyolera mwa kusakanikirana kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Chifukwa cha ichi, maphunziro a sayansi yakale ya Indian amakhoza kuwonekera mopanda malire ndi kugonana. Koma ngati akuwoneka mwadzidzidzi kwa inu, mukhoza kuchoka bwinobwino. Simukuyenera kugwiririra nokha mwa kuphunzira ndi aphunzitsi osapindulitsa, zikhoza kuvulaza. Mabuku pa chiphunzitso cha Tantra sanachotsedwebe, ndipo mukhoza kuchita pakhomo, nokha ndi wokondedwa wanu.
Mabwenzi oterowo amaukira pa nkhani ya Tantra . Koma kugonana kwa gulu ndi Tantra ndizosiyana. Inde, panthawi ya chikondi mu chipinda ndipo pangakhale angapo okwatirana, koma osasinthana nawo, koma akuchita hafu yawo. Pambuyo pake, ubale ndi wokondedwa uli pamwamba pa Tantra. Mu neotantra, ndizoona, zonse ndizotheka: onse kusinthana ndi abwenzi ndi kugonana ndi anthu angapo, koma izi ndizo kusankha kwa aliyense payekha. Kuumiriza ku zinthu zotere palibe amene ali ndi ufulu. Palibe malo odyera ndi kunyenga mu Tantra. Kugonana kwa a Buddhist a Tibetan kumatanthauza osati kugonana kokha, komanso kusanganikirana kwa miyoyo, mitima ya okonda. Chifukwa chake, kumudetsa mwachangu ndizomwe zimakhala zotalika komanso zamtundu wa thupi, sizikuyendayenda pamimba, koma kuphimba thupi lonse. Kusuntha kwa kugonana kwachangu kumakhalanso kosangalatsa, "ndi kukoma."
Onse omwe amalengeza zachiwerewere ngati zachilendo kwa ife - tantric - ndi altruists, chifukwa chinthu chachikulu apa sichiyenera kufika pamasewera anu, koma kuti musangalatse mnzanuyo. Kuonjezera apo, ngati munthu ali mkati mwa mkazi, ndiye kuti ali ndi mphamvu zowonjezereka, amatha kubwezeretsa mphamvu yomwe amatha kutaya panthawi yopuma. Msonkhano wachikondi woterewu ukhoza kutha kwa maola awiri kapena khumi.
Zingafanane ndi minofu yosasangalatsa , kuphatikizapo zochitika zachilendo, zozizira kupuma kapena ngakhale kutambasula. Koma chinthu chachikulu chomwe chimapanga maanju a tantric ndizomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pa wokondedwa. Ndipotu, mwamuna kapena mkazi wogonana naye ku Tantra ndi mulungu womwe mumakhala nawo. Mwa njira, pa kugonana kwachizungu, mulungu amayenera kukondwera, kudzipereka yekha ku chikumbumtima ichi osati kwachiwiri kuti asakayike kuti alipo. Pa nthawi ya kugonana kwachinyamata, onse awiri amachotsa zovuta komanso kuti masiku ano ndi ofunikira kwambiri, kudzikweza kwambiri. Ngati mumaphunzira kukwaniritsa mgwirizano womwewo ndi mnzanu, mu moyo wanu sipadzakhalanso zokhumudwitsa komanso kusakhutira pabedi, "kuvulaza" ndi "nsanje" zidzatha, ndipo zidzalowe m'malo ndi chikondi chofanana ndi kumvetsetsa.
Kuphatikiza pa gawo lachidziwitso , kugonana kwa tantric kumakhala ndi machiritso odabwitsa komanso amphamvu. Anthu omwe amalimbikitsa njirayi, pafupifupi osatembenukira kwa madokotala. Ndipotu, ali ndi njira zawo zokhazokha: zosangalatsa kuposa miyala.
Choyamba, muyenera kuphunzira bwino, kumverera thupi lanu ndi thupi la mnzanuyo. Kuti muchite izi, mukhoza kuchita zovuta, yesetsani kumva zinthu zomwe zinapangidwirapo, kununkhiza - kupeza maluwa abwino kapena zonunkhira za mafuta onunkhira, komanso pa concert - mvetserani chida chimodzi chokha kuchokera kwa oimba onse. Izi ndizovuta poyamba, koma m'kupita kwanthawi mudzapambana.
Gawo ili litatha, mukhoza kuyamba gawo la kugonana kwa tantric. Inu ndi mnzanuyo mudzafunika kusonkhana tsiku limodzi okhaokha. Sitiyenera kukhala ndi zinthu zowala kapena phokoso lozungulira, ndipo ndibwino kuiwala za TV kapena malo oimba muzochitika zoterezi. Ngakhale mungathe kukhala ndi nyimbo zosasangalatsa zomwe zimakhala zosangalatsa kapena zowoneka bwino zakutchire. Pakati pa kugonana, musasokonezedwe wina ndi mzake, kumbukirani: nkofunika kuganizira za wokondedwayo, osati kugonana.