Momwe mungabwezerere chilakolako mu ubale

Nthawi zambiri mabanja amagwa chifukwa chakuti chilakolako chafalikira. Maubwenzi apabanja sali osangalatsa kuchokera tsiku lililonse lomwe timagwiritsidwa ntchito pamodzi, komanso chizoloŵezi. Ambiri amaleka kuyang'ana momwe amachitira wina ndi mzake, kugonana kumakhala kosautsa ndipo kumakhala mwambo wamakhalidwe omwe umangothandiza kugona kapena kupatula nthawi. Koma pamene sizinali choncho, inu nonse mumakumbukira ndikusowa zofuna zanu. Akatswiri opatsirana pogonana amanena kuti n'zosatheka kubweretsana chidwi, izi zili pansi pa mphamvu ya banja lirilonse lomwe likufuna kupitiriza chiyanjano. Ngati chikondi sichinayambe, yesetsani kuchita nokha ndikuchitapo.

Yambani ndi nokha.
Mfundo yakuti mwamuna wanga anayamba kukuchitirani mozizira kwambiri, mwinamwake ali ndi mlandu. Koma ngati mwamuna kapena mkaziyo sakuyesera kuthetsa vutolo, ndipo mukulakalaka kusintha, wina akuyenera kuyamba. Ubale ndi ntchito yovuta imene siilipindulitsidwa nthawi zonse payeso. Koma musataye chiyembekezo. Choyamba, ganizirani zomwe zasintha mu ubale wanu wapamtima, ndi mavuto ati omwe mukuwona, chifukwa chake zikhoza kuchitika. Musaganize: " zonse ziri zoipa, " chifukwa ndithudi pali nthawi zabwino - kukhulupirika, nthawi zonse kapena china. Timafuna chilakolako chokha, tidzayesa kubwezeretsa.

Kukonzanso.
Kuti mulole ndege yatsopano mu moyo wanu, muyenera kuchotsa zonyansa zochuluka. Yang'anani mosamala m'chipinda chanu: kodi zimawoneka bwanji - m'malo mwa zokondweretsa kapena zosungiramo zopanda pake? Popanda kukhumudwa, chotsani chilichonse chomwe chimasokoneza zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zisamakhale bwino. Zinthu zakale, mabokosi, osati zogona zokongola, zithunzi zazing'ono zomwe zimataya zonyansa, ndi TV, makompyuta ndi nyali zowala - kupita ku chipinda china. Yesetsani kupanga chibwenzi chokwanira chomwe chimapanga mayanjano abwino.
Ndiye yang'anani pa chovala chanu. Kodi mungagone chiyani posachedwa - pajamas ndi masokiti kapena mu lingaliro lamasewera? Matumba onse a agogo aakazi, ma pajamas amawalola kuti adikire nthawi yawo - adzabwera zaka zambiri pambuyo pake. Dziwonetseni nokha kwa mkazi wanu mu zovala zonyansa kapena mukhale amaliseche - izi zimakondweretsa kwambiri.
Komabe, pakuyesera kukonzanso mkhalidwewo, nkofunika kupeŵa zonyansa. Musati muzitsatira zojambula ndi zovala zolaula, mwinamwake mwamunayo angachite mantha ndi kusintha kwadzidzidzi.

Sewerani ndi chilakolako.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo akhala akudziŵa kuti ngati mutatsanzira kwa nthawi yaitali zomwe siziri, zidzakhala zenizeni. Izi sizikukhudzana ndi ziphuphu - maonekedwe awo sangawonongeke ngakhale potsanzira kwambiri, koma chilakolako chikhoza kubwerera ngati mukukumbukira ndendende malingaliro anu onse, malingaliro ndi manja omwe mudali pa nthawi yaukwati. Pewani mpweya umene unalipo mpaka nthawi yomwe moyo wanu wa kugonana unasangalatsa.
Yambani ndi inu nokha - kumbukirani zomwe mukudula tsitsi pachiyambi cha chiyanjano chanu, zovala zomwe mumakonda, momwe munachitira ndi zomwe mwanena. Sinthani zonunkhira - zonunkhira kumachita amuna mogwira mtima kuposa zovala zogwiritsira ntchito. Musakhale pakhomo madzulo - khalani ndi chizoloŵezi chopita kukacheza, kuresitilanti ndi mafilimu nthawi yanu yaulere ndi mwamuna wanu. Mulole iye atsimikizire kuti amuna amakuganizirani, izi zimakhala zovuta kwambiri. Mwamuna wanu adzatsimikiza kuti ndinu wofunikira ndipo mukufuna kubwezeretsa malo otayika, tsopano akuyenera kutsimikizira. Kuti iye ndi woyenera inu. Koma musayese kukonda nsanje, mwinamwake kukambirananso kungathe kuthetsa kukangana, komwe kudzakulekanitsani kwambiri.

Zatsopano zothetsera mavuto akale.
Pamene chilakolako chachoka, chinthu chabwino kwambiri choyenera kuchita ndi kusiya zowonongeka. Dzikonzekere nokha kwa chinachake chomwe mpaka pano sichinathetsedwe. Lolani zofufuza zingapo zomwe sizitsutsana ndi mfundo zanu komanso ngati zonsezi. Chophimba chatsopano, chokongoletsera, kumapeto, malo omwe mumakumana nawo mwachikondi akhoza kuchita zodabwitsa. Koma pakufuna zinthu zachilendo, khalani nokha, okondedwa wanu akondane nanu, osati munthu amene mukufuna kumuwonekera.

Maganizo ndi malingaliro aliwonse, monga chogudubuza - ndiye mmwamba, ndiye pansi. Chilakolako chimatha, kenako chimatha. Ngati simunayambe kuyembekezera kutembenuka kwatsopano ndipo simukufuna kulingalira zomwe zotsatilazi zidzakhale, chitani, ndiye chikondi chanu chidzakhala chimodzimodzi ndi masiku oyambirira achidziwitso.